Calling your girlfriend a bitch.

so. first things first. I just know I'm stubborn and can overreact. but I believe in this case I didn't overreact. I did what was needed to be done. so my boyfriend at the time is an amazing person. super sweet. but didn't fit my lifestyle. ( families were grown up differently etc.) well he's nice to me 98% of the time. but he has a terrible temper. which I understand he's a guy. but recently he's been telling me I'm stupid an idiot and once he told me to shut the f*** up in public. when he said that I told him if he ever talked to me like that again I would leave him and I'm not a random girl he can talk to like that. so he apologized a thousand times. and all this stuff. then one night I told him I would come over later that night. I ended up falling asleep. (super busy with work and family) and I woke up at 10 and texted him sorry baby. I fell asleep. and he wrote back to me. "OK bitch your a liar etc" as soon as I read those words I was done trying in our relationship. did I overreact? I am not taking him back at all I've given him so many chances. these weren't the only times he was emotionally abusive to me either. but I just want to know how many girls out there have been treated this way and how many guys have done that and why did you do it?
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  • Here we go with another my Boyfriend called me a bad name, I'm not taking him back. LOL you'll take him back sooner or later. You just like all the others.

  • Most likely you did the right thing. Unless you showed him reason before that you should not be trusted then he should not of called you a bitch and a liar. Even is you showed him you were not to be trusted then it is still inappropriate unless you treated him very badly and only you know if you did. I suspect that you treated him somewhat decent and did not lie to him often or at all.

  • That's how immature guys react. OK or not is up to u. Not a huge deal if you don't make it a huge deal. But also don't take that kind of disrespect. He was obviously waiting for you the entire time and as soon as you texted him, that was his reaction without thinking. He really believed that you were doing something else and forgot about him and made up an excuse saying you fell asleep. Clearly you 2 are young and hot and dumb and I'm jealous.

  • Been there done that with a guy. He was verbally and emotionally abusive. Turned into physical abuse.

    Wasted time with him. Promised marriage etc.

    So THANKFUL that I've finally learned my lesson.

    Be careful with him. You're a beautiful girl you can find lots of guys that won't talk to you like that and treat you right!

    • thanks girl. that was my number one fear and my friends that he was going to get physical with me. I had to leave. I couldn't handle the emotional abuse. good that you left. I always thought it was so easy to say leave him until I was stuck in such a position. I don't ever want to be treated like that again.

  • You deserve so much more than that. From your pic, it's obvious that you're super cute so you'll have no problem finding another guy :) Just don't pick a d-bag this time. I bet your guy is hot, but look for more than just that next time! I'm a guy but I would never call my girl a bitch, so don't give excuses for his temper... if you move to MN I'll show ya what a real guy is :P

    • omg I just puked reading this desperate ass kissing... disgusting!

    • I was just joking haha!

  • No I don't think you over reacted, he know that you like to be respected and he should learned from the previous experience that those type of words don't go with you, so if he continued he deserves the break up

    • thank you <3

  • he is an insecure wimp who feels the need to put a woman down in order to feel manlier. I pity him.

    • pity yourself dude.. you anonymously suck up to women to try to get on their good side!

    • LOL what a joke you are. why would I need to suck up to internet girls? doesn't make any sense :D I pity her ex boyfriend because he's a insecure p**** coward. he is unable to compete with guys/is inferior to guys and that's why he feels the need to pick on a girl. that's very pathetic.