3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

Fellas, have you ever walked up to a girl right off the bat they give you this stink eye or they just get up and walk away? I know, it sucks, trust me I've been in the same boat as you guys, but I have found out why girls do these things. There are three main reasons why this happens, physical features, body language, and personality. Let's get into it.

1.) Physical features

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

If you are an unattractive male chances are girls are going to find you more creepy than someone who is attractive. When women see an attractive male, they would go "Omg, he's soooooo hot! Look at those biceps! That jawline! He can be my man any time of the day!", where as if you are physically unattractive, girls would say "Eww, he's ugly, he's probably a rapist so my best bet is to leave." You do not understand how many times I have seen this happen. The bright side to this, and also kind of the bad side if you put it in a way however, is that mainly girls who are physically attractive are the ones doing this stuff. Lesser attractive women tend to be less extreme when it comes to the judgement of unattractive males.

2.) Body language

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy

Body language is a huge one. If you aren't projecting yourself in a way that is confident, then you would be automatically called a creep. Overly confident people, as in arrogant people, tend to get better results than those who are just moderately confident. If you don't project any confidence then girls will automatically think that you are out to rape people, which doesn't make any sense because not every guy is a rapist. DISCLAIMER: I obviously understand that rape is a very serious topic, but i'm using the word rape and rapist because that is one of the first things a girl thinks of when someone is creepy. Confidence however, cancels out when you're unattractive.

3.) Personality

3 Reasons Why Girls Think You Are Creepy
Personality is another biggie. If you're a shy guy like myself, then you get the short end of the stick. Guys who are awkward and shy are automatically creeps to girls, which is again stupid. Not every guy is born with amazing confidence. Some people are born insecure about every thing about them, like myself, which is why we remain reserved so that we can escape from rejection. I'm always nervous about what I'm going to say because anything I say to a girl can be turned against me, and it usually is. When I speak to a girl, more specifically girls who are more attractive, it's like walking on egg shells. What you say can determine what the opposite sex thinks you are.

So in conclusion, If you are unattractive, shy, and awkward guy, then you get the short end of the stick. It is unfortunate that even the 17 year old self has to deal with such bullshit. All my friends tease me about not ever kissing a girl, but I never tell them this because they never understand the mechanics behind why girls like them so much and why they don't like me. Hopefully you guys take some out of this and feel free to comment, whether that be praise or hate, it doesn't matter to me. This take can be a place to voice your opinion on the matter.

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  • Be loud. Be congruent and don't apologize for who you are. You won't just win with girls you'll thrive

  • While looks do play more of a role than people think when it comes to whether or not girls find a guy creepy, however, just because a guy has good looks does not automatically mean he is not creepy. If the good looking guys do something that's creepy, then he is going to cause girls to walk away. Good looking guys who act creepy are also huge idiots because they tend to be a God's gift to women. They can get almost any girl they want if they straight up their act, but they end up shooting themselves in the foot by acting creepy.

  • I wouldn't say that being unnatractive or shy automatically make you perceived as creepy, however I also disagree with the people who say that looks and shyness have nothing to do with it.

    Psychologically the way someone looks does affect how you perceive them on a subconscious level and there are features that give off more of a "creepy" vibe. Two people could exhibit the same exact behavior, but you may perceive them differently based on how they look. Also if you ask people to imagine someone creepy, most probably think of someone who is not conventionally attractive. Just google "creepy" guy and see what comes up. You aren't going to see pictures of guys who look like models or professional athletes.

    Now that's not to say attractive guys can never come across as creepy or than non-attractive guys are automatically perceived as creepy. However I do believe that the 'bar' for what it takes for someone to perceive you as creepy is set noticably lower if you are unnatractive and/or have a shy introverted personality.

  • Even as a child i've always thought creepiness was any guy whom a woman didn't find attractive. Hot guy smacks a woman on the ass she giggles and blushes and playfully pushes him away... "Stoooooop, tee hee hee." ugly guy does it, she slaps him, throws drink in his face, calls other guys over to beat him up.

  • That explains it. I was rejected by women as a teenager and then a 20-something because I am an asshole.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UrgpZ0fUixs
    • I don't know what you mean?

  • Lol at Lester

    • For me, when a significantly older guy makes his interest known it can be creepy. Not so much guys my age but any guy can come off as creepy. Among guys my age, staring awkwardly or trying to follow me without actually approaching is creepy

  • I'm an attractive, overly confident guy, but girls don't find me creepy because I don't do creepy things to them...

  • That's not true except if he's ugly. There's this guy I like who looks like a rapist and he's not very attractive and his personality could really use an intervention cause it stinks but I say he could be my man any day. It also depends on the girl and what she view as attractive.

    • do we know each other by any chance :O

    • @vnmcisback lmao no you're too young.

  • Its only flirting if a tall jacked douchbag, rich preppy high flyer or pretty boy player does it. If a good caring loyal nice guy, average Joe and ugly guy flirts its sexual harassment or creepy.

    Do you know its weird why people are always asking me why I hate women on human level. I mean if you actually take the time to think about it for a little bit, you'd probably come to the conclusion that there is absolute nothing to like about them.

    ... oh yeah! one thing, sex.

  • number 1 is the truest.

    Creepiness mostly applies to guys too. I've never met a creepy girl.

  • Blue anon... I couldn't get a girl to save my life until I hit my mid 20's as I was a shleterd, geeky string bean of a man. As i got older, I ate more, worked out and eventually got laser surgery to fix my eye sight. Those tough years of being a loner, scratching and clawing for everything I've ever had, developed my personality sot hat now those hot snobby girls all swoon when I walk by. I've learned all I could during those many lonely years reading everything I could get my hands on, watching and learning from all the other "successful" males around me. It gets better, especially when you have a lot to offer and all they have is their young bodies to give. I'm almost sad for them but then I think about all the things they get to experience that I had to earn but they got just because they have a vagina. C'est la vive!

    The search goes on for a compatible, more equal partner. I doubt I'll find my unicorn...

  • Dude you can overcomes no 1 and 3 with 2.
    You can use power poses like these
    s3.amazonaws.com/.../body-language-power-poses.jpg
    They do work.

  • Girls ask guys girls love ugly guys so you're not going to get a lot of love on this.

  • And i forgot the actual stalking lol

    • *u..

    • Well obviously yes that is actually creepy. But girls must realize that not all unattractive men are creepy stalkers

    • Agree some are shallow

  • I know why girls think I'm creepy... because I am creepy

  • I don't automatically think ugly guys are creepy. I mean, as long as you don't act creepy, you'll be fine. I've known good looking guys that just creeped me out, there was something off about them. I've known plenty of unattractive guys that's don't bother me at all.

  • I promise you, unattractive women reject unattractive guys just as much. unattractive men are considered sub-human by all women.

  • Lots of truth here. Is the guy in the top pic from The Human Centipede?

    • No, that is Lester from the video game Grand Theft Auto 5

  • So basically, you have no balls if you don't ask women out or you're a creeper for hitting on them. Thank god I am married. Dating sounds like a lose lose for men now.

    • Basically so, only handsome, arrogant people get away with women nowadays.

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