Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
You could say that sex is an art that is perfected over time. The more you know, the better you can perform doing the deed and the happier your partner will be! These pointers are loosely based on experiences I've had that were mainly done by inexperienced men, who just needed a little more knowledge to get it right.
#1 Don't ignore the clitoris
The clitoris is the most sensitive part and is often the main part which provides the most pleasure. Whatever you do, whether it's oral or penetration, always get the clitoris involved!
#2 Don't be rough with the clitoris
The clitoris is the same as the end of the penis - and is just as sensitive! If you wouldn't like someone slapping/flicking/biting the end of your penis, don't do it to a woman because the clitoris can be extremely painful when injured or played with roughly.
#3 Don't stop a woman from pleasuring herself
When a woman wants to pleasure herself during sex, some guys don't like it as they assume it's because they are unable to pleasure the woman and some will totally prevent it by moving her hand away. However, some women can only orgasm through the clitoris, so surely you'd want her to help herself get to orgasm, whilst enjoying the intimacy and act of sex? It doesn't mean you're bad in bed, it just means the woman isn't as sensitive and needs a helping hand (her own hand) to get things going.
#4 Don't think the woman didn't enjoy it because she didn't orgasm
It's a fact that women don't orgasm as often as men during sex. Men will orgasm almost every single time they have sex, whilst it's much less likely for women. Women still enjoy sex, even if they don't orgasm. They enjoy seeing you satisfied and appreciating her body. They love the intimacy and being in the moment with you. An orgasm isn't the make or break of a sexual experience, but that doesn't mean you can give up trying to bring her to orgasm.
#5 Don't stop learning
Even if you think you're a sex God (no-one is anyway), there's still something new to learn. As I said before, the more you know, the better you can please in the bedroom. Ask your partner what she wants and what she prefers in bed. Let her be honest about what you do in bed, that she doesn't like, without you getting offended. Take it as an opportunity to grow and change. The better the communication, the better the sex for you both!
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The first time I had oral done on me the guy was super rough and I was like.. how is this supposed to feel good? When he touched his teeth to my clit it was like *record scratch* WTF are you doing? And he kind of stabbed at my clit with his thumb and stabbed my vag some more with his fingers. I told him to ease up and he did a little but would go right back to jabbing and it was hard to get him to stop. It did not feel good at all and I was sore for a couple days after. The next guy was much better and gentler.
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why would he think that would feel good.. or do you think he didn't care its just more fun to jab?
@Azara I assumed he knew what he was doing but apparently not. My best guess is that he saw a few pornos of women faking rough fingering, or getting fingered rough (but the other actor knew what they were doing ) and just thought it was the perfect opportunity to try it out. From what I can tell is guys really don't know anything about fingering positions nor what is actually going on or what they're suppose to be stimulating once their fingers are in there. They think the friction inside our vagina is the same feeling as the shaft of their penis and it's not. I think he thought I liked it because I was yelling, but it was cries of pain. It was difficult to get him to release me.
and dont fart
Don't mention your ex's name.
It's awkward when your ex and your current girl have the same name o_O yikes lol
interesting
Guys prefer to dominate rather than please.
not all, depends on the setting aswell
Actually I find women to be dominating a great turn on. I tend to let her take the lead. As for pleasuring, i like to think that focusing on both of our needs is ideal, I mean after all we are having sex, its not sports match. Diferent positions, new ideas, are always welcome, and a lot of times, just doing light touches tend to bring more anticipation to the experience, and whatever you dont expect will make you orgasm over the top. i love watching her reach that climax, cause she expierenced something new. And mind blowing. lol
@COMMODOREII great advert for a sex bud
@COMMODOREII no its truly a sex sport for most younger ones (jocks) , the more chicks, the better, more is best, threesomes or foursomes, they have perceived as a sex festival where their friends join in and cheer them. A teue declaration of reaching the peak of manhood and masculinity and live to their stories til old age.
Beautiful points! My ex had long nails, and kept scratching my clitoris! It hurt so much, it was insane.
On point four, I would just like to say that it doesn't mean you shouldn't try to get her to orgasm. Just that if you don't succeed every time, there's nothing wrong with it.
how about saying clip the nails or keep off the landing.
@Azara The funny thing was, he tried to keep them clipped and all it did was make sharper edges.
wow lol thats messed up. :)
good my take
"Women still enjoy sex, even if they don't orgasm."
This one is not true for me. I need to orgasm in order to enjoy sex. Sex without orgams can never be a good experience for me. I'd rather just masturbate.
I agree with the rest though. Great take
I feel the same way in most cases. I believe in equal pleasure. If I'm having a lot of sex but only cumming 5% of the time, I feel like I'm giving myself away and not getting anything in return. If it becomes a one sided relationship where he's always happy and I'm not then someone is not putting in enough work. If it's a special occasion where I'm focused on making him happy, then fine, but just everyday sex needs equal participation.
@WillowTree I do feel that way too sometimes. But for me, it's less mental and more physical. I don't stop feeling tingly down there unless I get off. It even starts hurting if it's for too long. I'm not saying that he needs to be the one to do it, but it just needs to happen. I'll finish the job myself if I have to (although that's never been necessary). It gets painful otherwise.
Yep. If I don't cum during sex I finish myself off without him otherwise my body is restless until I do.
@WillowTree lol that's what I would do too
2# option is wrong clitoris isn't equally sensitive as head of penis.
Clitoris is more sensitive then glans of penis
Great info thanks.
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Most importantly, Women have rights; we should respect that.
... and don't forget that each woman is different. Cool take!
Great take!!
Good take. Good points. But experienced girls who wants it rough in all acts and everywhere including clit
Some want it rough at start of foreplay but want to go gentle when wet and nearing orgasm.
I like # 5 the best.
These seemed pretty obvious
Not obvious to all.
Yeah and don't forget the toys.
#6... Fart extremely loudly !!
I thought fart was going to be one of them
And burp
This is actually one of the best takes I have read.
Bravo!
I have done all of these things lol
woah thankyou! :D
Yeah, you are welcome, #5 is awesome when you have a girlfriend *sigh* I need to get back in a relationship
i jerked off to this.
That wasn't its purpose.
couldn't help myself.