11 Reasons Why Some Guys Will Never Have Sex With A Woman

[Anonymous]

- Some men are workaholics

Some men go to work, do the work, and go home. This life routine leaves little or no time for dating, courtship, and sex.

- Some men are homosexual

Some men are just not romantically or sexually interested in a woman, so why would they invest in the time and money to spend time with her? Obviously, they would rather be with men.

- Some men eat too much junk food and never exercise

Some men eat too much junk food—processed foods, sugary foods, fatty foods. They have very little fiber and plant-based protein in their diets, and this shows in the morbid obesity. Lack of exercise, in combination with the bad diet, will lead to a deadly lifestyle. Women may not be interested in them, because fatness is unappealing.

- Some men smoke

Maybe just over 20 years ago, it was perfectly normal to smoke everywhere. Now, smoking is banned in many places. Smokers suffer a huge social stigma for this habit, but they are also given resources to quit. Hopefully, this trend will lead to a 100% smoke-free population, benefiting all of us. Male smokers may not be able to attract a female companion, because the female companion may be educated enough to know better that smoking is absolutely bad for human health, and that secondhand smoking can kill.

- Some men are afraid of or hate women

Some men are afraid of women. This aversion to women may exist in the form of a clinical phobia or social misogyny. The former should be treated; the latter should be punished.

- Some men are violent or have a criminal background

Some men are violent and psychotic. Psychopathy and a criminal background are likely to repel women as far away as possible. Women may feel sympathy for them, but a lover? Not a chance!

- Some men have bad social skills around women

Some men just don’t know how to communicate with women. They may have talked to a woman before, but they somehow cannot make the woman think that they are romantically or sexually interested in her. Instead, they are perpetually branded as “friend” instead of “lover”.

- Some men think women are a waste of time

These men do not waste their time on women. Instead, they pursue other interests. Many men in history thought that women were a waste of time, so they made themselves permanently and voluntarily celibate.

- Some men are immature

Some men think they are ready to pursue a relationship, because of their physical age. But their emotional maturity and inability to hold an intelligent conversation suggest otherwise. They don’t have the right mindset to think like a protective husband and father.

- Some men are too different from the women’s fathers

It is common for women to compare suitors to their own fathers. Their fathers set the golden standard of what it means to be a father. If their own daddy looks a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to look a certain way. If their own daddy behaves a certain way, then they may expect a suitor to behave a certain way. Obviously, women can’t marry their own fathers, so seeking a suitor who is like their own fathers is the best possible match.

- Some men believe they are undesirable

This belief is so strong that they do not even put in the effort to meet women or flirt with them. They believe that they will fail horribly or that women would reject them. To guard themselves from rejection and further damage to their self-esteem, they avoid women like the plague.

[ZenithDawn]

how did this win

[ShaeNielson]

I don't think being a smoker was ever the reason why someone died a virgin.

[fueledbythc]

Wow that last one kinda describes me. I just feel I'm undesirable.

[Scrambledagain]

some workaholics earn enough to buy sex with women hotter than any female gager. And it's less demand than the traditional route.

You forgot about kind, caring, chivalrous guys. They never get laid

Oh and overly religious guys.

[MsElizabeth96]

Some men are asexual

[John_Doesnt]

So why do I see so many fat dudes with a hot girlfriend? Or geeky guys who barely say a word with a gf? And smokers not getting a woman, since when?

[ThatBritishLad]

Who needs women when you have Dark Souls?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rn-JNBGQzog

[GreatnessRevamped]

None of those reasons will stop a girl from having sex with him, not even being gay.

I've seen it.

[inverted]

Some of your points are correct. Some aren't.

1) Work does get in the way. But in most cases, men have the time but just don't think it's worth the opportunity cost. Is it worth spending 20 hours a week trying to meet people on and offline just because you (might) get laid.

2) Being fat can be an issue. It lowers confidence and makes flings near-impossible. Fat girls can get flings. Fat guys can't. But a fat guy with a great personality can still get a relationship or a friends with benefits.

3) There's plenty of women that smoke or don't mind guys who smoke. It's a turnoff to a fraction of women but not an excuse for not having a sex life.

4) Being afraid of women is a legit issue. Some men are misogynist. Some had bad experiences in the past. Some never had experience with women friends so it feels awkward.

5) Violent/psychotic/sociopathic guys get laid all the time. They just hunt for desperate women with low self esteem.

6) Lack of social skills is a problem. Guys have the pressure of needing to be funny, sexy, flirty but not too flirty, confident but not arrogant, spontaneous but careful. It's like walking a tight rope sometimes.

7) Yes, you're right. Some men do avoid women because they don't want to waste time. As I said above, some men had bad experiences and others find that it takes too much time to find someone.

8) This is true. Well, I mean women date and marry immature guys all the time. I guess, you mean moreso the naive nerd immaturity than the dudebro immaturity.

9) Yes, low self confidence is one of the main reason.

And I'll add another main reason. Shyness. It has nothing to do with whether you're a niceguy, douchebag, fat, thin, whatever. If you put yourself out there, even if you are psychotic, fat, a smoker, etc. something will eventually stick. But if you're a shy guy, nothing happens because women don't approach men.

[clampfan101]

1 - I'm quite the opposite. lol
2 - I'm straighter than a new ruler! rofl
3 - That, I admit I'm prone to... But still feel I look decent. (What do you think?)
4 - I gag just seeing people smoke.
5 - I'm not afraid of women, and respect them greatly!
6 - I wouldn't hurt a fly! (Well, so to speak. I hate flies. lol)
7 - I'm shy around both genders. Although I do find talking to girls in fact easier than to guys.
8 - I'd spend all day with a girl, be her my SO or just a casual friend.
9 - I feel I'm mature for my age.
10 - I have no one to compare to yet.
11 - That is one of my greatest weaknesses...

I guess my score is about 9.5/11? (86*%)

[zagor]

Violent or criminal? That seems to attract some women...

[pavlove]

lol i think never is an overstatement

[Tomsta]

I fall into the last point a bit execpt that i do flirt i just expect the girl to not like me as im nothing soecial. Im average at best

[chc0009]

Well, with me, I finally lost my virginity, but the attractive or even average women were fucking difficult, so I had to settle for a fat one who was more than willing to.

[sixnineanon]

I guess I believe I'm undesirable or I actually am kinda undesirable?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

you're not undesirable, trust me.

[sixnineanon]

@SweetHomicidalQueen thanks 🤗

[RainbowFanGirl]

You're not 😔❤️

[sixnineanon]

@RainbowFanGirl aw thanks ❤️

[anonman32]

i have never seen a female gamer being perceived as immmature.

[Melcart23]

Social misogyny should be punished. Lol. I wouldn't call myself a misogynist, but are you going to really punish people based on their own feelings towards somebody? As long as they don't act on it in a physical way, you can't do shit about the way somebody thinks.

[realname]

this can apply to women too so i dont see why its only saying men...

[TheAngryBanana]

women actualy go after guys that are exactly like thier fathers? huh thats weird in my opinion but oh well :D

[michael45]

Two of these reasons I have and I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months.