5 Reasons Why I Don't Feel The Need To Lose My Virginity Anytime Soon
Anonymous
1) It Doesn't Make Me Any More Or Less Of An Adult
I hear it all the time from other teenage girls:
"Oh my God, you haven't done it? You're such a baby!"
"Guys will think you aren't mature enough for them."
"If you haven't had sex then you don't know what a real relationship is like."
But how does having sex make you more mature? Does it change your opinions on politics? Or knowledge of world issues? Or make you more a responsible person?
Probably no.
2) It Won't Make A Guy Want To Be With Me More
I've heard this one more than once.
"If you don't give him what he wants, he's going to leave you."
Well honestly, if he leaves me because I didn't sleep with him then he didn't really like me that much anyway.
3) It Won't Make Me Feel Any Better About Myself
I truly believe that I don't need to have sex to know that it won't make me happier. It won't be a magical moment that changes my life and fixes all my insecurities. It won't assure me that I'm pretty and guys find me attractive and it won't assure me that someone cares about me either.
Because someone wanting to have sex with you doesn't mean you're perfect or cared for and I know that.
4) I Feel Really Confident Saying "No. Nobody's Had Me Yet."
It gives me a sort of rush of empowerment when people ask me. It's cool telling people that I've never been pressured into doing it and no guy has ever weakened me enough to have me give in. It makes me feel strong.
5) It's An Example To Other Young Girls
I like that other girls can look at me and think "Hey, she's confident, accomplished, and happy. And hasn't needed to give in to sex in order to be that way."
Now at some point it will happen, it could be two years from now or two weeks from now, but until then I am so content with myself.
Good for you, no one but yourself should make the decision to have sex. If you tell someone I'm not ready that should be enough. I respect a woman's decision to wait until she's ready, same goes for a guy.
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Omar5881Guru
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Thay pic in "3" made me remember that I need new shoes
Anyway I am glade people still think like this
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ejx629Xper 6
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People should lose (or not lose) their virginity if and when they feel comfortable. I agree strongly on point 1: sexual experience and maturity are not the same thing and anyone who doesn't believe that only needs to watch any paternity test episode of the "Maury Show". Just because you can have sex and make babies it does not mean you are a mature adult.
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bradlazerXper 5
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Cool 😎
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ice_vampireXper 5
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COOL... I AM VIRGIN TOO. Saving myself for marriage.
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SabretoothGuru
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great take... stay with this.
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PiluluXper 6
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Thank you! I hate how we're all bin pressured to have sex. I plan on waiting.
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Careless_WhisperXper 6
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Who gives a shit?
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Yoloxt23Xper 4
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Good, you're not a filthy slut like most women. We need more women like you.
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rachel1112
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So ur saying that women who has sex are filthy sluts?
Yoloxt23
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@rachel1112 No not necessarily, but she has to have a limited body count, 1-5 partners and more than that she's considered a slut and I don't care. I'm a red piller FOR LIFE and there's nothing you can do about it.
Yoloxt23
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I'm a MGHOW and I don't care if you like it or not.
Bribri12996Xper 4
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I honestly dont see why its anyone elses business. Or why someone who has had sex should feel less empowered. I also feel like you are a good example if you wait for someone who you are in a committed relationship with. But I do agree people shouldn't pressure others. When I was in high school I went to a party and drank and was pretty drunk. My "best friend" at the time didn't try to stop a guy from locking me in a bathroom with him. I almost had sex that night and I was a senior in high school. But since I was a virgin and we didn't have foreplay we couldnt continue. Thank god! Im so glad I waited until my boyfriend that I was with for two years.
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HotsoupXper 4
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yesss
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vuugvhjXper 2
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Amazing asf ❤
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myTake Owner
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<3 :)
user5645374Xper 2
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Somebody give this op the nobel peace prize
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Anonymous
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Great take
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Anonymous
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u can do whatever u want with ur life
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Anonymous
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Ohh my this article applies to me to a Tee. I agree with the article 100% and what it says it is true.
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32 33Awesome take.
Good for you
Good for you, no one but yourself should make the decision to have sex.
If you tell someone I'm not ready that should be enough.
I respect a woman's decision to wait until she's ready, same goes for a guy.
Thay pic in "3" made me remember that I need new shoes
Anyway I am glade people still think like this
People should lose (or not lose) their virginity if and when they feel comfortable.
I agree strongly on point 1: sexual experience and maturity are not the same thing and anyone who doesn't believe that only needs to watch any paternity test episode of the "Maury Show". Just because you can have sex and make babies it does not mean you are a mature adult.
Cool 😎
COOL... I AM VIRGIN TOO.
Saving myself for marriage.
great take... stay with this.
Thank you! I hate how we're all bin pressured to have sex. I plan on waiting.
Who gives a shit?
Good, you're not a filthy slut like most women. We need more women like you.
So ur saying that women who has sex are filthy sluts?
@rachel1112 No not necessarily, but she has to have a limited body count, 1-5 partners and more than that she's considered a slut and I don't care. I'm a red piller FOR LIFE and there's nothing you can do about it.
I'm a MGHOW and I don't care if you like it or not.
I honestly dont see why its anyone elses business. Or why someone who has had sex should feel less empowered. I also feel like you are a good example if you wait for someone who you are in a committed relationship with. But I do agree people shouldn't pressure others. When I was in high school I went to a party and drank and was pretty drunk. My "best friend" at the time didn't try to stop a guy from locking me in a bathroom with him. I almost had sex that night and I was a senior in high school. But since I was a virgin and we didn't have foreplay we couldnt continue. Thank god! Im so glad I waited until my boyfriend that I was with for two years.
yesss
Amazing asf ❤
<3 :)
Somebody give this op the nobel peace prize
Great take
u can do whatever u want with ur life
Ohh my this article applies to me to a Tee. I agree with the article 100% and what it says it is true.
Do We even care?
if you dont care why read it?
Yeah it's your life, but good take.