10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

Let's start:

1.Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3.The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4.Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5.Those who engage in premarital sex run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6.Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today’s infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7.The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8.Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don’t follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9.Premarital sex runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father’s love, protection and care.

10.If you date and you don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

My conclusion is:

True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.

10 Benefits to Why a Girl Shall Stay Virgin Until Marriage!

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  • Nice mytake😊😊

    • Thanks for sharing 🙂

    • Do one of condoms mytake

  • Let's start... to debunk:

    1) sex is a drive given to us by nature to ensure the race - homo sapiens

    2) there is absolutely no relevant studies that show any impact on the brain function if you have sex in vs. Out of marriage

    3) these days it's so normal to have sex that nobody hides or are ashamed. With protection neither are there any worries about std or pregnancy

    4) these days, at least in the developed world, lots of guys find virginity more of a nuisance

    5) with protection no std can transmit. HIV aids and herpes all have pharma to help the disease

    6) that's obviously bull why didn't you just say 140% now that you're at it

    7) true!! Wow. Impressed. With condoms the risc is like 99.7% thou

    8) ok I'll have to take your word for it. I haven't received that email from mr./mrs. God

    9) what the h... is an illegitimate child?

    10) wow!!! Please give that guy my number!!! A guy so gr8 in bed I will literally think of him in the future when in bed with my new guy!!

  • This is some dumb shit lmao why are you trying to make sex seem like some magical very important shit? Sex is sex, nasty, fun and great. It doesn't change a person in any way or make someone less intelligent. Virginity is not the most precious thing a human has to offer, it's just a fact that you never had sex, nothing more, nothing special.
    About all the STDs use a fucking condom and go to a doctor and make sure to choose the right partner or partners, whatever fits you cup off tea.

    • sex is fun and? having it with everyone is fine?

    • @Милашка Honey sex in general is totally fine! With whom you havethat is your decision to make and as long you don't harm anyone, I won't judge someone by their number of partners. Again whatever fits your cup of tea.

    • I judge sluts. It matters who you have sex with as it shows your self worth. Sorry if this hurts you.

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  • "The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage."

    Well said. We thougth we used to enjoy sex if you didn't warned us.

    This is so stupid, i dont event want to make a joke about it.

    • Than don't, it's so stupid for you and not for others, go back to your orgy group... don't waste time your time in my thread

    • I never left my orgy group lol

    • Good for you... keep the d*ck in your mouth better than talking

  • Must be for people who believe in God and have a strong urge to procreate and get married.
    I' m just too logical and mechanical mental built.
    I don't sleep around as I don't have the needs like other people, But
    I highly doubt my life would have been any better or less otherwise.
    I highly doubt a man would value me more for my damn vagina. I got a lot more to offer than that. Say, like brain and personality and willing to work hard loyal and respectful. Guess what none of those traits came from the purity of my vagina just common sense and watching the world and will to survive this thing call life.

    • What you said is very wonderful and a woman who thinks like this wouldn't make herself cheap and sleep with anyone, she prefer to sleep with her husband who is her life and give him her body and yes your virginity is very important, i'm a real man and consider it precious so don't say all men doesn't care about it.

    • "I got a lot more to offer than that. Say, like brain and personality..." If you have a brain you know sex is special. If you have a good personality you don't sleep with people you just met. So it does come back to it.

    • @TonyMetal_86 The wonderful thing about life : that we all reserve the right to be different and there nothing wrong with that. Life is different for everyone for a reason so there can always be choices... And I fail to see how my vagina defines what I am. Apparently Im able to converse with no problem. Remember, I only need one man to love me. Very simple. I don't need someone to see me as some pure goddess. When I know im human with a ton of flaws. But im raw like that.

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  • I agree with many of your points, excluding the religious ones, but here are some criticisms:
    - This isn't 10 benefits for a girl to wait until marriage--this is 10 benefits for a PERSON to wait until marriage (this includes boys).
    - You should have phrased it less like "Thou *should* do this:" and more like "Ultimately it is your decision, but for these reasons it might be in your best interest to do this:".
    - "All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women." You sort of brushed over this and didn't care to explain why this is especially the case for women. What is it about having a vagina that makes premarital sex even less enjoyable than it is for those who have penises?

    • I enjoy premarital sex and I always have and always will

    • @tobita44 Okay? Cool.

    • Yeah is better cause I can easily replace the dude if I get tired of him

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  • I needed a good laugh.

    • Good laugh about what?

    • @MoneyBeets Most people here agree with her. See the upvotes she has.

    • @MoneyBeets Then what about the 13 upvotes from guys she has?

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  • Just reading your replies to comments made me laugh. How about you don't tell people what to do with their bodies.

    • I'm not telling them what to do, i'm just answering them and sharing my opinion, how about you don't tell me what i should do

    • Answering who? No one asked for you to tell us why women should remain celibate. Also, "hug a lot on the honeymoon". I needed a laugh

    • If you don't like what i write than don't waste your time and find someone whom you like 😏

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  • Unsubstantiated assertions and religious dogma. Very few people in developed countries are virgins at marriage.

    • A developped mind in a developped country should stay virgins because they know the consequences

    • Humans are so smart they are stupid. We make better decisions when we live in squalor than decadence.

    • So true. Few... to none

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  • LOL!

    The hook up society members full of drunks, sluts, man whores, clubbers and partiers ought to love this thread!

    • nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

  • I totally agree, having sex outside of marriage is not something to strive for. The only thing I wish was pointed out, was that the same goes for men. If women shouldn't have sex out of marriage who should the guys bang? Each other?

    • A guy shouldn't have sex before marriage too, he must keep himself for his wife only and let it be a gorgeous honeymoon 😊

    • That is what I did...

    • Yup, sounds ideal to me

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  • What a crock of shit

  • If this isn't the funniest shit 😂 3 is by far my favorite. If women did enjoy sex "outside the bonds of marriage" nobody would be getting laid lol great myTake

    • Since not all women are going to agree with this, people will still get laid outside of marriage bonds, i'm just trying to encourage girl to do the right thing and for the ones who are on the right track, to keep it this way. I always prefer sex after marriage 🙂

    • Yeah we know, you've mentioned it 10+ times

    • Why is it bothering you?

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  • Lmao this is so cringy.

    • speaking against slutshaming is cringy

    • You replying to so many girls comments in this way is cringy and sad

    • Nah.

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  • your post is goals! I agree with that

    • Thanks for sharing 🙂

    • It's a lot of fun anyway

    • @Nataliewin nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

  • nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

    • The whole idea of virgin marriage is ancient stoneage first of all. On top of this it's hypocritical that it's the GIRLS who seem to be told to stay virgin. Guys are free to do whatever they want. This virgin marriage concept was no doubt invented by a man with a small penis that also had a brain that was small enough that he couldn't even think far enough that boys would have no sex either if all the girls would stay virgin. Thirdly it is a terrible idea if they both stay virgin cause they get to bed now both inexperienced and then they are bound to have bad problems with their sexuality. This whole muslim/christian brainwash, which is mainly encouraged by men, about sex as a dirty thing should be fought with all means possible. Girls are getting scared of their bodies and natural drive and instinct and this is wrong by any standard. Disease and pregnancy are the main arguments from the virginity preacher but that can be avoided by using a condom and then the preacher guys say "it can break " and yes it can but very very rarely and even then there is a "morning after/regret pill"

  • I just got my purity ring today from my church 😊I’m so excited

    • I'm also excited for you sweet girl and may you find the man of your life whom he will marry you and love you forever and of course take good care of you 😊

    • @Clumsybunny whats purity ring?

    • lol 4 guys downvoted you. They want you to have sex now.

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  • I think it's ancient for people to think sex must wait for marriage. We (or God if you are Christians) invented condoms and std tests so you can sleep with your boyfriends

    • And Jesus came down from the heavens and said bhold my new invention... condoms... thou shalt not refrain from sex no more.. and he flew back to the planes in the sky

    • @Tommytonight blasphemy is a sin to be judged by The Lord on your day when you come to appear before him

    • @Marcietony nobody wait for marriage. So silly we just use rubber to be safe against STDs and pregnancy that way we can enjoy great sex. Marriage is just a paper

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  • If a girl is a virgin and the guy is not there is no point

    • Usually the virgin word is only for a female but it's better for a guy to stay without sex until marriage too... A kawaii guy like your king which is ME ofc 😂

    • I want a face reveal 😂

    • This is my face

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  • I believe that sexual compatibility is a thing. I’ve met really cool girls that I could vibe with, and then we hook up, and it just felt weird. Talking about sex to see if there’s chemistry is like talking about how you’re going to do a dance routine without actually dancing. In application, it can be so much different. It would really suck to be married to someone who you’re not sexually compatible with.

    While I don’t condone promiscuity, and think that’s it’s damaging in a lot of ways, I don’t believe that girls should have to wait till marriage. Let me put it this way... If I was raising an 18 year old daughter, I would kill her if she started sleeping around with random men, but I’d be fine with her having responsible sex with a boyfriend who actually cares about her and share a mutual emotional connection.

    • It works like this, she loves someone, she have sex with him, he dumps her, she meets a second man she trust him and he cheats on after having sex and she keep going in circles until finding the real man who is compatible with her but if you look at her past, you see that no less than 10 guys had already slept with her... You get my point?

    • Not all men are just fucking women over lol. For that, I’d suggest having better judgement skills. And this is coming from someone who’s been fucked over before too. Should have noticed the red flags.

    • OP some people can't love. Sex is the only way they can be interested in others. So dont blame him. People are different.

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