Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Are you a big girl who demands "big" D?
imtheman0048 Xper 5
I got rejected over my size for the 3rd time this month. on a dating site Im on. i have a hidden pic they can request. I leave it up because I want to quickly weed out size queens. its obvious thats what it is so if you request it then see it and I get any vibe that you think 5.5 inches long and 5.25 inches around is too small I can block you. one thing I've noticed is almost all the girls that have rejected me over it were fat. now I live in TN so there are just a, lot of fat people here but this is disproportionate. my theory is that either fat girls really need more dick because in positions like doggystyle I have to go through 5 inches of fat to get inside you plus you most likely have fat around your pussy thus creating a further barrier. or maybe since they are not desired they attempt to turn it around and make it seem they are very picky about dick size. so its a defense mechanism. what are your thoughts. no manhating trolls need to comment and please not I am not hating on bigger women Its just a trend I've noticed.
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Also if I invited you to this question it does not mean I think you're a big girl. I literally invited all my friends to get some answers coming in. Or maybe you've talked to a bigger girl and they told you this.
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(34)As a former "fat" chick (for those curious dropped 87lbs and now society sees me as "hot") ny opinion is FUCK THE HATERS your dick size is fine
Good job on the weight I know that ain't easy. I really didn't post this to hate on fat chicks though.
I know dick size aside I think your confidence in the sheets should speak for itself
Im very confident aside from that. Which is why it pisses me off so much. I know its dumb but its just so hard to believe it doesn't matter. It seems like it most likely just matters more to some and less to others
Uhhh I have no freaking clue lol. I never worry about it. I would not break up with a guy over it but I do think lower 5 inches is certainly below average... So can't be so mad. I am pretty small but would still prefer it bigger I guess... But really it doesn't matter guys are just obsessed with it. Dick length really doesn't matter that much it's just a fun surprise.
if its a fun surprise then small is a disappointing surprise. and im not below average im 5.5 im right at the average.
I demand a big bowl of food and coffee? If that counts lol
damn you can't be sucking dick for food... lol its worth more than THAT
Who said anything about wanting dick? Lol
I briefly had a femboy who was about 5 inches and I personally like it, I'm a bit chubby but penis size wouldn't bother me at all.
What is a femboy.
A guy that is sometimes or mostly feminine, Likes to dress up as a girl at times
interesting
I'm not fat at all but I don't really care about D size. Sounds like the girls you meet have some growing up to do.
You don't prefer it even on a purely physical basis?
No. I've had a guy that was 4 inches long and didn't care. But I don't care much for sex in general.
oh. well yea some girls are just less sensitive in their vagina.
That's not me at all lol
then why not care for sex?
It's mentally unsatisfying plus I've never had an orgasm before
even oral?
I've only gotten oral a few times and it was good but that was about it. I got bored after 2 minutes and felt like I had to fake it the rest of the way
well how skilled we are varies a ton
Maybe skill but I think it's more so men tend to be self centered and don't really pay attention to if I felt good because if they did they would be able tell I'm faking it lol
yea they do. thats just a stereotype and women are just difficult to please in every aspect that include sex. they overcomplicate it and often aren't as sensitive
That's a stereotype lol
dick size doesn't matter if you know how to use it I don't care how big or small it is
Not a big girl. Don't demand any kind of D. I only demand that the guy is not a D.
I never demand it but I'm just lucky that my boyfriend is big 😂
thats close enough. id prefer to hopefully find someone that doesn't even prefer it.
I couldn't care less about D size.. and i genuinely mean that.
Yea but you probably also don't get involved in casual dating.
Correct lol
And thats why... because you only have sex when you form a bond. Most if those girls are probably looking or something casual. When they say it doesn't matter thats what they mean. They mean they can still gey off if they are into their guy emotionally etc... it heightens sensitivity
Yeah i mean i'm probably a bad example because i'm someone who doesn't have casual sex.. only sleep with people i'm romantically involved with.. but i think getting put of.. of a guy just because his dick is to small is pretty shallow.
It is and im about to close the idea of ever being with someone in a serious manner and just stick to hookups etc...
Why?
because most women like bigger but have your attitide the result? they won't let it deter them and you get stuck in a relationship with a girl who wishes you were bigger. this bitch did me a favor.
All the girls you meet care that much about dick size? seriously?
I'm not a large girl, but size doesn't matter like all good things it's how you use it
it shouldn't but it does. mostly because of psychology.
i mean shouldn't within reason