11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

[Anonymous]

- Some men are workaholics

Some men go to work, do the work, and go home. This life routine leaves little or no time for dating, courtship, and sex.

- Some men are homosexual

Some men are just not romantically or sexually interested in a woman, so why would they invest in the time and money to spend time with her? Obviously, they would rather be with men.

- Some men eat too much junk food and never exercise

Some men eat too much junk food—processed foods, sugary foods, fatty foods. They have very little fiber and plant-based protein in their diets, and this shows in the morbid obesity. Lack of exercise, in combination with the bad diet, will lead to a deadly lifestyle. Women may not be interested in them, because fatness is unappealing.

- Some men smoke

Maybe just over 20 years ago, it was perfectly normal to smoke everywhere. Now, smoking is banned in many places. Smokers suffer a huge social stigma for this habit, but they are also given resources to quit. Hopefully, this trend will lead to a 100% smoke-free population, benefiting all of us. Male smokers may not be able to attract a female companion, because the female companion may be educated enough to know better that smoking is absolutely bad for human health, and that secondhand smoking can kill.

- Some men are afraid of or hate women

Some men are afraid of women. This aversion to women may exist in the form of a clinical phobia or social misogyny. The former should be treated; the latter should be punished.

- Some men are violent or have a criminal background

Some men are violent and psychotic. Psychopathy and a criminal background are likely to repel women as far away as possible. Women may feel sympathy for them, but a lover? Not a chance!

- Some men have bad social skills around women

Some men just don’t know how to communicate with women. They may have talked to a woman before, but they somehow cannot make the woman think that they are romantically or sexually interested in her. Instead, they are perpetually branded as “friend” instead of “lover”.

- Some men think women are a waste of time

These men do not waste their time on women. Instead, they pursue other interests. Many men in history thought that women were a waste of time, so they made themselves permanently and voluntarily celibate.

- Some men are immature

Some men think they are ready to pursue a relationship, because of their physical age. But their emotional maturity and inability to hold an intelligent conversation suggest otherwise. They don’t have the right mindset to think like a protective husband and father.

- Some men are too different from the women’s fathers

It is common for women to compare suitors to their own fathers. Their fathers set the golden standard of what it means to be a father. If their own daddy looks a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to look a certain way. If their own daddy behaves a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to behave a certain way. Obviously, women can’t marry their own fathers, so seeking a suitor who is like their own fathers is the best possible match.

- Some men believe they are undesirable

This belief is so strong that they do not even put in the effort to meet women or flirt with them. They believe that they will fail horribly or that women would reject them. To guard themselves from rejection and further damage to their self-esteem, they avoid women like the plague.

[Paul6754]

-Some men are picky as hell (like me)
-Some men are love driven (like me)
-Some men don't want STDs (like me)

[SovereignessofVamps]

Some guys just don't want to. They want to wait. It's like a mini trend for men, now.

[phil2]

I am with a guy who is a workaholic and was a smoker until he dated me and he believes he is undesirable which to me means he feels lucky that I like him and he won't cheat on me.

[Tdieseler]

1. Not really (plus she won't complain while spending the cash it brings)
2. Hehe, some are homo aren't they
3. Liking junk food or eating a lot doesn't automatically mean a person is fat. my eating habits would make a nutritionist squirm and I'm still pretty cut and fit, and i don't exercise... ever.
4. That can be changed (you forgot to add drinking alcohol :) )
5. As much as i would like to join half of this category... im not afraid, and sadly don't hate women.
6. Yea well, some women bring it on themselves.
7. Im me, if they don't like it, they can bounce.
8. I absolutely agree with this one.. but not for the reason stated. more like women like to draw out stuff that can be settled in seconds. I ain't got all that time to waste.
9. Everyone has an inner child, plus maturity is only a matter of perspective.
10. She can hook up with her father then.
11. The day im in this category... shoot me.

[AdorableLilo]

some men are asexual

[darksciences]

Aight!!

[Billlewis]

In my humble opinion, the less pussy a guy gets, the better off he's likely to be. Women should maintain the general philosophy that they want to tease and frustrate every guy they date, unless they really want to have sex with him, or there isn't another guy available for casual sex, while they're keeping their main male partner frustrated. This is my opinion only, but this is what's worked best for me over the years.

[Jxpxtxr]

"It is common for women to compare suitors to their own fathers."
Ewww really?

[KRIEL55]

yeah its pretty common sense. we dont do it on purpose but women tend to go after men who are like their fathers, while men tend to go after women who are like their mothers.

[Jxpxtxr]

@KRIEL55 Oh well, I guess I'm not a 'common woman' then..

[KRIEL55]

well i was really surprised when i found out about this a few years ago but in a way i do see it is true. i dont have a close relationship with my dad at all but i do find myself dating guys who are a bit similar.

[Jxpxtxr]

@KRIEL55 I haven't actually dated any guy so far but all guys I've ever felt attracted to were in no way like my father – at least in no way that would have been obvious enough for me to tell. I kinda detest my father though so that might make me an exception :P

[KRIEL55]

oh i see, well maybe later on when you start dating there might be some similarities. and yeah, me and my dad aren't that close either and i dont like some things about him (basically his whole mindset) but the thing i have noticed is that i do tend to go for guys who are more on the quiet sensitive side (just like my dad), guys who cook (like him), and guys with a weird sense of humor too. so its like i wouldn't want to be with a guy who's just like my dad, but there definitely are some things that i've noticed and i think this is part of the reason why some women and men settle for abusive relationships. not only because they're used to abusive parents, but also because they instinctively are drawn to those who are similar to their abusive parents

[Jxpxtxr]

@KRIEL55 Yeah I think that might be one of the reasons, makes sense at least. But then again, if you're really looking for similarities you're likely always gonna find something, like most people have something in common after all.. I like art and so did Adolf Hitler, I hope that doesn't make anyone suspect I'm anything like Adolf Hitler apart from that hahaha

[KRIEL55]

yeah aha i get what you mean. well i personally dont look for similarities but i do notice it. i myself am more on the outgoing and straight up side, yet im more drawn to guys who are more on the quiet and mysterious, yet safe, side. which can also be part of the opposites attract theory but who knows, yeah i feel like a lot of different psychological factors contribute to why people think the way they do and why people act certain ways. i am really into psychology.

[Jxpxtxr]

@KRIEL55 Yeah I believe a great part of that is influenced by nurture especially – Psychology and neuroscience in general are interesting subjects! )

[lonerider]

The last one hit home. Feels..

[EnglishArtsteacher]

I've met guys with every trait mentioned in your reasons (except for the homosexual part) who have gotten laid. I don't think the other ten reasons affect dating-At all. The "smoker" part is laughable. THE biggest lady's men I know smoke cigarettes. There isn't much of a "stigma", contrary to what the media portrays.

Most girls just want a guy with a lot of money, who will spoil them.

[juststrollin]

this is funny, i agree with these but you definitely offended people by uttering the males worst fear, that they can't live up to the male meaning of existence (atleast i believe they think)... sex! :0

[ObscuredBeyond]

A lot of gals see me as a protective "big brother" archetype, not as suitor material. I'm the guy who walks them home when they don't feel safe; not the guy they take to bed.

[slimstiffy]

Wha! And ur cool with that?

[ObscuredBeyond]

@slimstiffy : Not entirely. I'd like a companion of my own. Yet, if I am to be alone, it is better to be seen as the protector, than mistaken for the wolf.

[slimstiffy]

Well thats right. But you still dont have to do that. Ita unnecessary effort on your part

[ObscuredBeyond]

@slimstiffy That's a matter of perspective. Not every reward I seek involves a ring and some bedsheets.

[slimstiffy]

Well me neither. But its not your duty to be protector of a woman who is not your lover or kin. I mean there are no women walking you home, right? For all we know they may be armed and if you are not, they can privide you additional protection, from say, a mugger who might try to stab you. But usually you dont see women do that. I sometimes walk my female friends home as well if we are both going home and my home isn't quite far off, after attending a party or whatever. But then again, i do this for my younger (and same age) male friends as well. Plus , even if it seems weird to me , the female friends tell me to meaaage them when im home. Just equal care there.. Im just saying,, simply walking a girl home isn't wrong but seems unnecessary if there is no kind of relationship and they dont do any kind of effort back

[ObscuredBeyond]

@slimstiffy : It rarely gets that involved. Simply cheering up a female coworker who is feeling down can be its own reward. Unless she's a scorpion, that is. I've met a few scorpion women.

[slimstiffy]

Scorpion? Huh? You mean zodiac signs?

[ObscuredBeyond]

@slimstiffy: I'm talking the kind who will send someone to bully you if you so much as wave hello to them one morning. I'm referencing the Aesop fable of the frog and the scorpion. "You idiot! Now we'll both drown!" - the Frog "Sorry. I couldn't help it! I'm a scorpion!" - the Scorpion

[slimstiffy]

Oh okay..

[godfatherfan]

There is someone for everyone. Because even if there are men in your catagory, there are women from the same category. The only true way is to never try.

[Belgie]

Last one - The Delusional.

There are guys out there who even after reading this list, will never be able to point to something and go "Oh that's me. That's why."

They will always believe it is the womans fault. And that they are GOOD guys, who deserve nothing less than a 10 for a girlfriend/wife.

[aficionado]

I am an exception! I always blame myself for my lack of success with women, but I don't care enough about it to change myself because I have got my hands full with other priorities! :P

[Riggers]

On that "some men are too different from their fathers" and you have the little circle diagram thing. I am literally every single thing on the right. Hahahaha. I'm so fucked.

[akanetuk]

Very true

[alphadoggystyle]

social misogyny should definitely not be punished. Anyone is allowed to like or dislike whatever or whoever they want to like or dislike, without any kind of punishment.

[cavmanier]

If your fathers were the traits on the right and the suitor was on the left, would you date him?
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[xXiTacoXx]

I honestly wouldn't want to date anyone anything like my father. Especially knowing that my father is a slut and a liar. No thanks fam, I want to find someone who I won't get in a fight with. :T

[slimstiffy]

I was 'bout to look for the girls dad's instead of the girls' themselves.. To find my clone. Now i realize even that can't help.. Lol jk jk

[SilenRose]

This was pretty awesome. 👍

[ThisDudeHere]

Why was a gamer portrayed as immature? You can easily game without being a 12 year old at heart and mind.

[hazoplmeught]

wtf does short have to do with anything on this
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[BaileyisDarcy]

Nothing, its just an example of comparing a suitor to your father

[davepetef]

Playing video games = immaturity...