I caught my girlfriend reading erotica on her ipad -- should I be concerned?

When she left the bedroom I glanced at her ipad and noticed the text was erotica.
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  • Honey, trust me, if she's reading erotica, it's a GOOD thing. Use it to your advantage. Talk to her about it, what she likes about it, what she thinks about it. I read erotica from tome to time and I constantly imagine my bg in those scenarios and it makes me want to try things. We talk about it and he takes an interest in how I feel about what I read. It's a huge turn on for me

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  • Absolutely. Most erotica is so taboo it can't be made in to a video.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Concerned? No of course not. In fact, you worded that question wrongly. You never caught her reading erotica, because I doubt she was even hiding it. My guess is she wanted you to find it so you could learn more of her likes in bed!

  • She read anything she'd like to try?
    Or vicariously voyeuristic-ally fantasizing? Call: "Dibs"
    Its just MENTAL fantasy fuel / cerebral 'porn'.
    Paul Simon's ballad: "Kodachrome'

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  • What would be concerning about it? She’s reading a book.

  • No. I used to read stuff like that too on one of my pads. It's completely harmless and fine.

  • No, it's only a book. Think of it as a romance thriller novel kicked up a notch. I have heard books like that exist and it's just something for us to read and get turned on by.

  • Why be concerned. Perfectly normal when reading for pleasure.

  • No! I can assure you that she is just bored and reading could be part of her hobby. Erotica is just as other reading materials.

  • I guess it’s a new thing dating a girl that can read.

  • That's actually good. Erotica can give her an idea what to do with you irl. Plus, Eroticas are not as bad as porn. They are usually romance, with a little bit of spice.

  • How is that concerning?

  • It’s only a book it’s not as if it was porn

  • No, guys look at porn all the time. Women are not a visually oriented as guys are.

  • its only a book but discuss it with her if u aren't comfy

  • Lots of women like to read it, it's actually pretty common so no I wouldn't worry about it.

  • Nope. Let her enjoy the text porn. With any luck she'll discharge at you with it.

  • Why? It's an enjoyable genre for lots of people!

  • Not at all. Maybe it improves her sex life with u! Offer to read some with her and follow uo with some great sex

  • No unless it’s erotica about guys with bigger dicks than yours…

  • All girls read that stuff.

  • I don't see erotica as a problem.

  • Concerned about what?

  • Do you watch porn sometimes?

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