**TMI** It's been about a year now... I have noticed how my husband doesn't get on top anymore. He goes down on me and then I on him. But then he moves me into riding him and he doesn't return the favor. I finish the job. Don't get me wrong I love riding. However, it hasn't gone unnoticed.
I have asked him months later why he doesn't go on top and he says it's because he gets out of breath and tired. Then "it" goes limp. I have also noticed that when I ride for a while "it" goes limp too and HE is out of breath. And I was wondering if that happens to other guys too? When he used to be on top I wouldn't get as "tired" as he does. We used to take turns. Now he gets tired when I'm on top too. We literally have to take breaks while doing it. It has gotten to me a couple of times and I have cried thinking "it" goes limp because he isn't attracted to me anymore. He gets mad when I cry because of it, but it kinda hurts my feelings, ya kw? Thinking it's my fault. I don't have a problem getting wet naturally so it's not a lube issue.
Anyways he has gone to the doctor and everything seems to be working "fine". Same with me, doctor says I am "tight" down there. I think it might be his stamina, he used to work out and now doesn't anymore. I guess the only work out he would get most recently is going on top and now he doesn't even do that. He is only 30yrs old. Will this get worse over time?
Have you guys experienced this as well?
Sooo embarrassing to ask!! Sorry for the TMI subject.
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