Why There's Nothing Wrong With a Man Hitting a Woman

[RetroDreamerXD]

Let me just start off by saying, it's not okay for anyone to lay hands on anyone! Point blank period.

But hey ladies, you deserve to get hit when you hit a guy. When you put your hands on a man, you open the door for him to hit you back.

A well known fact, guys are naturally stronger than girls. With that info, do you really wanna punch your boyfriend because he made you mad and you think it won't hurt him? Well just because he's a dude, doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings...or feeling in his body for that matter. Dudes are still flesh and bone just like us. Realize that.

Think before you act. If you don't think about your actions before you act on them, how can you expect him to think about his actions before he act on them. It's possible for you both to be in the heat of passion. You could be pissed, furious, just plain angry and blinded by fury so you hit him. You feeling the way you feel is no excuse. Be honest, you don't know exactly how he'll react. For all you know, that one slap could send him over the edge. He may be calm about it and just call the cops or he could slap you back. BUT YOU DON'T KNOW! So after you hit him, you best hope he just call the cops because you just assaulted him.

'Real men don't hit women.' Well guess what...REAL WOMEN DON'T HIT MEN. 'Nuff said about that.

Basically what I'm saying is, don't hit on people who you know could kick your behind. In fact, just EVERYONE, KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELVES. Avoid the nasty confrontation. Whether you're just playing around or dead serious. Think before you act because you don't know how someone will respond.

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[LilWeezey]

I agree.
I agree wholeheartedly. A man should not tolerate physical violence brought upon him by some scumbags woman

[QuestionMan]

That title was very misleading, I thought you were going to be advocating for domestic abuse.

[FreeLunch]

I've only experienced this once. A woman punched me right in the face. Not a slap, not a backhand swing, a full on punch to the face. I asked her to leave my apartment, she locked herself in my room. I called the police, they removed her.

Fast forward three years, I met an old friend of hers. She's in trial, for stabbing her current ex-boyfriend about 30 times. The guy survived, by the way. How you survive being stabbed 30 time, I don't know.

I can take a punch from a woman and do nothing about it. A SINGLE punch. After that, it's bye-bye. Get out of my life and never show yourself again. And for men, it's right there the end, at the first punch. Either I die, or he dies. A punch hurts, and it's not fun. I'm not just going to lie there and take it.

NEVER tolerate any type of physical violence. There is absolutely no justification for it, and it shows deep mental problems in the person crossing that line.

[MargaritaPeach]

Good for you!

[samhradh_leannan]

There is something VERY wrong with a man hitting a woman. It's just that the exact same things are wrong with a woman hitting a man.

[SomeGuy37]

I completely disagree!! Even if a woman hits a man, he should have the restraint, and know he is typically stronger, and could seriously hurt her!!
I WOULD NEVER, and have NEVER, Hit a woman!! If you resort to physical violence, against someone you claim to love, you are a hypocrite, at best, and just an ABUSER, either way!!
Generally, men are stronger, and if so, he should restrain her, rather than hit her! He needs to be the 'bigger man' and take an aberrant strike, and not retaliate the same way, defusing the escalation.
Even a simple slap, across the face, cannot be forgotten, and every time you argue, and raise voices, after that first strike, she will be afraid of another!! Even if you don't intend it, the 'damage' is done!!
Is it 'Fair'? Is it easy to do, in the heat of the argument? NO, but a REAL MAN, would, and can control his responses!!

[BubbleBoy69]

Your argument could also apply to when a bigger male attacks a smaller male.

[SomeGuy37]

@BubbleBoy69 But that was not the question. What you suggest is a different interaction, unless you are lovers?

[Poppykate]

Amen! Men do need to realise that they are the stronger sex, and not just hit back with full force because she gave him a playful tap.

[BubbleBoy69]

No it's not. You equate women to weaker and therefore men should put restraint. Your argument could extend over to a much stronger man putting restraint on not hurting a weaker man he got into an altercation with.

[Mesonfielde]

@Poppykate "Playful tap" lol. no one hits you back if you do a "playful tap", they hit back if you slap or punch with a fist

[Panay]

@Mesonfielde can't guys just not hit at full strength then? Just because they COULD hurt a woman with their punch does t mean they have to

[Mesonfielde]

@Panay Honestly, I think if you're hitting someone with enough force to inflict pain then you're an uncivilized asshat. That's my general stance on this, and this is regardless of your chromosomes.

[Panay]

@Mesonfielde yeah if agree with that, just as long as there are no double standards

[cherrymarina]

@SomeGuy37 Yep, a real man does not hit a woman. Those who do are abusers.

[Mesonfielde]

@cherrymarina The fuck is a "real man" and "real woman" seriously, to be a man you have to have a penis and be over the age of 21, and to be a woman you have to have ovaries and be over the age of 21 - exhibiting (or not) violent behavior has nothing to do with your sex, it has to do with whether you're capable of functioning as a civilized human being in society Obviously if you feel the inclination to hit and slap people, then you have the maturity of a 4 year old.

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I don't have to explain what a real man is. Not every man is an honorable man. There are many shitty males out there, yes they have a penis but I do not consider them real men because they are pussies and they degrade women out of fear. A REAL man is not afraid of a woman to go through these lengths to abuse her.

[Mesonfielde]

@cherrymarina The question here also takes context into consideration, which is that the male would not inflict physical harm by default, but the female does, and so he retaliates to make her stop. The real abuse in that scenario is done by the female, and she is prevented from continuing that by making her see the error of her ways.

[RetroDreamerXD]

@Poppykate @SomeGuy37 A girl shouldn't put her hands on a guy first. She doesn't know how he'll react. We can't blame the dude for acting out when she had the discretion to decide if she A) wants to hit him or B) leave him be. She knows the possibilities and consequences of her actions. Her getting hit could be the result of an involuntary act or could be on purpose. Either way, she risks it when she hits a guy.

[SomeGuy37]

@cherrymarina Amen!! Thank you for supporting the TRUTH!!

[SomeGuy37]

Whatever the thought process, I think it is irrational for either gender to think that physical abuse is a legitimate response to ANYTHING!! I don't condone any kind of violence, like face slapping by either gender, but I am saying, that if I am a respectable man, in a relationship, with someone that I care for, I would NEVER, EVER, 'Hit her back' if she struck me. Yes, we would discuss it, later, when she is not in the mindset (drunk, conflicted, whatever!!) and we would decide, if we can stay together, if it is something that she might do, again. I don't know what another person is thinking, and feeling!! sometimes people make mistakes, and regret them, later. I accept that, and can forgive an unusual 'event' because of some extraordinary circumstances! If it becomes a trend, I won't tolerate it, and I will leave!

[Screamsgutter]

If she's hitting you, I have a hard time believing she cares about you. Why do you coddle women to the point of basically acting like there should be a natural and everyday acceptance for adult women to be incapable of controlling their emotions to the point where they feel they can/have to strike out with physical violence, whether it's a slap or a thrown toaster? Because they're upset? What kind of an idiot would accept and actually want to be in any kind of relationship with a woman if this was the reality? Oh, you apparently.

[theceejmachine]

Abuse of any kind, regardless of gender, is wrong. But I'm sorry... a man who hits a woman is no man at all.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Vice versa.

[Mesonfielde]

But is a woman who hits a man a woman?

[theceejmachine]

@Mesonfielde I admit that women can be abusers too. I'm not denying that. But I have yet to meet a woman who can be as physically overpowering as the opposite sex.

[Screamsgutter]

You don't have to admit anything. We all know women aren't the least bit innocent in this. The worst things to come along for abusive women are the commonality of commercial and especially residential security cameras and cellphones that record video.

[Azara]

People should not hit period unless in defense. And it's not a given a guy will be stronger depends on the people. I can throw my cousin across the room and I'm 95 pounds and he's 180.

Anyhow just don't hit. More men hit other men than women hit men. No one makes posts against men hitting each other. Why is that? Is it bc I deep down people are ok with hitting. Just bc two people are men doesn't mean they are the same size.

Just don't hit. Period.

[Screamsgutter]

He's letting you throw him around.

[lumos]

In my opinion, there's no point in hitting someone back unless you're actually doing it for self-defense.
Hitting someone back just because they hit you is childish and petty. Regardless if you're male or female. If you aren't in a dangerous situation and you can just leave, then do that. Hitting someone back out of revenge is something kids do in kindergarten.
"But she hit me first!!!"
That's no excuse to hit someone either, just like feeling mad is no excuse to hit someone. Unless, like I said, you're purely doing it out of self-defense (which doesn't seem to be what you're advertising here, you're just condoning hitting someone back because they hit you first).
Also, nice fucking clickbait title.

[PhoenixItalian]

how many times do you let someone hit you before you hit them back?

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian it's not about times, it's about whether I can escape or not.

[PhoenixItalian]

So you've never been in a fight?

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian not a real one, no.

[PhoenixItalian]

Sometimes someone grabs a knife and fatally stabs you, she's already crazy for attacking you, to assume she won't do anything like that is dumb.

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian like I said I'll fight back if I can't escape, i. e. if someone grabs me or if I'm in a room or something. I'm not a dumbass. But escaping should always be a priority over punching yourself for self-defense.

[lumos]

@PhoenixItalian punching yourself lmao :D I meant punching the attacker.

[PhoenixItalian]

I don't run from things, people will learn not to hit me

[vishna]

What do you feel about violent play fighting in which the woman 'punches' the guy in the throat because he was tickling her ribs to hard and she felt trapped? Did he have a right to be mad?

[RetroDreamerXD]

She took it to a whole new level. She could've yelled something like stop I'm serious.

[vishna]

What if she did but it all happened so fast, the words, the feeling of desperation, the punch?

[RetroDreamerXD]

Well what happened has happened. It's now in his discretion of how he'll react. He could hit back involuntarily (subconscious reflex) or do nothing or apologize or cry, etc etc.

[vishna]

He got mad but didn't hit back. I think he was too shocked and mad to hit back, if that makes sense. Our little tisks happen bc of play fighting and over stepped boundaries, but VERY rarely. Once though, he was slapping my arm in the kitchen and I got mad because I felt like I didn't give him clear signs I wanted to play that hard (though we were goofing off) Haha, guess the teacher's were right about horse playing.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Yeah lol all hands are best kept to themselves. But as long as you guys didn't get seriously hurt. :)

[Mesonfielde]

Heh, you can kill someone by hitting them in the throat. No apologies undo that one.

[vishna]

@Mesonfielde Lol, I didn't go Hulk on anyone. But yes, it was wrong.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Hallelujah!!

[Mistnigqa808]

This is the best take I've read.

#EqualRightsMeansEqualLefts

[Mistnigqa808]

and I dont see any reason why I'd take shit from somebody physically inferior to me (when it comes to this sort of thing) LOL.

[Geministar16]

I agree!

[cheapshotbob]

this is a great a thread , it makes a lot of sense but i still would not hit a girl its just not done.

[Takada]

Great take! Women should not be able to hit men with impunity. If a woman hits a man because she didn't like what he had to say, then she should get hit back. Also, we should not demonize men who hit a woman after she hit him. People are quick to rush to defend women. But when men get hit, nobody does anything. In fact, when a man gets hit by a woman and he hits back, people jump him and start beating the shit out of him. What kind of bs is that?

[Hopefuldreamer8]

I agree with this 100%. No one should be hitting anyone, but if a girl hits a guy, she should be prepared to get hit back. I can't stand girls who think they can hit guys just because they are female. I think in a relationship, once a girl shows a guy that she can be violent, he should really think about whether or not he should stay with her. I know that if I were with a guy and he hit me, I'd end it. No one should stay in abusive relationships. I've never understood why a guy stays with a girl just because she is hot.

[realerthanreal]

Most men who hit women out of retaliation aren't so quick to hit a guy out of retaliation though. Most women with an ounce of sanity aren't going around hitting men first. And men have been mistreating women this includes hitting them, since the beginning of time. They don't need a supposed reason. All of this is bullshit.

[RetroDreamerXD]

No lady. Your comment is bullshit. Re-read my take. Think about what I said. Juggle the words in your mind. Based on your comment you're saying "It's ok to hit on guys even if he might hit you back." The reality is, a dude is stronger than a girl, she should think about the consequences of hitting him before she does it.

[realerthanreal]

I never said it's ok for women to hit men, I said most smart women aren't doing so. This is an old argument weak men use to justify hitting women. If a bigger guy hits them, they aren't hitting them back and they KNOW that, but if a woman who clearly isn't the same strength as you are (as most aren't) hits you, why not just walk away? And like I said, men don't need a reason to hit a woman. They have been doing it anyway since forever as someone else said, to show authority. They are just using this argument now because of feminism.

[RetroDreamerXD]

I disagree. If a guy hits another guy, there is guaranteed to be a fight no matter how much bigger one is. There are not a lot of pushover guys. Especially when it comes to pride and defense. They might even call in their boys. Everyone reaches their boiling point. Be it man on man or woman on man.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

All of this, yes. No one should be hitting anyone.

[SomeGuy37]

YES!!! If you are in a relationship, and care for each other, WHY THE FCK WOULD YOU HIT THEM, OR PURPOSELY HURT THAT ONE, THAT YOU CARE FOR, OR LOVE? What happened to our society, when so many, on this thread, defend abusing someone they are dating, loving, or caring about?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

@SomeGuy37 Abuse towards anyone is never okay, dating them or not.

[lovecuddling]

Stupidest take I've ever read

[lovecuddling]

Most men hit women to just demonstrate their authority

[lovecuddling]

A real man would never hit a women regardless of what she does to him, as we all know women are fragile

[lovecuddling]

They are emotional, they do things in the spur of the moment. Only an idiot can't understand that

[lovecuddling]

Real men never hit women

[RetroDreamerXD]

One of the points I stressed in the take was that women shouldn't hit men because they don't know how they'll react, with that being said hitting her back could be an involuntary action. One too many hits may send him over the edge. WOMEN SHOULDN'T HIT ON MEN.

[Screamsgutter]

Look at the guy's user name. Says it all.

[AndyOh]

Hey, if she hits me out of angor, then all chivalry goes right out the door and I will hit and kick back.
If she can't act like a lady, then I will not act like a gentleman.

[cherrymarina]

A real man does not hit a woman. He has the strength to stop her from hitting him. You hit a woman back you are piece of sht to me. And if you are so eager to get your ass kicked, well good for you :)

[Reerrw]

A man is a man because he's a male. Actions don't change it. Also a 'Real' man doesn't take shit from someone and accept hypocrisy. I'll only accept your opinion if you think women are like childre.

[cherrymarina]

@Reerrw Nope, there are males and there are men. I'll stick to opinion and you can stick to yours.

[Mesonfielde]

>> there are males and there are men Yes, males become "men" when they turn 21

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I have already replied to you. Not all males become ''men''.

[Mesonfielde]

I do not understand what you are talking about

[actual_dragon_tears]

if you can kick my ass, then why can't i beat the shit out of you

[cherrymarina]

@actual_dragon_tears what a sad excuse of a ''man'' u are. How can a woman kick your ass, u pussy? Beat the shit out of me? Right bitch. I'd have my whole family coming after your ass. Some of us girls have men around who care deeply for us, so u better not pull that shit by on anyone. I don't like your tone of speaking. You must be an abusive c*nt.

[Mesonfielde]

If your fight is fought by your family, then you really have no honor and no self-respect

[cherrymarina]

@Mesonfielde I don't care what women haters like you think about me :) I only care aboutREAL men. My respect is for them and I have enough of them around me to protect me from low life scumbags.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Until you hit one of them.

[arealgirlduh]

@cherrymarina ((this is in response to what you said to actual_dragon_tears, cunt)) no, retard. if someone hits someone, they get hit back. why are you this retarded? you must be sexist if you think females are weak

[didden6]

@arealgirlduh i usually just hug her over her arms its always fun to hug somone how wants to hit you :D and if a women hits you its not gonna hurt that bad unless she is trained or hits the D :)

[Screamsgutter]

@didden6 Yeah, I almost got my nose bitten off trying to 'hug' restrain a woman. Grow up and stop acting disposable in the face of an immature woman.

[Screamsgutter]

No cherry, you're the pussy.

[ManOnFire]

Yep, totally agree. As my philosophy goes, 'when you act like a bitch don't be mad when you get treated like one.'

[Mesonfielde]

I agree, if you hit someone, then you can be hit back.

But it's so much easier to just stay civil instead. Shame that many people aren't intelligent enough to comprehend this.

[thewanderingme]

whoa! I'm agreeing with mesofielde on something again. (: a whole my take on why a guy deserves to defend himself was unnecessary.

[RetroDreamerXD]

@thewanderingme are you being sarcastic lol because some females actually believe that guys will never retaliate or can.

[NightmareNeal]

Good take! People keep saying men shouldn't hit women because they are typically stronger. That's idiotic. She shouldn't hit the guy because she knows his strength. Why pick a fight with someone stronger than you? On top of that, what if the woman is stronger than the man? If you can throw hands, you can take hands! Point blank

[RetroDreamerXD]

Exactly.

[shinyunicorn]

if you're a guy who claims to "go easy" on girls or say things like "I don't hit girls", then you instantly lose my respect.
surprise people it's the 21st century, women are not 'weaklings' you oh so mighty men have to spare in a fight. talk shit get hit.

[Nothanks700]

I still wouldn't say it's okay to hit a woman, even if she does hit you. But this depends as well, a puck in the arm isn't going to feel like much, but if you hit her, you can do some serious damage- it's just the way we were designed for the most part. But, if a random women ever tried litteraly beating you up, I think you have a right to defend yourself

[MG-TOW]

Because of a woman hitting me I have lasting eye damage.
Words cannot express how much I appreciate you saying this.

[RetroDreamerXD]

I'm sorry that you've had to endure that. But just keep your head up and stay strong.

[rjroy3]

It's fun to joke about it every now and then, but there comes a point where a man shouldn't hit a woman unless it's life or death. That's not to say he shouldn't put his hands on her, but actually swinging is a different story. Unless a guy is 120-130pounds and dating a girl of comparable size who is attacking him he should not be punching.
As a man if you can't handle a woman who is smaller than you and isn't holding a sharp/blunt weapon or a gun, without having to hit her then you kinda suck all around.

It's really not hard to manhandle a woman and put her outside.

[hsshannah96]

I hear it gets difficult when they squirm lol

[rjroy3]

@hsshannah96 lol she might flail around I guess. Just gotta caveman that shit xD

[hsshannah96]

How the fuck you gonna caveman 5’5 and 140 pounds of squirming

[rjroy3]

@hsshannah96 I'll find a way to persevere lol

[hsshannah96]

Hahahaha 🤣😂🤣😂

[hsshannah96]

Error: bloody nose. Lol

[Sunflower19]

On point. Men AND Women shouldn't abuse each other in any way!

[Doffydood]

I'm not going to stop anyone from hitting girls, but I'm still not doing it. It just feels... wrong. :/

[hsshannah96]

If a girl decks you right in the face you should deck her back. You could seriously hurt yourself if you “manhandle” her like some of these people are saying. Could break your back. And squirming girls are difficult to handle. If you carry them they’ll be attempting to whack you and kicking and shit

[Fearless_banana]

I remember going to a felony domestic call. Chick was 6"1 at least 190-200lbs.. Dude had a black eye and was swollen to no other. Took two deputies to finally detain her after a long fight. Women can't hit men and get away with it anymore. If somebody comes at me and threatens my safety then I'm coming right back at you no matter if you have a pussy or a dick. How I handle a situation is dealt with with using appropriate and reasonable force. If some chick attacked me that was 5"2 100 lbs then I'm not going to maul on her. If some guy was 5"2 100 lbs then I'm not going to maul on him. Gender is irrelevant. Can't tell you how many girls on domestic calls slap the shit out of their SO and say "But I'm a girl" to the responding deputies lol.

[hsshannah96]

Oh you’re a police officer? Sounds draining I’m sorry.

[DrTruth]

Any girl that hits me, I'm out the door. I've walked out twice with no regrets. Nobody should tolerate any physical violence in a relationship.

[tyber1]

The fact that many women hide behind the argument that women are weaker than men is proof that many women have no sense of accountability. There are many men stronger than I am and I don't hit them because A) it's wrong and B) they're strong enough to seriously hurt me. If I hit a guy who looks like the Terminator then I have just put my well being in his hands and if he hurts me it is my own damn fault. And the same thing applies to women, don't hit people and especially don't hit people who can seriously hurt you. Women are used to just being able to get away with it so they don't take responsibility for their actions.

[front2back]

Depends on circumstances and force.
Sure there's no wrong in retaliating against a small nation that attacks your's, but there's a difference between just fighting back enough that they quit and carpet bombing their country and people into ash.

[RetroDreamerXD]

The woman doesn't know how things are gonna play out. That's partly why she shouldn't be laying hands in the first place.

[bluenose1872]

The only reason i dont hit women is i click out with anger. My eyes feel like theyre on fire and the world just clicks out. If i done that around a woman id kill her dead. I just try and avoid it

[Hollywood-Glam]

I agree with you. Men should hit women if needed. It's crazy to know they're women who will keep on hitting and disrespecting men thinking they will get away with it since "men aren't allowed to hit women". This is for you men out there: She hits you the first time and it doesn't hurt, don't hit her back, but still give her a warning. She keeps hitting you again with all her strength & energy, it becomes irritating, this time you can take action.
Women who hit men thinking they have the priviledge that they won't get hit back should go through the consequence of pain, so that they won't dare attempt their nasty behavior again. Yes, I repeat, they should go through pain and fear. It's like disciplining them. How is it fair for you to act violently and not want someone to act violently towards you? It's hypocrisy. It's sad to know that they're severe cases where a man has been beated by a women so much to the point he had to hit her for the sake of sake of self defense, and then he is considered less of a man because he hit a woman. I disagree with the theory "less of a man for hitting a woman". That's what keeps some women from respecting men, if they knew they'll get hit back, then they wouldn't act violently on the first place. Thus, at least men would feel more respected. Equality is important.

[NotTheFBI]

And then in later news, a Tyrannical Murderous Mutant bent on destroying mankind had to apologise for choking a FEMALE MUTANT by the neck. >..<

[LoloWaye]

I agree so much with this! I'm tired of women thinking they can get away with hitting men just because men are stronger. If he feels the need to defend himself he should. If you don't want to get hit then don't do the hitting. And the "real men don't hit real women" should apply to women as well.

[RationalMale]

OMG, common sense on this website. Color me shocked

[ThePetSquirrel]

If anyone, regardless of sex, begins to hit me, they're fair game.

[CaramelCookie]

This is the best take I've seen so far.

[Byakuyarko]

It's cute when girls try to scream and smack guys who could KO them with the flick of a finger. Guys nowadays are certified savages though... Videos of women getting knocked the fuck out after picking fights with guys are basically porn to a couple of people I am ashamed to call friends

[2tall2handle]

There were times I wanted to slap the hell out of my ex when she was slapping me, but at my height (6'9") and my build I know in my heart if I would have hauled off and slapped her I would have knocked her off her feet, and most likely did her some damage. I glad to this day I just walked off and never did it.

[somanybugs]

If you're strong enough to throw a punch, you're strong enough to take a punch.

[That1Thing]

Yep. So true. 100% agree.

I also like how no one mentioned that cake emoji.

[chc0009]

I don't advocate domestic abuse.

But there was one time in elementary school that a white girl used a racist slur towards me and I cleaned her clock with a right cross.

I got in detention for that, but I was so fucking pissed.

[Maxemeister]

Equal rights, indeed!

Tho the prefered alternative for me is indeed no hitting at all :)

[anonman32]

great article. this is nice to see that people are also considerate about male emotions.

[WhaChaChaKing]

I agree.

[Melcart23]

Equal rights, equal fights. Don't touch me and I won't touch you.

[teawrecks]

Oh, I can't touch you? Bummer 🙁

[Melcart23]

@teawrecks you can't reach me anyway, you have "teawrecks" arms😂

[teawrecks]

Ohhhh now we're bringing the short jokes to arm lengths 😒 That's a new one brb deleting again and making a new username

[Melcart23]

@teawrecks lmao. Poor baby😂😂😂

[teawrecks]

Big bully 😢

[Melcart23]

@teawrecks 👹👹👹 roar!

[Sojex]

"Dont write a check your ass can't cash." And don't be a little bitch and call the cops when you try to be tough and get out in your place. That goes for all men and women

[yotes-of-472]

That's only true if his life is in danger. Nobody should hit anybody unless it's a life or death situation.

[Omar5881]

Yeah that's non sense to me, if your little 4 yr old slapped you in the face would you hit him back? NO , a man never hits a woman but pushes her ( IF NEEDED ) that's how I was raised and that's my culture and I won't change it

[RetroDreamerXD]

That's completely different. If a child hits you, you put them in time out. As for a grown ass woman hitting a grown man, well now... that's a different story.

[BigPunny]

Apples and oranges, Omar. In fact, what you said is somewhat sexist as you're comparing women to 4 year-olds. C'mon.

[Omar5881]

@BigPunny don't you people understand example? Or it's different in english? Ugh I don't know but it's an example not a comparison people

[BigPunny]

It's a logically fallacious argument, and it isn't an "example" - it is a comparison of events. 4 year old hitting you + your reaction vs an adult female hitting you + your reaction. An 'example' would have been if he had brought up a story of a woman hitting him under 'x, y, or z' circumstances and why it wouldn't have been okay to hit back under that circumstance. So you're wrong. . . . it's a faulty comparison and his argument is fallacious.

[Omar5881]

@BigPunny yep it's different in English

[Omar5881]

@BigPunny anyway I won't change my opinion

[RetroDreamerXD]

Another part of my take was that, a guy could act without thinking (heat of passion) and hit the girl back. So it could be an unconscious/involuntary act. But either way, she caused it. She brought the act out. But I get ya. Thanks for your input and reading.

[Marinepilot]

This is the best explanation of this I've ever read. Well done.

[jwhit]

I'd still never hit a woman, but I got two sisters and good female friends to back me in case any female feels the need to hit me.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Omg that's some real life stuff right there. I have brothers and I've had to check a lot of girls mistreating my them. Sisters. They're a nice weapon.

[jwhit]

Yes and I'd do the same for them in a heartbeat.

[lazermazer]

What the heck with gender? If the heat is on from both sides you never know what's gonna happen. But in most cases males usually don't hit females unless heat is way too much or simply the male is degenerate alcoholic.
Males fight physically, while females use mouth, its nature and u dont wanna mess with it.
by the way i have two sisters and girls fight way meaner than boys, truth has been spoken.
I do not advise any fighting or slut shaming, pls be human and stop ufcking arnd. Nice take

[theegreat017]

Personally I wouldn't hit a girl, even if she hits me first, I am already worried when I hit a guy bc I don't want to cause serious damage (like breaking bones or internal damage in the viscera, brain damage, paralysis etc.) and the risk increases more when it's a girl but mainly it doesn't feel right to hit a girl, girls are to love, to fight for, but not to hit them.

[RetroDreamerXD]

Another part of my take was that, a guy could act without thinking (heat of passion) and hit the girl back. So it could be an unconscious/involuntary act. But either way, she caused it. She brought the act out. But I get ya.

[HelloEveryone123456]

Uhhhhh...

[lucky4u]

if a man is a gentleman he won't hit any woman, even IF she is hitting him. He will either hold her arms to stop her from hitting him or he will walk away. A man should NEVER hit a woman. Fuck this society and its standards.

[FallOutBoy2001]

That's fucking stupid. If I hit a guy, I damn well expect him to hit me back

[FallOutBoy2001]

Chromosomes should not determine what I get away with.

[DrTruth]

This is no longer the 1950's. This is 2016. Women deserve equal rights... and lefts.

[FallOutBoy2001]

@DrTruth ^^this

[lucky4u]

@DrTruth well I dont care, fuck equal rights. I dont agree with those dumbass feminists, I didn't fight for my equal rights - hell I LIKE it when a man takes care of me, is there something wrong with that? I dont fucking think so, also yeah this is 2016 but that dont mean the guy HAS the right to hit the girl back. No wonder you dumb ass men can't find a woman today, you're all vaginas. All act like little bitches, instead of manning up.

[Kountry_King]

Yeah right my mom taught me to hit anyone who touches me. Now being said if I have to tell you two to three times to keep your hands to yourself or chill out. I'm hitting you back, if I walk away and you follow me to hurt me I'm hitting back sorry not sorry.

[Panay]

Ok. If you feel that way that's great. Not going to stop anyone hitting you though is it? In fact such a regressive attitude probably makes it more likely

[DrTruth]

You have to be a troll for your way of irrational thinking. Manning up? Be a human disposable meat shield because of vagina? No ma'am! Women as a collective wanted this and you got it. I don't see traditionalists raising their pickets in front of the White House going against feminists and women's rights. Bed. Made. Lie.

[Maxemeister]

Move to Afghanistan u traditionalist meanie

[lucky4u]

lol your guys are morons... so oblivious. stop agreeing you sheep. I wish I was a troll... Im just speaking my mind.

[FallOutBoy2001]

Here's a solution, don't make it so he should hit you back. You wanna hear a story? Well, you're all gonna hear it anyway. When I was a little kid, between 5 and 10, I had two male cousins who were, at the time, 6-11 and 12-17, and we horses around a lot. I have jumped on both of them more times than they've jumped on me, and we've both injured each other fighting. If they agreed to your stupid rules, they would have had a ton more bruises and I would have walked away unscathed, but they had every right to defend themselves from me (I'm a bit viscous) so I don't fault them. Storytime is over now, bitches.

[lucky4u]

@FallOutBoy2001 and you should be ashamed of yourself. goodbye.

[FallOutBoy2001]

They're not "sheep" they're all individuals who happen to agree with each other

[FallOutBoy2001]

The only person who should be ashamed of themselves is you

[AleDeEurope]

You do know ladies don't hit right? Fuck this society and its lack of ladies.

[SomeGuy37]

lucky4u I agree with you, completely!! I've been hit, a few times by two, but never hit her!! I cannot!! WILL NOT!! hit them!! Know too many, seen too many, abused, and I can't understand how they could do that, to someone they 'love'!! There are some things that need to transcend all these BS issues, today. Some might call it 'sexist', but I will always respect, and honor women! I will open the doors, and offer my hand, not because they are 'weak' or need help, but out of respect, and adoration, loving them!!

[funny_strange_man]

@luvky4u Are you saying he should just walk away even if she hits him then goes after him and hits him again? Lets say she hits him with an ice scrapper for a car, baseball bat, hard school book, lap top etc. Is he suppose to just walk away then. There are women strong enough and or skilled enough to do major harm.

[Mesonfielde]

Well if you want a gentleman to stay a gentleman, then don't be a bitch by hitting him

[RetroDreamerXD]

A woman can hit a guy, I just hope she realizes the possible outcomes (Hint: he reaches boiling point and hits her without thinking). But you know, ya live ya learn.

[RetroDreamerXD]

He's still a gentleman, and a real man. Just he got fed up.

[lucky4u]

I'm not saying let the chick hit you till you bleed, I'm saying grab her arms and defend yourself but do not hit her back. you guys are too quick to judge right away that I mean the girl should keep hitting the man till he's blooded to death, no that's not what I mean AT ALL. @falloutboy2001 @aledeeurope @someguy37 @funny_strange_man @mesonfielde

[FallOutBoy2001]

I still don't understand why he shouldn't hit her back, if not just to teach her a lesson

[funny_strange_man]

@lucky4u Their are women who can hit hard enough to do damage. What about women who try to kill or at least do major harm should we just try to walk away then or restrain them then.

[Anonymous]

I don't believe in the eye for an eye concept personally. And yes, I've been punched in the face on more than one occasion. Deescalation is always a better choice.

Also, I am disgusted by how many people on GAG are just dying for someone to hit them so they have "permission" to beat them into submission.

[Anonymous]

That's "an eye for an eye" type thing and that's bs, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Kids also know adults are stronger than them, but if one hits me I won't hit them back... restrain them maybe, but that's about it.
Self defence is very different to hitting back in a tit for tat type scenario. Very different.
I wouldn't want a woman hitting my brothers, but I'd hope they understand the difference between self defence and just hitting back if it ever did happen.

[RetroDreamerXD]

It's not an eye for an eye thing. It's a you don't know how someone would respond thing. It's a think before you act thing.

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn't make it "ok for men to hit women" just because you don't know how they'll react. Some kid just got murdered the other day because he picked up money some drunk dude dropped... because he didn't know how he'd react. It was all over the news. He didn't know how the man would react, so that makes it ok. As I said, self defense is one thing, hitting back just because is another. One is far, very far, from ok.

[RetroDreamerXD]

That's completely different. Its a grown ass woman versus a grown ass man. It's ok because she shouldn't be putting her hands on a guy anyway.

[Anonymous]

not even gonna read... if you hit a woman you're a fag, end of story.

you only hit back if she is bigger or armed while you're not.

[actual_dragon_tears]

don't be a cunt.

[Mesonfielde]

Or if she deserves a bitch slap, I guess

[Anonymous]

Women always say they want equality. So... here you go. If you hit a man, expect to get hit by a man. However... feminism will try to put everything in the woman's favor if you fight back.