At what age do you think losing the v is okay?

I’m 16 and I’m very mature for my age, so why is my mom still telling me that I’m not old enough. Me and my boyfriend have been fooling around a lot and we thought about doing it multiple times. I should be allowed to do it, I may be 16 but I’m mature enough. I even look mature enough, considering people tell me all the time that I look older than my age.
At what age do you think losing the v is okay?
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  • Just be safe not to get knocked up you may be mature for your age but you definitely don't wanna be 16 and prego

  • When your ready jus be informed knowledgeable and use protection

  • 35...

    • that's autistic

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  • Friendship. Marriage. Sex. Kids. I'm funny that way.

  • Yeah, mine was around the same. 16
    When I was a kid, I was certain I would be married by 16. Lol

    If you feel ready, just do it. You don't need your mom's approval, and she doesn't need to know.

  • at whatever age you can responsibly prevent pregnancy or can deal with the consequences of pregnancy.

  • I’m not losing my virginity until the wedding night.

  • Until you've done some adulting and love the person you're with then I'd say go ahead.

    I think at a younger age people confuse lust for love. So probably wait until you've loved them for a year at least. If you have a job and pay some bills then I'd agree you're mature enough as well. If you don't then why would anyone think they're responsible enough to have sex.

  • You are not ready.

  • If u feel that u are ready, then give it a shot. I lost mine at your age so message me if u want and I can help

  • I think that if you feel comfortable with him then there isn’t a real reason not to. all that matters is how you feel about him and how he feels about you

  • I think it's perfectly fine at our age, as long as you're ready to do it, and both of you are willing to be responsible for any outcomes. I would be perfectly fine if I lost my virginity right now

  • What is the V? The vegetables? You always need those.

  • I think you should have sex when you feel both physically and emotionally ready to.

    Just be smart about it, don't go getting your ass knocked up.

  • Your mom will always tell you that you aren't old enough. That's what moms do. These things aren't usually planned. It happens when it happens.

  • The age you marry.

  • You don't look mature. You look like a hooker. Your mother is right.

    • some hookers are 38 so why are u linking hookers to immaturity?

  • It's ideal to lose it in your mid-twenties because you have your head in straight and you know what you want in life. But 16 is good age, too. You're a little young but you're approaching adulthood, so I don't see a problem with it at all.

  • When you feel ready

  • In the USA almost half of the girls have had sexual intercourse. However, being a virgin makes a girl valued more for marriage and, almost certainly, you are not going to marry your current boyfriend.

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