Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

[sugarchateau]

This was requested by a friend, I thought this would be a great opportunity to make an ass out of myself for the online community to benefit others, as well as, to make it quicker to reference to my own advise as this answers multiple questions. I promote safe sex!

** Disclaimer: I do not speak for all men and women. and uh- speak with your doctor for personalized medical advisement?**

1) Why do most women hate/fear anal?

a) Not all men know how to correctly give anal and hurt the woman, which ultimately ruins it for her.

b) It has a "porn star" stigma.

c) STD's and pink sock strikes fear into many.

d) Fears of poo poo accidents.

2) How could you correctly give anal?

a) If you are starting off going straight in for anal:

First, ask for permission. It requires patience, a lot of lube, slow/wet probing and a butt plug helps to relax and widen beyond the size of fingers.

b) If you want to have anal during sex:

First, ask for permission for anal (specifically). Now this version requires less patience depending on how pre-relaxed and aroused your partner is. Slab a lot of lube, spit, natural juices all over and really pay attention to the asshole and cheeks WHILE fucking the cunt, sucking a tit and flicking a clit with your other hand. All this stimulation are basic "warm-ups" and don't make the asshole the main focus, your girl will be warmed up and full of sensations that will relax her body enough to open up. You will feel it in her vagina as it loosens with arousal and in her ass as you keep your finger rubbing AT the entrance of her asshole and not probing inside (unless asked ofc). I'd advise to avoid: talking about switching to anal, as well as, slow dick insertion, because the fear or insecurity/attention can cause a person to tighten up and lose all your hard work. Dirty talking about all the things you feel and want to do to her will definitely help (unless you don't know how, but then if you didn't know how... I don't think you have enough experience to correctly give anal. )

When ya girl is really aroused, flip her around to doggy and continue giving her cunt the attention it needs. But now you fully expose her asshole to you and this allows you a good viewpoint. You will be able to see when her asshole is relaxed and be able to help keep it lubed and possibly lap it up. When she feels and sounds ready, you just shove your dick right in and just go for it till you are fucking her off the side of the bed. Now if she a noob to anal (and on birth control), take your free cum ticket and cum in her ass before she knows how shitty it is. It will be the best experience for both in the moment. The cum filling the asshole in that moment is a very sensitive moment for both. Enjoy!

- do not switch from anal into vaginal-

3) What is the difference between a vaginal and anal orgasm?

Vaginal orgasm:

A vaginal orgasm is a long and slow build of pressure and sensation. The vagina clenches and pulses. The release is quick, relieving and relaxing.

Anal orgasm:

An anal orgasm is a quick and instantaneous explosion of raw pulsing and intense waves of just orgasm after orgasm- basically a longer lasting huge orgasm that just blows your mind and then a wild and very noticeable sense of release.

4) The honest truth about why cum in the asshole sucks:

a) It feels like you have the wet shits afterwards.

b) Who knows if you got it all out the first time... The shits feeling can last a little longer than expected. All that comes out is little spurts of cum. grats.

5) How to better prepare for anal:

a) Butt plugs in multiple sizes. (sharpie, toothbrush and hairbrush handle work for beginners)

b) Colon cleaning methods: (not recommended regularly due to health effects)

- bowel-clearing laxatives, powders or supplements

- colonic irrigation or colon hydrotherapy

c) Shower before and after.

d) Practice eating out ass.

e) Enjoy watching some anal porn.

f) Find a new texture you enjoy.

g) practice having sex with a larger size butt plug inserted each time.

h) If guys really want to understand the sensitivity of anal, they should masturbate while doing it to themselves in order to really understand the joys and the pains of anal.

<3 I hope this helped open up some minds to it, it truly is enjoyable. I'd advise not to do it too much, but it definitely is an experience worth trying at least once! (if done right and properly prepared). <3

[MlleCake]

1. Not spit or juices. Proper sex lube. Spit and "juices" dry too quickly for most anal, plus, the act of repeatedly dipping fingers into the vulva to smear juices around the anus introduces infectious germs to the vagina and urethral area.
2. Colon cleaning? NO laxatives. Laxative are for people who need medical treatment of constipation. They are not for preparing for sex. Some people use an enema occasionally. Using them frequently is bad for health, but for most people, none of this is necessary. Just good bowel habits, making sure the rectum is empty and the anus has been washed of any debris are usually all anyone needs.
3. The key to anal comfort is not stretching or widening, but learning how to consciously control the second (internal) sphincter. The easiest way to control it is to bear down like attempting to make a poo, and it will open naturally.

You've got a lot here. Good work. You hit most of the major points.

The only thing I always add is going back and forth between the anus and the vagina, either fluids mixing back and forth, or finger or penis going back into the vagina after being in the anus, gets feces into the vagina which causes infection. Once you move to the ass, stay with the ass until everyone has had a hot shower with soap.

[sugarchateau]

1. lol I promise I said, "Slab a lot of lube, spit, natural juices all over " combo. BUT you are right about it requiring specific and separate acknowledgement so thank you for pointing that out! 2. For all colon cleaning I made sure to say, "(not recommended regularly due to health effects)". I did not know about Enema. I should've mentioned good bowel movements. Again, thank you! These are fucking really good points I should've brought separate attention to. 3. I honestly did not know about the anatomy part. Again, excellent points! Thank you for reading and helping to inform everyone, including myself! <3

[CaptainLegal]

1. About the lube, it's better an oil based lube, cause water based lube dries too fast. 2. Yeah laxatives are bad idea, also enemas are safe if you do them once or twice per week, after all nobody does anal sex very often. 3. Yup, it will take practice for begginers because it's the reverse, you push something inside not outside.

[MlleCake]

@CaptainLegal An oil based lube may NOT be better. Most men will want to use a condom when introducing their penis into a rectum, to keep fecal germs out of his urethra. In that case, oil-based lubes would be a problem. SILICONE based seem to work very well for anal play, but is still condom safe.

Get Wet! The Ins and Outs of Good Sex Lube ↗

[CaptainLegal]

I never tried anal sex with a condom, so the only lubes are tried are water and oil based. I never tried a silicone lube.

[manmeat]

@mllecake have u ever orgasmed from anal?

[MlleCake]

@manmeat Have you?

[manmeat]

nope not found a woman that can massage prostate yet

[StuDzzzz]

I like to try anal with a girl

[roland77]

@CaptainLegal Oil is not good for anus/rectum it may cause some damage. Best choice of lubricant is silicon-based lube because it stays most longest.

[JonJames]

There is a way to avoid the "wet shit." First, learn and practice your anal kegels. They are the same as kegels -- but instead of using your peehole to flex and strengthen your pussy muscles you use your ass hole to strengthen your ass muscles. It is as simple as push out... hold it... with breathing and repetition of differing times. (Push for 3 seconds, hold for 3. Then try 5, etc.) Than anus should move like this * O * O * O. Once you have those muscles tuned up, PUSH OUT while he orgasms. You should feel the head of his penis slip into the second sphincter -- which is tighter and hotter "up there." If you do it right, you take advantage of the body's natural inclination to "suck in" up there - and he can pull out without spilling a drop. It can help for him to physically hold your cheeks together for a little bit after until you gain control. From here, it can stay in for hours -- or until the next morning. Best part? When it does come out, it comes out all at once. Sometimes, one girl would tell me it never came out at all -- she felt as though her body absorbed it. In any case, it sounds like a lot right now. But once you get in a rhythm, nothing to it. He tells you to push out when he is ready to cum. Instead of going in and out, he grinds and flexes his dick on every shot.

[JonJames]

(Continued) Then you clench off, and he holds cheeks shut for good measure. Think of it this way. When a girl takes an enema, some water can get trapped up there, and she is no more the wiser of it. But it can come out later during vigorous anal. But if you leave it alone, it will stay put until nature takes its course. BONUS. If you can get in this deep -- and communicate enough for him to flex and pump while you milk him dry with your colon? Not only are there no "we shits." Your orgasm should be heightened -- and so should his. My record is 8 jets of cum deep in her -- head jumping each time. Her pulling hard and up and in. The result, the next morning it seemed like there was a gallon of cum up there. She sat down to go and it gushed out -- she left the door open. It sounded like a waterfall -- the heat of her ass had thinned out the cum and her anal walls had added even more fluids. She moans again and says "It smell like cum." Instant boner, I walk in for an amazing BJ -- and we back at anal not long after that.

[Browneye57]

A few more things...
It's not for casual encounters - far better for committed couples.
It's not for everyone. If you don't like it don't do it.
It can be messy.

And...
About 75% of couples try this at some point.
About 35% of women will tolerate it occasionally.
About 10-15% of women like it and do it regularly - huge O's reported.
About 50% of guys like it, the other half think it's gross.

So there ya have it. If you're lucky to find one that likes it you're in hershey-heaven!! LOL

And if ya got a huge dick yer never gettin' butt-sex. :)

[sugarchateau]

Thank you for sharing this important information! Hershey heaven for some, not all, got it! lolol

[Browneye57]

Yeah, the 'wet shits' suck, eh? Just don't wear white pants. AKA squirts. You can always ask him not to come in there. ;)

[roland77]

Don't say never. It is about relaxation and expanding the anus.

[Music100]

@roland77 1 pooped kn my boyfriend once. And he wanted to do anal. And he's been in prison. But it felt good but bad at first

[alexandra_]

I love anal. A bunch of lube makes the big difference ❤️

[Anon-ymous1]

Good girl.

[manmeat]

@alexandra_ have u ever had an orgasm from it?

[JonJames]

Watching her fart out the lube and cum after? Priceless!

[heyyyyy123]

I always feel awkward talking about it because I swear to god I’m the only one of my friends that has done it.
I think people make it out to be this big ordeal with a lot of preparation. In all honest I barely remember the first time I did anal, I was drunk and agreed to it because my boyfriend had really wanted to do it for a while and I guess I was cool with it lol.
In all honesty it didn’t even hurt the first time because I was so drunk and relaxed. And he knew how to use lube, you have to have to use lube. But I remember after a while telling him to stop because it got really unfomfortable. All in all it was kind of fun and funny at the same time. I was just so surprised I agreed lol.
But after that I have done it quite a few times because I love my boyfriend and every once in a while he’ll feel like doing it. I remember at first it hurt like hell and I hated it with a passion and it was ungodly uncomfortable. Like I knew I would survive but it was just not fun lol. I’ve never had any messy incidents or anything like surprisingly. Not once lol.
Which is very strange, but I guess I literally am so terrified at that thought that my body just makes sure it doesn’t happen no matter what. As you keep doing it, it gets easier. But in all honesty I haven’t done it that much and it still hurts. But it’s bearable kind of now lol. I didn’t do any preparing of any kind which is probably not a good thing, but oh well.
I think if you are planning on doing it a lot or a full long session of it, you are going to have to. The process I go through is pretty short because I don’t want it to go on much longer in all honesty. It’s not weird, gross or disgusting. It’s just anal lol. Like some people are a bit weird over it, I was one of those people believe it or not. But once you do it, your realize that it’s literally nothing too special and as long as you do it right nothing bad happens. I guess it’s just taboo is all.

[sugarchateau]

Yea, it's definitely a taboo! It's interesting that you say you are used to it but never describe the orgasms that you get from it. DO you get orgasms from it or are you literally just doing it for your boyfriend and don't have any orgasms? I feel like after I orgasms from anal, then it starts getting uncomfortable, but the minute of insertion just has enough of a slide and slight enough pain combo that just pushes me over the edge and has my body full on orgasming because of it. Best orgasm to me.

[Mitch-french]

I'll tell you something. I am 50. Had sex with maybe a 150 girls. Out of that, anal sex with maybe a 100 girls. I'm sure 90% of the other 50 have done it at least once. Out of the 100 girls, I would say more than half loved it, some did it to please me but we're more or less indifferent and maybe 2 did not enjoy it (maybe the first five). That gives you perspective when you say you are the only of your friend to do it. No way.

[piaalewiss]

personally i dont like anal cuz it just feels like im taking a shit that truly will never come out and just keeps getting sucked in, if he goes down far enough it starts to feel good, but if i had a choice i wouldn't do it. if my nigga wanted to do it though than why not? sex is about compromise and pleasure, the ass is tighter than the pussy anyways so you gotta do what you gotta do lmaooo. ;)

[PleaseNoPineapples]

How many times have you tried anal? That "taking a shit" feeling is what I love about it lol. I had my 1st anal 3some recently (one of my fuckbuddies fucked me in the ass while I blew my other fuckbuddy) and it was awesome. I've been slut shamed for having 3somes with my fuckbuddies but I don't care... How come a guy gets praised for having a 3some with 2 girls but when a girl has a 3some with 2 guys, she's a slut? Fuck double standards.

[Anon-ymous1]

I downvoted you because you said "my nigga."

[sugarchateau]

lol the ass isn't always tighter than the pussy. The ass is tighter if it isn't ready to be inserted... and that's when damage happens. Which is when you shouldn't push for anal. You should only do anal when you are ready or you won't have a fun time and your man won't be able to really enjoy the ride.

[manmeat]

@PleaseNoPineapples ye thats totally double standards just ignore their bs

[JonJames]

Some really great points here.

I'd just disagree with the shits after anal. It does not have to happen. I was able to get the head of my cock to reach her colon. (I am seven inches and she learned to push out to help her colon descend).

This is the second sphincter -- the asshole within the asshole if you will. This is the one that sucks in objects, etc. (Always make sure you toy has a flange, or a wide base, for anal.)

Anyway I would unload DEEP in her second sphincter and it would immediately suck my cum way up deep. I'd pull out, and not a spurt would come out. In fact, it would stay for hours if not until the next day. The beauty of that is, it would all come out at once. However, sometimes she'd say it never came out at all -- somehow her body absorbed it. The colon can absorb liquids so this is possible. Anyway, we solved the "shits" issue.

[JonJames]

Also -- a lot to take away here. But girls, if you take one thing away -- this is brilliant. I can honestly say it has turned some "iffy" anal situations into pure bliss because it helped the girl so much. Awesome. 3. The key to anal comfort is not stretching or widening, but learning how to consciously control the second (internal) sphincter. The easiest way to control it is to bear down like attempting to make a poo, and it will open naturally.

[eurochick]

Good post. If done well anal is great.

[sugarchateau]

Thank you!

[manmeat]

@eurochick can you orgasm from it?

[Molkabz]

Well it's forbidden in my religion (lslam) because it has bad effects on both the man and the woman but that's the only reason i wouldn't do it.

[sugarchateau]

Very solid reasons not to do it. <3

[Molkabz]

Thank you ❤

[Mitch-french]

Do you realise that men from your religion always go for that?

[manmeat]

@molkabz bad effects in what way?

[roland77]

@manmeat I am wondering the same?

[CurvyPryde]

Well said. Thanks for sharing.

[sugarchateau]

Thanks for your support!

[coralee]

You forgot a main reason why some girls don't like anal. We don't have prostates. We aren't anatomically designed for it like men are. There are nerve endings in women's anal tracts but not ones designed solely for pleasure. Some women can orgasm from it, but many of us can't. It just isn't worth the effort for some of us.

[sugarchateau]

I honestly didn't know that not all woman can, that's actually very critical information. Thank you so much for sharing!

[manmeat]

@sugarchateau have you ever orgasmed from anal?

[JonJames]

Well -- not exactly. A woman's clitoris is actually a wishbone shaped organ. The nub -- or button -- is at the top of the vajayjay. But the "legs" reach right down to the anus. So, physically, any woman can orgasm from anal alone. Of course, mental and social taboos are too hard for some women to break. But on a physical scale, it is impossible for a woman to never feel pleasure from her anus. Try this. Put one hand out in front of you, palm up. Then with your other hand, lightly trace circles in the middle of your palm using your middle finger. Go light, and use the soft pad of your finger, not the nail. Feel it? Now, your anus is 1000 times more sensitive. Are you telling me a soft, warm tongue gently exploring it would not feel amazing? Of course, some women just don't like it. But I would say, 99 times out of 100, he is either too clumsy -- or does not have enough knowledge -- to walk you through what it takes to orgasm from anal. Or maybe, he is just not the right guy. Or maybe -- you tried it a lot, and just don't like it. Anything is possible. And that anything includes lots of anal Os.

[JesseEllyson]

Well thought out. I particularly like that last part where you suggest men try anal on themselves to know how it feels. As it happens, I do that. I have a rather large dildo, which I'm using right now as I write this, and I've had the extreme pleasure of being fucked anally by a number of men. I love it. I prefer it when a guy pulls out before he cums. I like to finish him off in my mouth. There's nothing like sucking a dick fresh from my ass.

[sugarchateau]

I'm glad you are so quick to follow a suggestion lol enjoy yourself!

[dressed2kell]

"a) It feels like you have the wet shits afterwards.

b) Who knows if you got it all out the first time... The shits feeling can last a little longer than expected. All that comes out is little spurts of cum. grats."

Semi-titillated you've had this experience. 😈

[sugarchateau]

lmao, I never even thought that someone would get excited about that. brilliant :)

[dressed2kell]

🥀🤘

[JonJames]

Helps if you have a guy willing to suck it out after. I would -- and have. Butt -- funny thing. Not an issue for a lot of women. They try to keep it in as long as possible usually. Sometimes, the colon absorbs it, and any issue is done.

[TheMermadon123]

I think that often people think of full anal penetration as the only form of Anal sex. Often anal teasing is more acceptable and even more intense than penetration. Often a partner will enjoy a little finger teasing them during Vaginal penetration. Its the taboo the excitement the will it actually happen that highness the senses and makes orgasm so much more intense. Use a glove and lube and have a lot of fun teasing :)

[sugarchateau]

Well said!!

[NeglectedChild]

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Morality is most definitely subjective.

Prevention is better than cure in my opinion but I guess there's no harm in advising people how to stay safe.

Also poo is gross, but that's just me.

[sugarchateau]

Poo is gross, for sure. Prevention is better, but just like casual sex... It's almost impossible to avoid that desire, for some. I'm glad you appreciate advising people to stay safe <3

[NeglectedChild]

It's the lesser of two evils. Similar to advising drug users not to share needles, in order to avoid transmitting diseases when administering intravenous drugs into their systems. I may object to drug use, but maintaining a level of safety is arguably the more sensible thing to do. But anything is possible, who would have known you can get pregnant from anal.

[sugarchateau]

Such a respectable opinion! Wow! <3 You're so kind and considerate, it's very nice.

[Gaybestfriend]

All you straight people are so adorable. Why not ask the people who know what we are doing with penetrative anal sex: gay men like me.

For many bottoms (women in the cause of M/F anal) you will need to prepare. Douching, a healthy diet is all important especially if your man is well endowed. Otherwise there will be accidents. I have a process (I’m the bottom most of the time). Sometimes it’ll just be a bad day to bottom and you have to accept that.

you need to relax and that takes practise to really master. That is both mental and physical. Part of this is you need a considerate man who will take things gradually as you get used to it. If he can’t do that then he doesn’t deserve anal sex.

[SirRexington]

I've always been curious to try it. Never had the opportunity though. My last sexual partner was two years ago and she hated anal.

[sugarchateau]

Some girls are into it! i hope you are gentle

[SirRexington]

I'm a gentle lover anyway. I'm not into rough stuff in general.

[roland77]

Sorry to hear it. Just don't push to it and explain her all steps. My now-ex wife first said (Roman-Catholic) it is gay-sex, later, after I explained it to her and all precautions and "rewards" from it, like intense orgasms and super-intimate feeling, she later came to me shy (head done) and stroke my arm carefully to ask me more about it. She maybe was into it.

[roland77]

Thank you for the long guide, most is correcct in my view. But don't advice people into watching anal porn. Most is done harsh and that is plain wrong, gentle and slooooooow!

And also silicon-based lubricant should be used as water-based dries out very quick. Simply remember what the rectum does? Yes, removing fluids from its interior. Silicon will stay much longer than water.

And #Anilingus is okay with me.

[roland77]

And please don't be surprised if you visit the house of Mr. Poopy and actually see him on your penis! ;-)

[roland77]

Panic-making about STDs and anal cancer:
Wanna try anal sex? First read this? ↗

Oh, we will all die from it. I guess she never heard the word condom?

[Chaoseverywhere]

anal? some girl say daddy fuck me in the ass
so i fuck her in the ass. she said my small dick is too big, it hurts her,
but she wanted to be like asa akira
so she keep doing till she love it
now i fuck her there everytime.

SHE SEE ASA AKIRA = SHE WANT TO BE ASA AKIRA

[Chaoseverywhere]

don't know whats the big deal. feels good to me/and her so.

[Nik1hil]

You should write takes more often

[sugarchateau]

I really appreciate your positivity. I just hope to be honest and inform as many people who needed it. Maybe I can save someone who might influence another to try.

[Nik1hil]

Its actually amazing how you can give words to complex things, in the simplest words. easy to grasp , and soothing to read..

[sugarchateau]

Yay, I almost successfully dumbed it down hahaha

[Nik1hil]

my takes should have simple language, we are pool of rookies in English , not YALE, PRINCETON, HARVARD, HOGWARTS pass outs... if i want deep language i can easily switch to the work of 80's novel authors.. of England..

[sugarchateau]

Sometimes those big words help sum up a bunch of little words, but ya.. not a lot of people will take the time to look it up. Using slang is hard to understand as well, so i didn't want to use that either lolol

[jacquesvol]

It's not always pleasant: Was I technically raped? ↗

[sugarchateau]

So it looks like she consented beforehand, which throws it into rape greyzone. She was obviously in pain and her boyfriend should've respected her and pulled out as to avoid hurting her. BUT he was ignorant and thought it was supposed to hurt... and so he hurt her thinking this was how anal was supposed to be. Like adults, they should've consulted a little more about it beforehand. Like what to expect and how they can prepare. But neither of them didn't... It sounds like 2 inexperienced people who don't know what they are doing, the guy sounds like a really selfish fucker. When IT DOES become rape is when she verbally ASKS him to get out of her vagina after his dick was in her asshole. She is clearly disturbed, disgusted and hurt at this time.. Yet he continues in total disregard to her. That, my friends is rape. Because now he has received an actual verbal command and cue to get the fuck out and he didn't.

[MlleCake]

If he intimidates her to an extent that she really can't say no, that's rape too. I am not commenting on this specific situation, just rape grey areas in general.

[JSmith925]

@MlleCake @sugarchateau Both of these posts are accurate. No means no. . . not maybe. ~JSmith

[jacquesvol]

The question shows clearly anal isn't always pleasant

[MlleCake]

Indeed, it can be very unpleasant, such as a situation in which one was raped, or otherwise unprepared for it. It can be unpleasant even if everything goes the way it should, simply because not every person is going to like the sensations.

[jacquesvol]

A new kind of rape: ignorant rape s3.amazonaws.com/.../gop_rape_advisory.gif

[Hannajenky]

haha funny post

[sugarchateau]

I'm glad you enjoyed it!

[MrMAC777]

Wow I love your takes. Basically blunt honest talk. I am falling in love with a 23 yr old lol

[sugarchateau]

Awe, I'm honored! It's all about honesty

[MrMAC777]

😍 honesty is the best policy!

[sugarchateau]

Ya! I'd hate to waste anyones time

[Nexovous]

Take him up on his offer! He's the guy from lucky charms and we all know leprechauns are loaded with cash!

[MrMAC777]

@Nexovous 👍👍👍lol

[sugarchateau]

@Nexovous Awe! I thought they were loaded up with marshmallows :^( childhood ruined

[MrMAC777]

Leprechauns can buy all da marshmellows ye be desirin' wit our gold lol 😜

[sugarchateau]

Sorry to break it to you, but I can't eat gold. Also, I don't want Goldmember from Austin Powers to come chase me for it.

[MrMAC777]

Lol goldmember

[Nexovous]

How did we get to talking about austin powers... Loaded with marshmallows? Is this some kind of joke? Who do you think i am? Of course 'm loaded with marshmallows! I'm also part of a balanced breakfast. ;) I had to throw that last part in there though!

[SimpleGirl94]

I love anal orgasm <3
It is much much better then vaginal

[manmeat]

@simplegirl94 do u cum from anal

[Bond94]

I would like to meet you

[Chuck21]

Ur one in a million 🌹

[Thisguy420]

Me too!!!

[NYCQuestions1976]

Ha! Making an "ass" out of yourself while talking about anal. Well done...

[sugarchateau]

Thanks! I tried to make it painless

[NYCQuestions1976]

Okay okay... quit while you're ahead. lol

[sugarchateau]

LMFAO

[lord_chilled]

Lol, i never tought i'd hear a girl say when she is ready, just put it in and fuck away till you cum.

That sounds very alluring but also kinda like jumping the gun after all that prepping.

Nice take.

I wouldn't ask my woman for anal if she didn't like it.
But i would like to know how it feels to cum in the ass before i die

[sugarchateau]

I believe that consent and preparation is vital. After those two marks are checked off, I believe it's more fun to take the spontaneous route of the path; adding some extra personal flavor and passion to the mix. To heat it up a bit, ya know? Definitely don't go down in your grave until you've tried it. lol it's to die for

[lord_chilled]

Yeah that sounds nice 😀

[roland77]

It is tighter and orgasms for both (if done correctly) can be very intense.

[watisgoingon]

not into anal anyway. i'd rather just eat the booty

[sugarchateau]

I guess you could say that you have an acquired taste.

[roland77]

Booty means here poo, yuck! Or do you mean Cunnilingus and her liquids?

[thedoctormsh]

Does unprotected Anal sex in Mutual Monogamous relationship (Commitment like in marriage), can cause urethritis of (non-STD & non-gonococcal)?
Does unprotected Anal sex in Mutual Monogamous relationship (Commitment like in marriage), can cause urethritis of (non-STD & non-gonococcal)? ↗

[Philyouup]

Well said! Slowly and dont rush.. Butt plugs are you friend. and If you want to do your girl in the ass, you might consider letting her play with yours ass well.. Whats good for the goose... is good for the gander... LOL

[sugarchateau]

Hahaha same applies when guys expect their girl to swallow... the guy should be okay with tasting his own first.

[Molkabz]

And he should be ok with eating you out @sugarchateau

[Philyouup]

been and done!

[Philyouup]

@Molkabz I guy that won't eat you out, is a child, particularly if he likes his BJs

[Molkabz]

Okay so i forgot about this comment so imagine my reaction when i read "if a guy won't eat you out" i literally choked on my coffee ") but yes I agree, i wouldn't give a BJ if he's not okay with eating me out lol

[Molkabz]

Also, I live in an arab (ish) society and there is NO man that would like to eat a woman out. Needless to say, it's an instant no for these.

[Philyouup]

@Molkabz that sucks, dont it..

[Molkabz]

You have no idea

[roland77]

@sugarchateau Why so? I'm not drinking sperm. Or have you drunk your own pussy liquids?

[roland77]

@Molkabz Yes, that is fine with me. But my own sperm? I checked it when I was 14 or so and I didn't like it because I'm not into sucking penis.

[manmeat]

@Molkabz why dont u move to a better contry can't believe arabs won't eat a woman out thats just wrong and missing out on the pleasures of licking pussy :D

[monkeynutts]

Haha I'm too old for these kind of shenanigans. Pink sock, something or other. I enjoyed reading!

[sugarchateau]

Pink sock does sound cute until you connect it to bodily functions. Bleh! Thanks for reading!! <3

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

No I don't wanna talk bout anal

[sugarchateau]

Aha! You just did. good job lol

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

ah you tricked me

[sugarchateau]

Tricks are for kids lol

[2opaz]

They don't call me BP Oil Drill for nothing

[sugarchateau]

lmfao. slick

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Mostly from the lube

[Nexovous]

Aye! That's a good one.

[NightOwl8801]

Pretty good article.
If done right it can be enjoyable for each person.

[Anon-ymous1]

Truth.

[sugarchateau]

Thank you! <3

[NightOwl8801]

You're welcome

[rippedabs]

love anal sex.. white girls anal hole is the natural habitat of black penis

[sugarchateau]

hahaha noted

[rippedabs]

you liked anal with a black man before?

[SirRexington]

This comment... Is hilarious!.

[rippedabs]

@SirRexington but its true bro white anal hole is the promised land for black penis ask @sugarchateau hahaha

[sugarchateau]

I dated a few black men, but I was always way too intimated to have sex with them. I've always heard that they were too big and I just wasn't ready

[SirRexington]

White girls are the best. I don't know why. I'm not black by way, I don't want to confuse anybody. I just think this was funny and I agree with it.

[rippedabs]

@sugarchateau you still not watch a dark chocolate coffee coming in and out of your delicious pink hole? we can try it if you want lol

[rippedabs]

cock lol

[sugarchateau]

Still pretty intimidated hahaha

[rippedabs]

my duty as black man is feed white girls anal hole with my cum you will never go back lol

[sugarchateau]

Such an honorable dooty.

[rippedabs]

white girls pleasure is my mission.. we must take care of our property i want to keep proud of seeing that white girl pussy and anal is the playground of black penis

[CoffeeWC]

damn, girl

[sugarchateau]

No shame in truth. I hope I saved someones experience.

[MrCurious1983]

Great post. Very well written!

[sugarchateau]

Thank you so much!!

[CT_CD]

I love receiving anal

[villageidiot]

You'll have to get together with @herelby. He threatened to sodomize me for disagreeing with him

[sugarchateau]

I'm glad you enjoy it! Not many guys do!

[roland77]

The question is, from who? A gay or a woman with a dildo strapped-on?

[Revolver_]

I don't want to talk about anal, it's gross

[sugarchateau]

You just did, good job. Also, welcome to the page about anal... lol

[Revolver_]

Thank you

[BOUNTYGUY9]

l would do anal with you you will have to clean your arse out first l have not done anal before but l do wish to please you?

[roland77]

It is not the question to do it with her.

[doflamingo457]

i dont eat ass, i just do the abc's on dat pussy

[sugarchateau]

Everyone has their preference <3

[doflamingo457]

i dont like do the abc's literally, its just a trick i spell it out with the motion of my tongue

[sugarchateau]

hahaha I wasn't concerned about your sex tactics.

[doflamingo457]

trsut me it works everytime.. almost

[sugarchateau]

"every time... almost" lol HMMM convincing.

[doflamingo457]

"yes everytime almost"- 9/10 on Yelp Reviews

[sugarchateau]

9/11 for sure

[doflamingo457]

why 9/11 is there another review that was jsut made

[sugarchateau]

9/11 means it must've been a huge killer... it's dark humor lol

[Sabretooth]

Glad to see this-maybe this can undo the damage morons have caused

[sugarchateau]

I know, it truly is enjoyable when done right. I hate to see so many getting scarred for life because idiots are too eager and don't know all the steps to consider for both parties. Even women are morons for not educating themselves when and if they had the opportunity beforehand.

[Sabretooth]

Agreed. I'd only focus on getting the head in-occupy myself with her tits while she does the rest until SHE says that SHE is ready-no matter the level of intimacy-only she'll know if she's ready for me to move... though-I wouldn't say watching anal porn necessary. As far as men wanting it so bad-it's really you girl's fault, anyway.

[Sabretooth]

Is that you in the picture?

[rockrewls]

Interesting, I don't do anal...

[sugarchateau]

Interesting! lol

[NJOShadows]

hmm I see.. very informative!
SO a few questions
1. the ANAL orgasm.. is this simply by anal penetration alone. OR does it require other stimulation?
2. What is the influence of cock size on anal sex? is it possible to have one that isn't fit for anal?
3. You stated if its the first time, to cum in her ass? you state that is a very sensitive moment (I assume good?).. but also kinda imply its not the greatest thing for the girl?

[sugarchateau]

1. Sometimes I feel like it's both, as well as, one or the other. 2. Thinner and smaller dick is easier to take in the ass. Some people are size queens and enjoy large dick, but i'd say that i'd avoid large dick for anal. 3. Yes, a very good and raw moment of pure bliss due to how sensitive it becomes after a first time. The cum will fill her up and really push her even more over the edge. Its a momnet to not be ruined... UNTIL the inevitable.. of realizing that it feels like you have the squirts afetrwards. Sometimes that kills the vibe for women.

[Benzboy1]

Just do it the right way though. It’s so tight and warm. It can get dirty and smelly but i recommend not doing it if you get disgusted easily. Condoms are also recommended but not required. It’s a relief to not worry about getting your partner pregnant. That’s why anal is the best

[Dhalia16]

I like it sometimes. But most of the timesxit hurts. I am a petite. I think if the guys would not be so pressing and more patient it could open up and then it’s cool. But not waiting enough can then be very painful. I think it’s so arousing for guys once they are in a little that they must... well... push and dril...

[Sabretooth]

I'd just get the head in and let you do the rest... just keep my mind off it by playing with your tits

[roland77]

He should slow down and be patient.

[JonJames]

You are almost there for awesome anal orgasms. You need a decent, patient, loving guy. Sometimes, once the head is in, it is worth it stop. Breathe. Breathe together. At some point, the clenching stop. The anus goes from this * to this (o). He still can't start hammering away. But if half the dik slips in without really pushing too much? You are well on your way. Don't let your petite size concern you. Some very small ladies take some very large diks smoothly into their butt holes. You have a much better chance of reaching that mythical a-spot -- and squirting when you orgasm.

[Sexymongrel]

If you want to do anal just stick it in a whores ass, pay them 50 extra

[sugarchateau]

Asking beforehand is just the considerate and humane thing to do. Money doesn't mean you should let entitlement get to your head, it builds bad character. You might be stuck having to continuously pay your sex partners to get laid. Who knows! I'd advise to just play it safe for both her and yourself.

[roland77]

Not all prostitutes are into anal sex.

[chad-hatten]

Good information

[sugarchateau]

I'm glad you found it useful <3

[Anonymous]

1. A
2. B
3. My anal orgasms are way more powerful than vaginally orgasms
4. B
5. A

[Anonymous]

Girls need to be fucked in their assholes and mouths in addition to their pussies.

[Molkabz]

I would tell you you need to be fucked in the brain but looks like you already are ❤

[Opinion Owner]

Why? Women like being treated like a pornstar.

[Molkabz]

The ones you're around maybe

[roland77]

No, if she doesn't want it you just make it worse.

[Anonymous]

I guess I'll skip breakfast this morning.

[JSmith925]

Ha ha. I had a similar reaction. I'm not closed on the subject but. . .

[sugarchateau]

It doesn't hurt to skip a meal <3

[Opinion Owner]

When the discussion turns disgusting, I become nauseous.

[sugarchateau]

Some people can handle and some people can't. I'm sorry I ruined your breakfast though

[Opinion Owner]

No Prob.

[roland77]

Put on a strong condom and your penis is protected from poo.

[Anonymous]

Whats pink socks? And i guess C/D is why i fear anal. Its nasty, super unsanitary, and dooky-ish. Im a littled scarred because he tried doing that to me without permission. We were supposed to be trying vaginal doggystyle and he tried to force it into my ass. Even witth permission i’d still be against it. I’d never be into anal. Butt plugs? Yuck? How long will it take these peoples ass to close back up. Their shit will fall out wihtout them even havingg to push it out. Ass eating is even more disgusting than anal sex. Im against all anal play and dont come blowing up my opinion post people. I've stated what/why im against it. Also, anal is a gay mans activity. Im not partaking in that. The end

[sugarchateau]

Yeah, obviously it's not for everyone. This is here for those who want to know more about it. So welcome to reading more about it even though you dont want to know about it? lol

[Opinion Owner]

I do like that you told people how to be safer with it though. What is pink socks?

[sugarchateau]

hahah uh pink sock is painful to talk about and to look at. It's when your anus turns inside out, pretty much.

[Opinion Owner]

Ewwwww

[sugarchateau]

YEA! lol I'm sorry I scarred you, but it's better to be educated about this dangerous stuff lolol

[Opinion Owner]

Not scared. I said “scarred”. My ex scarred me for life. I never wanted to try any sex from behind (not vaginally nor anally) and when i tried to be nice and try vaginal doggy, he tricked me and tried to push it into my ass. It felt like rape in a way but i won't call it that. He thrusted maybe 2 good times trying to get it in before i made him stop. I wanted to cry but held it in. It was so painful and my hemerrhoids were down the following day. My mom had to stick an enema up me to push them back up. It was so embarassing. And ik he and i were not safe because we didn't use a condom when he did that and after wiping himself with a papertowel, he shoved it into my pussy. I feel so stupid now knowing i let him doubledip

[sugarchateau]

I must admit, i'm slightly confused by what you said here: "Not scared. I said “scarred”. " Also, accidents happen. I mean, sometimes thats just how people have to learn. Now you can help educate others too! You can be a hero to some little girl or boy somewhere <3

[Opinion Owner]

Scared means frightened. Scar aka scarred means traumatized.

[sugarchateau]

No I know, but I didn't say scared. I said scarred. lolol that's why im confused

[Anonymous]

i hate it.
we, regular people don't have enough info to do anal like pornstars does it.
its painfull as hell for the girls and when i tried it, i bleed because my anus wall got torned or whatever, it wasn't serious but not worth the pain anyway. plus it could get seriously embarrassing.

[sugarchateau]

Some people always will even if they did like it. I'm hoping to help inform so that they can do it safer as well as prevent guys from hurting girls.

[Opinion Owner]

i didt it just to satisfy my boyfriend.

[JonJames]

Sorry that happened to you. Did he start with a tongue? That can change everything...

[Anonymous]

Personally, I would never have anal, it's disgusting, and disrespectful for women... besides, biologically speaking, anus is not a sex organ, the only purpose of anus is defecation, that's what makes it so repulsive for most people.

[Opinion Owner]

@Anon-ymous1 Hand is not used in sex, it's used in masturbation. Therefore, anal is wrong, because that organ is naturally used for defecation.

[Opinion Owner]

@Anon-ymous1 Nope, I would never ask that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Anon-ymous1 Thanks.

[Opinion Owner]

@roland77 Nobody asked you, stop spamming on other people's opinions.

[Anonymous]

I don't mind anal but it hurts a bit and the guy gets more out of it than I do. If a guy I'm seeing wants to do anal I normally say I'll agree as long I can show them what it feels like first. Most give up there, but sometimes I get to break out the restraints and strap on and then we both have a lot of fun.

[sugarchateau]

Ya show em how its done hahaha

[Anonymous]

I've had good experiences giving anal but others not so good. A girl once shit the bed during and then threw me out of her house.

[sugarchateau]

WOW! She wasn't ready lolol awe!! I'm so sorry that it happened.. That must've been embarrassing for both. It happens, I guess. I'm sure that is the worst experience you've had though, right? Not more? lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah definitely the worst experience i've had. actually put me off sex for a while lol

[sugarchateau]

I'd feel the exact same way!

[roland77]

Your feelings towards it are understandable. I hope you enjoy it *pre-cleaned* now again? There are anal showers for a reason other than medical.

[roland77]

But not to often, maybe twice per week is okay? I dunno, the flora of the rectum changes by being flushed out.

[Anonymous]

I aspire to be as happy as you.

[sugarchateau]

Maybe pain is happiness lol

[Anonymous]

nice take, thank you. my girlfriend and i do anal once of twice a week, usually at her request. she has really intense orgasms with anal so she always likes me or a finger or toy in there when she orgasms. i had no idea before i met her that some women love anal that much.

[sugarchateau]

Yeah! It surprises everyone lol

[Anonymous]

Yuck. You're disgusting. Anyone who does anal is.

[sugarchateau]

It happens! Maybe your parents did too. I wouldn't judge. I would rather promote safe sex.

[sugarchateau]

save a young girls life.

[Opinion Owner]

I appreciate you taking on a mission to promote safe sex, but the act is just disgusting. I apologize if I came across as antagonistic. Didn't mean to insult you. I just have an aversion to it. I know my parents never did as it is a sin in our religion.

[sugarchateau]

I grew up religious (I don't want to mention the religion bc I dont want to accidentally offend it) and I had a crappy life due to many things that happened out of my control. Things happen and I just hope to inform others to at least be more aware and I might save someone. I did anal twice in my life, one was not by choice. I haven't done it in years, but I thought this would be important to share and I could save a girl or guy from getting pink sock or anything. Do you believe in chain reaction? Also, thank you for responding so politely <3

[Sabretooth]

All sex is disgusting if you really think about it

[Opinion Owner]

@Sabretooth Not really. Anal sex is repulsive.

[Sabretooth]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

@Sabretooth If you're into it, I don't have anything against you. I just think the act is gross. I can't explain why. That's like asking why do some people like vanilla ice cream and not chocolate.

[Sabretooth]

Do you think you'd reconsider if you found someone who wanted it? Just curious

[roland77]

@Sabretooth Some to religious about it. Anal is special, not like vaginal penetration. It is not disgusting because you can always put on a condom. It can help strengthen the bond between a committed couple because of the intensity and emotional feelings during it. Also it is very intimate.