Right after I had sex with my boyfriend, I always refuse to have sex with my husband to prevent any suspicion. I always say I am tire and not in the mood.
Probably that is the best way to avoid any conflict, with your husband, but I would think that would make him suspicious, by saying you are tired. I would think that sound like "I've got a headache". I always wondered the same thing when I was having sex with married women, or single 'attached" girls, if their husband or SO would not be suspicious, It doesn't sound like you are in an "open" marriage, so that makes it more difficult. For me personally I had a girlfriend that I went down on- on Sunday evening, and she said she had sex with a guy at work the prior Friday. That did not bother me and probably would not have bothered me if it had been a closer day. You could say you have a 'bladder infection"
Well the fact that you are cheating on your husband in the first place , should be your answer to end it with your husband and let him go find a girl that wouldn’t cheat on him. You are sadly a selfish person that only really cares about yourself.
He's probably already finding it weird and suspicious anyway
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Questions like this just make me lose hope of ever finding a faithful partner. Why don't you break up with your husband instead of betraying him like that? I don't understand how people can do that to people they claim to love.
She still likes his provisioning. Alpha fucks, beta bucks.
stop excuses just break up.
Does that excuse always work? Why not let hubby have sloppy seconds?
That's fine, but be honest about it..
I wouldn’t make any excuses. I’m always available for girlfriend and the wife. If they want it they have to get my dick up though
You should tell your hubby that if he wants sex, he’ll need to properly eat you first… win/win!
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Aunt Flo is in town and I'm tired and he's SO MUCH better than you I'm lucky I can walk still. Ok, maybe not the last part...
There’s no excuse…
I’m not married
And when you are you’ll have the permission and blessing of your beloved husband to make love with any boyfriend and girlfriend you like any time you want.
why not invite them both at the same time?
Well I never and will never cheat on a partner but if I did I probably just say I am to tired or I am too busy can we have sex later.
Why? Please, just why? C'mon why can't women just be honest and faithful?
Many of us still are
@avery58 I'd hope so but it's not what I have observed thus far.
Unlike you I don't cheat on my SO. If I had sex with someone else, she'd be aware and probably part of it.
Im feeling drained, baby maybe tomorrow.
Never been in this situation.
Why not just have sex with your husband? How will he know?
I love sloppy seconds
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