At what age do you think losing the v is okay?

I’m 16 and I’m very mature for my age, so why is my mom still telling me that I’m not old enough. Me and my boyfriend have been fooling around a lot and we thought about doing it multiple times. I should be allowed to do it, I may be 16 but I’m mature enough. I even look mature enough, considering people tell me all the time that I look older than my age.
At what age do you think losing the v is okay?
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  • you should not even be having a boyfriend at 16, let alone having sex

  • We all knows how mum's act sometimes, trying to be protective but actually she wants the best for her daughter. If you're still a V, then I'm not only impressed but surprised to find a 16 years girl still intact. The best time to loose your V is when you matured enough upstairs to understand the difference between keeping it and loosing it, what you stand to gain or loose. If you're able to get it together then it's a go.. I mean it's your private life, you can also decide to loose it right now or keep it forever..

  • never before marriage...

  • I would never want my daughter to sleep with anyone ever 😂😂😂 but if she didn't tell me about it Age 16 is the minimum but she better not get pregnant

  • 16 is an ok age no rush though whenever you feel ready go for it be safe about it and have fun only you know the answer to this

  • I would advice you to sexually give your body to your husband. Your boyfriend isn't going to be your man for the rest of your life especially at your age.

  • That's up to the person but it should be when you can except the chance of pregnancy an be prepared if it happens

  • It seems like the average age for a female to loose their v card is 15

  • I would say as long as both parties are consenting and willing to deal with the possible ramifications of having sex, ie. pregnancy and or sti, then at least 16 . That being said ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!

  • Being mature for your age doesn't matter. I recommend you be at least 18 before sex.

  • Whenever you're ready. Granted I waited until I was 19 and got scabies. You may get fucked wither way.

  • After 18

  • It's ok when you're ready.

  • Do you know how to have safe sex?

    • Of course

    • Maybe your mom is just trying to make sure you're being safe. Have you tried talking to her about it?

    • Or do you think you should just do it?

  • Girl 16! You’re not ready I will say not even at 20

  • That is entirely up to you it’s your sexual self

  • In france the legal age of consent is 15, in Germany it's 14, in Japan it's 13... In my personal opinion 16 is the right age but according to the law of your country it might not be right for you.
    Do it or don't, just stay safe kiddo

  • I wouldn't say it's about age, but with finding the right one.

  • You should wait ,

  • I'm still a virgin sadly. 😭

    • autism?

    • @NatalieKeller95 I'm not autistic. I've got low confidence. But I have a semi muscular body.

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