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Unarguable fact: women get sex way easier than men. So casual sex is a choice, not something that is worked for. Woman: "I feel like sex tonight", and she will get it. She knows she has friends that will do her, or if not, a nice trip to the bar will do it, or even easier: online dating. There is a sea of men willing. She just needs to state her intention. Additionally, Any woman can get her fantasy met at a request. Hell, many women could charge shitloads for sex and they do.
Most men don't have this luxury at all. There are books, media, online material etc that make up a multimillion dollar industry to help men attract women. Frankly, most men don't have what it is that attracts women on the same level that woman attract men. Men have to have conditions of entry to just start being attractive: looks, money, some mastered talent, cocky funny humour (aloof humour goes nowhere) or a dominant "alpha" personality (and anyone who disagrees with alpha and what it stands for needs to go to grammar school). Woman charge for sex, and men pay for it through time or money (usually both). Unless you are an extrovert, this time takes a toll too (going out all the time)
So there is something interesting about the two adages : "if something works, don't fix it" and "prostitution is the oldest profession in the world" they both compliment each other, why?
1) It saves men time.
Getting laid means going out, chatting, chasing, escalating, getting dates, getting rejected etc. Many powerful men get prostitutes for this exact reason. They can cut all the bull shit and get to the end goal. Chasing women will come at a cost of not doing something else (working on talents or skills).
2) It often saves money.
Barring the fact that time is money, again all the above groundwork a guy needs to do to get laid costs money. And the return on investment is not in favour of a guy. Again, powerful men use escorts because they know their time is valuable.
3) A guy can be himself and get laid
Too short? Introvert? You not a social butterfly? Academics got you more into the books than woman? Nice guy? Everyone of you can have casual sex thanks to escorts. You can do the most hardest task a human can do and change your personality to be that what woman want, but it's a long road. In the meantime, you can still have fun.
4) You can explore sexually.
Again, why many men pay for sex (including powerful men) is that you can pay for your fantasies. You have to pay woman to do porn, strip and other wild things (would be an awesome world if they did that shit for fun with males). Think Hugh Hefner would get any woman without money? Additionally, it's quicker (and for most men, the only way) to pay for a threesome, for example. That's why again, many powerful men pay for this. It's a task getting one women back to your apartment, imagine 2 😳. I even read about a group of college students from a powerful college pay to have a gangbang. Again, they had to pay. But fantasy bucket list ticked. That's all that matters.
5) You don't have to deal with woman's shit (before, during or after)
What some guys do to get laid is mind blowing. But it's only mind blowing in the context of how easy it is for women and a handful of guys. Every guy has some crazy story of what he did to get laid. Most men even glorify the tragic fact that "they got lucky". With a prostitute, you can be yourself, you don't have to worry about rules and judgements, you can have fun without consequences (provided you wear a condom lol), you can save yourself from any drama and although we all know they are not attracted to their clients, they still give you positive scripts and experiences unlike the woman who give guys the cold shoulder and negative experiences.
So yeah. Very simple and easy. They should legalise it worldwide, embrace and protect this oldest profession. Will help many men and protect many women.
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It's fun I know. I'm a musician. This is music to my ears ha ha
Lol yes
So as not to clutter poor samhradh_leannan's notification box, I'll respond to redeyemindtrick's comments as well as others'... but later. It's past one AM and I'm tired.
@redeyemindtricks
legit
you aren't tagged anywhere except the (current) bottom of that thread
@redeyemindtricks I think we're seeing the differences between men and women come through here. The idea of a man seeing a prostitute seems to provoke such a visceral resposnse. I have noticed something else. There seems to be a correlation between the satisfaction with the woman's sex life and how negatively she responds. It seems that the most satisfied women have the most negative response to a man seeing a prostitute. At least that's what I noticed, and allow me to be the first to admit I could be wrong. But I must say that just as there's no accounting for taste, I suppose there's no accounting for what floods or dries a woman's basement. Trying to get a woman to not be revolted about a man seeing a pro is like trying to get me to like broccoli. It just can't happen if she hates the idea like I hate broccoli. No amount of intellectual argument will get me to like broccoli. Now, that being said I should also add that we do not need to give every feeling a voice...
I don't shout, "EWW! BROCCOLI!" every time I see someone eat broccoli. I personally have a similar revulsion to homosexual sex between men. However, I have several male gay friends and I don't tell them how revolting the idea of gay male sex is. Now if someone ASKS my opinion of broccoli and/or gay male sex, I'll tell them. But here's the one thing about prostitution that very few people are talking about, on this take and others. For all the talk about what losers the Johns are, how they're the bottom of the sexual totem pole, etc., hardly anyone is talking about how prostitution IS NOTORIOUSLY SHITTY TO MANY OF THE PROS. Forget those who were trafficked into it (and the sex taffic aspect is truly cruel), even those who go into it voluntarily often suffer very much in places where it is illegal and/or unregulated. This is why I believe men seeking a prostitute should think twice.
"we do not need to give every feeling a voice" ^^ I assume this is meant to refer to... relationships in general? Not to a website whose whole purpose is to give a voice to feelings that people may not always articulate? You ever try broccoli sautéed in spicy Szechuan garlic sauce? You may find that you don't hate it as much as you think you do (: Most people I know who hate broccoli, just hate the overwhelmingly bitter taste of *raw* broccoli (and they actually like the texture -- who wouldn't like the texture, the crunch is awesome). So, if you can (1) cook the broccoli and (2) accompany it with a sauce that cancels out the bitterness -- which the Szechuan sauce tends to do just right -- then... yeahh __ "There seems to be a correlation between the satisfaction with the woman's sex life and how negatively she responds" ^^ Interesting...
But, did you read my comments at the end of samhradh's thread?
It's not even so much that I'm being judgy about it -- it's just what it says about those guys. So, no, in my case it's not really as much of a visceral thing as you're making it out to be.
It's more like... discovering that someone from another culture thinks about something important to you in a way that's just WAY beyond yr comprehension.
Like... I dunno... having pet dogs all yr life, and then trying to have a relationship with someone who just doesn't understand the notion of companionship with a dog at all, and who can't see dogs as anything except pests and/or possibly food.
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Maybe it's something like what's discussed in RJGraveyTrain's thread here:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2063898-girls-why-do-you-date-older-guys
In that thread, smmyskittles talks about her
experiences with younger guys who "don't care and expect to get off without having to do anything" in bed. I've NEVER been with a man like that -- srsly, every guy I've ever been with has seemed almost desperate to get ME off -- but, THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT when I talk about everyday guys who are willing to use prostitutes. It says that they have THAT attitude toward sex. That sex is something you GET FROM someone... and not something that you ENJOY WITH someone. And that... fuck no. I couldn't deal with that.
As for the disabled and disfigured, I come out in support of sexual surrogates. In their case, it's not a matter of telling them to level up, to go to the gym, to increase their game. Many times their disfigurement will make increasing their game to no avail. Many are stuck in group homes where social opportunities are as rare as water in a desert. Try as I might, it's difficult for me to see another solution (for the record, I don't consider telling them to jerk it a solution... and neither would anyone with an atom of intellectual honesty). by the way, I have known people in the aforementioned scenario who have resorted to prostitutes and sexual surrogates. In the case of prostitutes, most of them came away feeling worse. In the case of sexual surrogates, the responses were more positive. by the way again, several young men on gag have privately messaged me on gag about seeing prostitutes and how they were lonely and depressed...
"This is why I believe men seeking a prostitute should think twice" ^^ Hahahah not gna happen. Remember my point -- We're talking about exactly the guys who think that even SEX is something that you just go get from someone... not an experience to enjoy WITH someone. What in the world makes you think those guys would *ever* put themselves in the shoes of the "provider" and think about what SHE has to go through? As if.
As I have noted, most felt more lonely, more depressed after the experience. However, I do not think they were bad men, or total losers, etc. I found them to be struggling men. After chatting with them, some had a better conceit of themselves.
"After chatting with them, some had a better conceit of themselves" ^^ If it was a one-time thing like this AND it actually served as a learning experience, then, yeah, I suppose I could tolerate it. Still wouldn't be the sort of thing I'd *want* to hear about, but, under those specific circumstances, I suppose it could at least... not be a total deal-breaker.
@redeyemindtricks Yes, I'm talking about relationships in general. I'm not just talking to you. I said I was responding to you and others. Ultimately it just comes down to how you and I and others feel about it. In using terms like "disgusted" and "ugly loser" and "huge yuk factor" and a host of similar terms, I'd say that's visceral. It's not like anyone is proving the congruency of triangles. It all comes down to how these people feel about it, no matter what the reasons are (and I've read your reasons redeye and they are still feeling based). I even agree with your readons, redeye, but I admit our reasons are feeling based. In my opinion, you are being judgy. And so am I. You should know I don't think there's anything wrong with being judgy when all the facts are carefully weighed, which you seem to have done. As for guys refusing to see prostitutes because the profession often hurts the pros, I have had personal experience with this...
My brother and I *have* talked some men out of it using precisely that reasoning. I understand that you feel sex is to be enjoyed WITH someone, not gotten from someone. I feel the same. But it's not like we hooked the topic up to a disgust-o-scope or a revolt-o-meter. It still just comes down to how you and I feel about it. My in-laws, who I still eat dinner with from time to time, are Asian. I've tried broccoli a jillion different ways with a jillion different sauces. I hate broccoli with Szechwan sauce. I hate broccoli with my boss. I hate broccoli in the rain. I hate broccoli on a train. I hate broccoli on a boat. I hate broccoli with a goat. I would not, could not, redeye-I-am. I'm out of rhymes! Oh damn!
Lol dr seuss... It's funny, because broccoli gives me awful gas and I still love it so much that I gorge on it anyway. When I was pregnant, I'd get these massive cravings for pounds and pounds of steamed vegetables (yep, srsly). Once I ate like 2lbs of garlic broccoli at once, during my 17th week or so, and the gas hurt so bad that it actually felt like labor pains. BUT SO WORTH ITTTTT
(the rest of the discussion got too abstract for me, so I just kinda nodded ma head at that part)
Lol at all the losers in the comments blaming feminism. I read all the comments and nowhere fid women slut shame prostitutes, they just said if you slept with one it's a dealbreaker. Learn to read you bloody idiots. And then the poor chums saying "well celebrities sleep with prostitutes, are they losers too? no", lol you are the fucking definition of stupidity, those men are indeed losers, just because your rich and famous doesn't mean your anything more than a pathetic piece of trash. What's next, "celebrities do drugs, does that make them dumb ass mother f'rs? no" 😂. Get your shit together loser men of G@G, your making all the good and decent guys on here look bad!
I'm not even against men sleeping with prostitutes, do what you want but it will make me look down upon you, y'all are the ones that are butthurt trying to insult the girls who won't sleep with your loser ass. No wonder you can't get laid without paying for it!
Also, the whole "women can get laid easily" things is stupid. Yeah, plenty of men may want to fuck Susan but guess what, Susan has these things called preferences and Susan may not want to fuck any of those men. Susan has standards so Susan may not get laid for a very long time because the nly men pursuing her are losers (like the loser guys of G@G!). Most of you "average men" probably know at least one girl that would fuck you but you don't want to because you find her unattractive. Don't act like that's a lie.
Lol at all the pink losers, saying that men are pathetic and losers. Women have such double standards.
@bobbyxx, okay whatever makes your tiny, frail ego feel better mate 😂
I don't blame anything or accuse woman. It's just how it goes. Some men are losers in a woman's eyes. But the tragedy is because it's due to a soft personality or introversion, or overt kindness. That defines a creep for woman. But these men also want sex like everyone else. Why should good genuine guys not get any because it's a females choice not to go for soft men? Let me tell you another thing about Susan. There are a minority of guys who Susan would pick. But all the other women (Sarah, Jill, Kim) would go for those guys too. Not all of us are born tall dark handsome extroverts
Hey it's up to you what you do, it will make me think less of tou but that's just how it goes. Women who sleep around are also looked down upon. People who have children out of marriage are looked down upon. Divorced people are often looked down upon. The list goes on forever, we just need to learn to accept that certain things make society frown and just suck it up and shut up instead of complaining and whining about it.
Exactly! Everyone gets looked down on. So a nice guy/soft guy is going to be looked down on whether he gets laid or not by prozzie. But rather get laid!! It's the rock n roll way
I would have agreed with you, but you also seem to be insulting men.
We can tell you're a feminist
@BeastRB good to know, no one asked you! 😃
The Comments that girls left were disgusting and showed how they are jealous of hookers. They said "guys who go for prostitutes are ugly loosers... they are grosss... they are dusgusting pigs. They are piece of shit. They have no self esteem". These comments got the most upvotes from girls. And guys who said they prefer sluts got the most UPVOTES from girls too. It is obvious that if this take was "5 Unarguable Reasons Why Prostitutes are A Good Option for the Average Guy" it would get the nicest comments from girls.
@gukikip what ever floats your boat buddy.
I agree with this actually 😂
Thank you. You are awesome. Logical. You will understand a man better than most and he will open up to you more.
I think women who are against it either think that their husbands will see prostitutes or they're just plain jealous that some women can seek p***y and they can't 😂 I think men who are against it are afraid to settle down with a woman and find out she used to be or is a prostitute
You are just so intelligent. I love it
Well if were applying LOGIC AND NOT EMOTIONS you're correct... I do agree with the fact that women can get sex whenever they want. Look at your average porn site and you'll see female users profiles that pick and choose the type of men they they want to message and fuck them in the about me section... its just life. In the courtship phase women can fuck who they want while talking to you with MINIMAL effort meanwhile you could amass a $40-60 date plus gas $5-10 thats JUST THE FIRST DATE $45-$70... its just life. Am i bitter? FUCK NO I'm comfortable with i am there are good women who haven't been touched you got TO PUT IN EFFORT.. I've been where you are trust me it hurts but its how the world works. Make money and then fuck bitches or move to a big city and cheat on everything that moves like my male cousins do IN NYC...
If you want to go to a hooker... do it. But when you do find a woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with... she might not think the same way.
That's why people lie about their past;) if she was a slut, I will bring it up. If not, I won't. But as long as you clean, all is fair. besides I won't be with a woman who selfishly denies men prostitutes, especially in their younger years when woman didn't look at them. By that, I mean if I said to her that I had one because I was still figuring out shit and it's a deal breaker, then fuck her. She is stupid and not worth my time.
Dude... to to your hookers then. Why do you feel the need to brag about going to a hooker? Go... but a woman has a right to her opinion just like you. You know I did not call you a big loser for going to a hooker now did I? But you want to call me stupid... because I disagree with you. You knew when you wrote a take like this there would be backlash.
Hey I didn't call you stupid? I said if a woman told me that in the context of my situation. Was directed at you.
Lol... wasn't...
The Comments that girls left were disgusting and showed how they are jealous of hookers. They said "guys who go for prostitutes are ugly loosers... they are grosss... they are dusgusting pigs. They are piece of shit. They have no self esteem". These comments got the most upvotes from girls. And guys who said they prefer sluts got the most UPVOTES from girls too. It is obvious that if this take was "5 Unarguable Reasons Why Prostitutes are A Good Option for the Average Guy" it would get the nicest comments from girls.
Did Barney Stinson write this?
Me... I make barney look tame.
I beg to differ. 😂
Here is a secret... if I have enough money for expensive hookers, why not just use that Capitol to start my own porn. I can pay women to make movies. Barney didn't do that.
Well, I'll at least share my own reason:
When you're about 11-12, you start getting horny. From there on, one, if not the, most wished for thing is to have sex. If you're not scoring anything at all, this sexual frustration will only keep building up.
By the time I was 25 and past my youth I was still unkissed and the sexual frustration was absolutely massive. Majority of my life I've had one of the strongest urges go unfulfilled. And I saw/see no end in sight.
The choice is easy. Either I have sex with gorgeous beauties or keep spending my entire life without sex. A piece of the cake is better than getting no cake at all you know?
Exactly. Woman don't have this problem so they don't understand
I guess for guys with poor self-esteem and lack of courage. But the rest of us don't want or need them.
you realize even celebrities use hookers right?
@dudeman I'm aware of that, yes. Most people who use them are guys with money, who can afford to just because. The vast majority of Johns are wealthy men, and even some politicians. The average joe is a small percentage of clients.
so all those rich men have poor self esteem and lack courage... right.
@dudeman I just said that wealthy men do it because they can. They can afford to. It's a quick and enjoyable way for them to get sex completely on their terms, especially when they're travelling. It's a luxury. For the average joe it's usually out of loneliness even when they are married or have gfs.
right. so i guess you're wrong then.
@dudeman In fairness, most of them admit that you don't pay the girl for sex. Sex is free. You pay her to leave you the fuck alone once sex is over.
@Belgie Good point.
Its not like guys that dont have courage to... will have courage to hire prostitute. It also involves some risks different kind but still it also need come courage especially if its first time and they dont know where to look for them... In some countries its not just go online type in escort and hit enter...
There was a s study that was done, and prostitutes who answered the survey said that 40-60% of the time that their clients don't want to have sex with them the first time they meet. They actually just talk to them, and get to know them. So yeah i could see out of loneliness
@dudeman so what? cool, attractive and famous guys do it, so the rest of us should consider following lead? tom cruise is a scientologist and has done all kinds of crazy shit for his "church". does that make it appropriate to do the same as him?
@howzit2015 Yeah, that's probably the same study I read. Most average joes really just like the company of hookers.
@the_rake derp deeeerp derp
@dudeman and derpity derp derp burp right back.
@the_rake a derp derp
Only on GaG are men so fucking desperate lol seriously, I know too many guys who aren't rich Chad Thundercocks and get laid without having to pay
if you feel they're the good option for guys... its ok.. its all up to you but it will lower your chances or getting a real relationship
#Justsaying
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Being a nice guy also lowers your chances. Just sayin.
So don't be a nice guy. Be a confident, fun guy with values and standards that excites a women, makes her want to be with him, and moves things forward. If so many guys weren't so sex crazed, had a bit of patience and self respect, they could select the women they want, have the women trying to impress him. Can't blame girls for having the power over most guys when they act the way they do. If it annoys you, quit bitching and take action to become a better more attractive man.
i doubt it, only of your values/morals.
@MusicMayhem... like your name. My new metal band I want to do is going to be about love mayhem! I'm hoping it causes enough shit to make the news. That said, tell me what makes a fun man? I'm all ears. Ever play at a major gig? Played at many South African festivals. Thought that was fun. Never got me laid though.
Friend of my used to say better being alone than in bad relationship. Most relationships are bad and thats actual problem so guys just decide paying is lesser evil. Just saying. Good relationships are hard to find/create mostly cos girls are way they are now days.
He dont even know what he is talking about and if he is attractive to girls its not cos of him its cos he is born under lucky star. People that have problem and overcome it are guys that know guys that dont have problem they dont know shit so should not sell some non working nonsense just cos it works for them and ignore actual reason why its working for them. Why he dont know what he is talking? Well putting things like value and standards in same sentence with exiting women say all. This also adds to him not knowing what he is talking about "If so many guys weren't so sex crazed, had a bit of patience and self respect, they could select the women they want, have the women trying to impress him"
Haha thanks, i actually haven't played an instrument seriously since i was 14. Aside from stealing the djs show at a wedding recently when i smashed some epic stuff on the bongos. Just doing my own thing had girls dancing around me! Make ur own fun and people will come to you. But you have to appeal to a womens emotions, dont ask boring questions. Learn to be a kid again! Play silly games with them!
How would she know anyways?
Shut up loser.. You aren't in high demand.. Just saying by the way I don't see prostitutes
"Hey ASSBUTT!" Misha Collins is absolutely freakin' hilarious as Castiel.
I see where you are coming from and some are valide points. And its very true that the very wealthy often times do hire escorts. I guess they dont want to waste their time with girls that have different motives
Taking a girl out multiple times before she decides to sleep with you probably cost most than one night with a damsel
Either way there is something special about seducing a women to sleep with you vs paying for it. UncomparAble. But i can see where and how it has its place in society
Men who use prostitutes are loser neckbeards who cannot get a woman the right way. Instead of taking the easy way out, I would rather work on myself in order to have better prospects with women. And if that does not work, then at least I can maintain my pride opposed to losing all integrity and honor.
Many women act like prostitutes by sleeping only with really successful, handsome guys and/or only putting out because the man bought her dinner. And just as I would judge a man who sees prostitutes, so I would also judge a promiscuous woman. But such women are not the topic of this thread so it is irrelevant.
for once I agree 100%
Mature guy right here
I don't support it because it can spread STDs, and destroy both the prostitutes and customers life. You can say "well wear a condom", but they're not 100% effective. Next, prostitutes are not always some 18-21 year old girl who is trying to put herself through college. A majority of the time they are victims of the sex trade and human trafficking problems that plague our society that are not doing the profession out of their own volition, but are force to so. By performing transactions with these prostitutes you are essentially saying you condone, and approve of these people action by forcing these people to do it. It is a terrible thing, and a destructive thing. I am in medical school and have to interact with prostitutes all the time, and the shit they come in for is so fucked up. There is one girl, who is a transexual and their pimp kicks the shit out of them all the time. By buying from these people you are supporting them, and enabling them to continue doing it.
Lastly, we live in a society where it is easier to get laid than it ever has been in the past. We have apps and internet sites that are solely dedicated to getting you laid.
Sloots spread STD too
@gukikip yeah. The main reason you shouldn't do it is because you are funding and financially supporting the sex trade and human trafficking.
we shouldn't sleep around because promiscuity spreads STD
It's so sad that outside the bedroom a woman's presence disgusts you that much
@Mrwoo99 me? no. A woman who loves you may give you reasons. Sure there are lots of assholes but nice girls still exist and they provide a good companion. Men and women are different and having each other around is really enjoyable, at least in my opinion. What you asked is just like me asking if there are any reasons to love a guy except for his wallet
I think his point is that the time, effort, and pain of trying to find a woman can be particularly overbearing, and that prostitution can give you both companionship and sex without said pain.
@TheSpartan I'm pretty sure his point is that women are only good for sex so that's why they're not worth the effort. But whatever, I'm just tired of seeing this kind of bullshit, just like you got tired of feminists, we're tired of mysogonists.
Well... at least set some targets for us to meet so we know if we are on right track or if it's working between us because sometimes it feels like hitting a brick wall
Women have done this to themselves. You should have stayed as women.
@Mrwoo99 there isn't one, and if they aren't providing sex then there is no point to them.
@Heera it is you feminists that make us misogynist.
I love women. I have tons of woman friends. It's getting casual sex that is the problem. You @heera assumed that. Actually, some friends (female) fully agree with me. Men have to climb a mountain to get that which woman get so easy. That's all it is.
@bobbyxx thanks for being the perfect exemple for what I described earlier
I'm not against guys going to prostitutes honestly, I think it's better than fooling girls into sleeping with them if they don't want casual sex, I just got annoyed again by all the bitterness I felt not only in your take but in the comments as well.
@TheSpartan Prostitution can give you "companionship"?
@heera I'm not a mysoginist. Just a guy who wants equal sex opportunities like women. Very simple.
Yes that's right. Equal sex opportunities.
@bobbyxx no one was against that
Almost every woman is against sex equality, as you can see in the comments. I wish every man didn't have to use prostitutes, but many don't have a choice. That's the crux of all of this. you accept this, or you accept men are disadvantaged with this and just have to deal (which I can't lol)
The thing is, more women would have casual sex with men if there wouldn't be so much "slut" shaming and people that value virginity more than anything. If people would be more open minded (women and men as well) sex opportunities would be equal
Open minded? Incredibly tall task for the majority of woman here. Clearly. That said the slut shaming argument doesn't hold water. I'm in polyamorous groups where sluts are praised and It still boils down to this fact: women are attracted to a certain bunch of traits that only a fewer men posses. I accept that but woman must accept the implications that arise from this.
Actually, if you read some psychology books you'll understand better that women are mostly attracted by confidence and ambitions. Sure, there are some that are brainwashed by media so they roughly find any attractive guy in real life, but MOST women are attracted by ambitious, confident men. Why? Because subconciously they connect these traits to the ability to protect them and their children. This is why women don't find "nice" guys attractive. They're too "soft" to be their "protector". Besides the stupid stereotypes, women are more attracted by personality/status (yes, even if you're not rich you can attract a girl if she feels safe with you) because they seek protection just like men are attracted by beautiful feminine women (because beauty is associated with health) cause they seek a healthy mother for future children. Believe me, it's not harder to get laid as a man, you just need to show more confidence when approaching women.
Sure there are lots of girls with unrealistic expectations but they're just immature. Anyways, again, I'm not against going to prostitutes. Go on if that's what you want, it may save you time, but this comment section is just bitter as well as the article
was bitter hey? Males and females. It's the reason I did it. Like you said, woman don't go for nice guys, but they exist. And a nice guy is still a guy who also has a libido. As long as they exist, so will prostitutes.
I get it on a purely logical level. I think it's more about compartmentalization and the mental of both parties. She knows why she's there, for bread, and he's there for sex the "he" wants. From the average joe, to the celebrity, to the husband whos wife hasn't given him any in 5 years, to the couple that wants a threesome. Sex is a primordial force, the fact is both sexes need instant gratification at some point. For women it's this connection that they can't make for men, because when they seek a relationship, that's exactly what they are hoping will happen A RELATIONSHIP. Where as men, let me put it this way. If your moderately attractive, everyman not related to you has thought about HAVING SEX WITH you. We all want sex and love, just not necesarilly in that order. Men and women objectify each other. Most Women want from Men the possible security (romantic, financial, etc.). Most Men want from Women, Sex. We love your body, a womans skin is made like silk for a reason. Your biologically engineered to be desired, and that in it of itself is beautiful.
Prostitution is simply cost effective. Dating cost money, to be consistent, takes time. And if your dealing with a girl whi needs that emotional connection first, your in for a minimum of 6 weeks worth of budgeting hard, before its acceptable to bring up going dutch lol. So, I get it. Its fucked up (but so is paternity fraud, and greenhouse gasses, and the fact that Donald Trump maybe the president of America) Sometimes things suck lol. We want sex. Some of us innately more than others, and there's an instant gratification option. It's like going to play ball and no one picks you to play. Do you wait? No, you find another court and shootaround until someone picks you up.
If you really want that, I guess you go for it, it's your own decision. But I myself wouldn't do so.
I have no interests in such things, I'd waayyy rather just have an old fashioned relationship with a girl. That at least has meaning.
You know, being there for each other, doing very great things together, travelling together, going on adventures together. Just having a great time in general. To me that sounds way more appealing than just banging each other quickly and then leaving.
I guess it's cheaper and easier than getting into a relationship but if you can get girls to hookup with you or be fuckbuddies then thats even cheaper and easier than going to a prostitute. But I guess its only easy if you're the type of guy who is capable of getting girls to want commitment free sex with you.
I guess prostitutes are good if you just want get learn what to do and gain some confidence with a girl who won't judge you.
Looks like in the U. S. about 1 in 5 men have gone to a pro... Kinda crazy to think something so common between consenting adults is illegal.
"It saves money."
Are YA serious bud?
"Life is short"
So what? get a prostitute? I mean if life is short then I bet there are better things to do out there then rent a prostitute ---.----
this is hilarious balls!! hahahahah
To be honest, I can't imagine a better thing to spend money on than a prostitute.
@TheSpartan is that so?
It saves a shitload of money.
Tsk tsk tsk how sad
Its crazy cause it's like women don't see the difference. Imagine a world where women could buy LOVE. How much would a woman pay to be loved for a week. Or a month. Or a year. How much? Lol.
@NoFcks2Give A real woman wouldn't pay at all. Love is free why put a price on it. And if that ever happens it would truly be a pathetic world. U can't put a price on love. Unless it's fake. Then by all means go ahead. Get " loved" by a phony. You'll only be fooling yourself. ohhh and look at all da downvotes!!! Im loving this!!!
Yeah... give me something that beats sex?
ohhhhhh you one of those dudes... how sad bruh how sad
Lmao Ikr? It saves money 😂😂😂 laughed so hard at that lol
@akadatank44 exactly! I looked at my calendar and double checked again. Nope still not April fools 😂😂 I
Hahahahah you had to look? The heat getting to you over there?😂😂 it was just Canada day a few weeks ago
@TheSpartan I can. Popular Patristics. Aren't you another scholarly religious type? Me, you, @ObscuredBeyond, and Raven?
The Comments that girls left were disgusting and showed how they are jealous of hookers. They said "guys who go for prostitutes are ugly loosers... they are grosss... they are dusgusting pigs. They are piece of shit. They have no self esteem". These comments got the most upvotes from girls. And guys who said they prefer sluts got the most UPVOTES from girls too. It is obvious that if this take was "5 Unarguable Reasons Why Prostitutes are A Good Option for the Average Guy" it would get the nicest comments from girls.
@gukikip I just lol all da time someone leaves a comment on here! 😂😂😂 I did not mention anyone of those things. And so what if they did. Everyone has a opinion and each opinion should be respected. In the end if you want a hooker. G'Head bruh get one! rent one! Hell even marry one. who da fuck cares? You'll just be ruining your own life. Not anyone else's. And plus the hooker gets the benifit. She comes out the winner in this case and in every case!
there is nothing wronf if a hooker gets married
@gukikip that's what I said
I find articles like these extremely condescending for the guys that want to do things the proper way. if the man doesn't want to pay for something that should be pleasurable to both him and the woman, then let the man have standards, let him stick to his principles: it's the right thing.
He's not trying to force anyone to see or be a prostitute. He's only saying for a lot of men it could be an option they might well find attractive.
the_rake I'm with you on this one.
Meant @the_rake
@Jager66 Those men have probably heard of / thought of such options before. They don't need people to keep rubbing it in. @ManOnFire Good to hear :) I realise I also got a female downvote, most likely because I'm focussing on the male perspective here (a man might not want to get a prostitute because he does not want to pay for sex). Realise however, that prostitution is degrading for women as well - arguably more so. I really don't think the world - men OR women - needs articles like these.
How is this rubbing anything in? It's just talking about the topic for whom ever might be interested in the topic. I think we both must have interpreted it all very differently. no big deal.
Guys who have been virgin for a long time, celibate, whatever, and stuck rigid to their principles even when they were dying to have sex with a hot hooker probably don't want to come across all these pages with articles and comments like "nice guys aren't nice" "loser virgins should consider hooking up with prostitutes" "it's easy to get laid, just go on timber" "it's easy to get laid, just work out and get a job" ... and all the other crap you read on websites like this one. I know the op did not literally say "loser virgins should get a prostitute" but that's how lots of late in life male virgins and celibates are going to feel like: losers, unattractive and that they should just give up on their principles and hook up. All of this pressure is accumulating on top of the social pressure for a guy to "become a man", as well as the very real physical urges that men feel to have sex - almost as bad as needing the toilet. It's like you're an obese man trying to diet...
... and someone keeps waving a nice juicy leg of fried chicken under your nose, saying "go on, just give in... you know you want to". No. Just don't do it. It's a dick move - I don't care what your intentions are. Even if you honestly want to help the guy out, it's just throwing unsolicited advice in his face all the time. Leave him alone. Give him advice that will make him more attractive to women if you really want to help. Introduce him to your circle of friends. Just don't dish out this shit.
The proper way? There is no proper way. So do this, write a book about the proper way, save a bizziolion males lives and make a bizziolion!
@Mytaker You did what you had to do, or felt you had to do. Stop waving that option in other men's faces: not everyone wants to go down the same path as you.