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I am in my 30s. Big deal.
People start wondering why is she still single? Woman, your biological clock is ticking! Get a man! But men my age like younger women. What do you want me to do? Go out there and force a guy to impregnate me so I can satisfy your curiosity? My answer is no! Leave me alone. Let me tell you something: this is my body, my life, my choices. So fuck off.
Just because I am out of the calendar doesn't mean I'll be a single, old woman living with 40 cats in the comforts of my TV and my vibrator for the rest of my life. Or maybe I will be in the future but so what? People forget there are other men out there who thinks I still got it and those are the men younger than me!
Don't get me wrong. I like men my age, older guys even but I'd definitely be flattered if a man younger than me takes a liking of me. Wow! I could be his mother or auntie but hey he's showing me he is attracted to me and that is just mind blowing. Who am I to say no especially the man in question is showing some serious moves?
The best part, the feeling is mutual!
It doesn't seem to faze them a bit. Is this the new trend? Are you looking for a part time sugar momma coz I am nobody's Sugar Mommy. I can give you sugar but no honey I am not financing you. Get a job and maybe we can get together and I can ride you. I mean we can both ride off to the sunset. LOL. I am no desperate old hag who will take whatever I can just because I am not getting any. Nah uh.
I am still a person. I won't expect you to marry me. I may not be able to provide you kids from my birth canal (although I still can if I choose to) but I can provide you a love/companionship girls your age may or may not be able to provide. Treat me good, I'll treat you better. My age shouldn't be a factor for you to take me into consideration of dating me or just a part of your fantasy. I deserve love too. But certainly I am not begging for it. Either love me or just leave me alone. At my age, I already know what I want. I have no time for guessing games. Are we doing this or not? <3
Thanks for the time reading.
Xo's Pinay_Ako
What Girls & Guys Said
28 69Nice take.
When I left high school and first started working, the reason I preferred older women. Was because older women were looking for a sexual relationship, and not a long term commitment.
There were none of the BS games females my age played, when I met an older woman and if we left together we both know we were leaving to have sex. This holds true today, and is why younger guys hit on older women.
You go girl
When I was 47 I dated a guy who was 37 for about 5 months. The only thing we had in common was sex.
Whatever. Not really interested in old women.
so why bother reading lol.
Good question.
35 with any Asian genes = 25 in the west :P
I'm 35, married with four kids and still attract younger men. It's not really that out of the ordinary. It's because they don't have to break us in.
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I just joined the 30 club and always get mistaken for a damn teenager. And then when they do find out my age, younger guys always take it as challenge lol.
I thought you were going to say that they make you feel young again lol good take!
My girlfriend is 2 years older than me (i'm 32 & she's turning 35 next month).
... And?
@BaileyisDarcy im enforcing the idea that i'm dating a woman older than me (although slightly) and that it's been a non-issue :-D
Thats because 2 years is literally nothing. Claim she's older when the gap is 10 years.
I get college girls hitting on me from time to time at work. I tell them I may look young but I'm actually 38. Most say "Wow" and move on but a few keep trying. And like you said it is flattering but I don't have the time nor energy to deal with the unbalanced drama that is youth.
True. Busy making money.
You could not have said it better. I tend to attract younger men too - but I guess thats partially because I dont look my age.
But like you said, when you do find that one - I am not here for just flings and one night stands...
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I am playing for keeps and in this for the long haul
Nice one
Exactly
Interesting mytake, well written
"this is my body, my life, my choices. So fuck off."
agree all the way! i seriously don't understand why people have such moronic mentality nowadays. its like who the fuck says we all have to start a family by a certain time in life?
anyways this is a kick ass article sis. I sure wish more older women can pack your mentality because i myself have been attracted to older women since the first time I ever felt sexual attraction, which as far as i remember it had to be around the age of five.
kinda get a little aggravated whenever older women tell me that if they were the same age as me they would fuck me. i always feel like asking them why since age is nothing but a number and obviously I'm not underage.
i also never understood why so many men like younger women when till this day i don't even find women in their 20s attractive
Thanks bro :)
You are a good age, 30s is prime. Everyone has reasons for their status. Careers, they enjoy what they have currently, maybe some incompadible partners along the way. Absolutely I have no qualms about dating again at this age or even higher.
I got asked out by a 15 yo. I don't know what to tell him. Isn't that too young?
No. 15 & 17 not big of an age difference. Your relationship with him can workout.
High school ages - there's very little variation in life experiences between 2 year age gaps. Doesn't count.
" and knows how to get the girl! "
That's different with each girl.
Silly girl... guys will fuck you if you let them. Doesn't mean they want you for their mate. pfft.
And yes, the older you get the more difficult it will be to find a suitable LTR - a husband. But sounds like you don't want one anyway - everybody can fuck off.
And yes, you'll die old and alone with 40 cats and a vibrator. LOL
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Nice Take. 😊 Because of my height and my baby face, I feel like I will forever attract younger guys. 😂
but i would rather date who is older than me i had a boyfriend whom i met on oasis active app is he's 41 and im 26 we have 15 year age gap then we text everyday he's a nice guy he accepts me for who iam at all... age desnt matter at all :)
Little girls telling a feminist how old she is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uhcx3zAlFBE@Browneye57