When you think about masturbating, you probably think only about doing it on the solo. I mean, it makes sense since it really is “solo sex.” It’s a good way to get to know your body on your own terms, without pressure from someone else. On the other hand (no pun intended), masturbating with someone else can actually be a really good idea. I know it might feel a little invasive to have someone hang with you during your “you time,” but there are ways to actually make it not weird and pretty fun.
Masturbating with someone can be a bonding experience for you and your bae, or just an exciting and "new" sexual experience for you and a hookup. Regardless of who it is, you should really try it, since it can be super liberating to share that part of you with someone else. But there are some thing to know before you just get naked and start doin’ it in front of a partner. Let’s just get this out of the way first: if you aren’t comfortable masturbating on your own, won’t be comfortable masturbating with someone else. It’s just the way it is! You need to learn to be confident and comfortable on your own before you invite someone else into the picture. So try to masturbate just you for a bit so that you can feel more confident. Then, when you’re ready, try out some of these simple tips for masturbating with a partner. You’ll be hooked.
1. Talk About What You Want
There is no "correct way" to masturbate with someone else, and there are a few different ways to do it, but it's important to communicate this with your bae. You don't want to do anything you're not comfortable with, like sitting too close to each other, or sitting too far apart. You want to tell your partner exactly what you want, and you want them to tell you what they want so you can make the experience great for the both of you!

2. Show Them How You Do It
This is actually really important! If you show your partner exactly how you do masturbate, next time they are fingering you, they will know exactly what will make you feel good, which is super important when you're getting it on. Besides, who better to learn from than you, the expert of your own sex life!

3. Add Toys
You don't just have to use your finger, obvs. Add a vibrator to the mix for a whole new experience and Tbh, your partner will probably really want to watch you do it.Starting by using a vibrator on other parts of your body, like your lips or neck, then make its way down there.

4. Make Eye Contact
Eye contact with your bae when you're both getting it on with yourselves can be super hot. It will help you stay connected, but it can also help relax you in case you get a little nervous.

5. Orgasm At The Same Time
A lot of the time, you and your bae might not orgasm at the same time during sex. It happens. You might not be able to orgasm through intercourse, or maybe your bae takes a lot longer to finish. But with "mutual masturbation", you can give your partner a warning as to when you're going to finish so that you can finish at the same time

6. Use It As a Form Of Foreplay
You can also use masturbating with your partner as a form of foreplay. It can be a good way to build up the 'excitement' between you and bae before you actually have sex. You can even try edging, which is just a fancy word that means stopping right before you orgasm, then have sex with your bae. It could actually make your orgasm better

7. Dim The Lights
If you REALLY wanna try masturbating with someone else, but are not the most confident person in the world, try doing it with the lights off. Sure, you won't be able to see each other too well, but just knowing your bae is there will be a pretty intense experience. And if you do it enough, you'll finally start to get comfortable enough to do it in the light!
Enjoy Ladies and Gents :)
J.J
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