So I'm in a 2,5 year relationship right now and the sex has, overall, been good. In the beginning of our relationship he would last for hours, which was actually a bit too much for me but okay... The last couple of weeks I started noticing my boyfriend getting more selfish in bed. First time it happened he lasted for like 3 minutes and after that he was "done". I told him that I wasn't done and that the sex didn't had to end yet.. like he can still use his hands to pleasure me as well. He did, but it felt forced and awkward so since then I didn't ask it again.
Next time it happened we were in the bathroom and he lasted again like 3 minutes. I looked at him and he was like "you know it's because we haven't done it in the shower for a long time so that's why I finished early". And I was like "yeah... okay", feeling a bit disappointed. He didn't attempt to do anything for me after that.
Yesterday after having sex for 10-15 minutes, I was on the edge of an orgasm and told him but then he finished and I told him I was almost there, still he didn't even seem to think of pleasuring me anymore. If I would left him hanging he would probably be angry.
These are some examples, there are like two more times this happened in the last couple of weeks.
There are still (quite enough) times that he really does take his time and tries to pleasure me, even goes down on me, but when he doesn't as described in the examples above, I kinda feel used. It actually confuses me. He is a very sweet and loving boyfriend but he seems to get lazy. Also in other aspects, like he used to help around the house because I have long working days but now he only does it when I ask.
I actually don't know what to do right now... Is this normal or am I overreacting? Should I wait and see if it's just temporary, stays the same or even gets worse before I have a serious conversation about it?
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