Can a man cherish your body in bed but not love you?

Can he make your body feel loved and cherished, go the extra mile to make you feel good and not love you? Of course he wouldn't be in a committed relationship with that person but not sleeping with others. Conversation i had earlier.
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  • This is how most women categorize the men that they meet:

    Can a man cherish your body in bed but not love you?

    3-5% are men they would consider for a relationship. 45% or so are men they would like to have as "just friends." 50% or so are men they have no interest in at all.

    This is how it works for men:

    Can a man cherish your body in bed but not love you?

    3-5% are women he'd consider for a relationship, IF he's interested in a relationship at all (many men are not, sometimes only for a temporary period, and sometimes across the board). 45% or so are women he isn't interested in having a relationship with, but would still very much want to have casual sex with (with no strings attached). About 50% are women he has no interest in at all.

    Where is the category of women that men want to be "just friends" with? IT DOES NOT EXIST. Men don't have that category. But here's what's more relevant to your question: looking at the man's graph, if you see green, of either shade, those are women he wants to have sex with. Notice that the dark green area is roughly 20 times the size of the light green area. Let that sink in: for every 20 women a guy sees who he wants to bang, only one of them is likely to be a woman he'd be interested in having a relationship with - the other 19 might get attention, or even dates and dinners from him, but his ONLY interest in her is sex. No matter what she does, and *no matter what he does in bed with her*, she has ZERO chance of getting a relationship from him. If she doesn't start off in the light green category, it's nearly impossible for her to end up there. Again, let that sink in.

    Many men enjoy passionate sex, even when they are only looking for, or having, casual sex. The fact that the sex is passionate DOES NOT MEAN he wants a relationship - that's just how he enjoys having sex.

    The ONLY place to look where you can see if a man's behavior tells you he wants a relationship with you or not is OUTSIDE the bedroom. If a man is happy to spend time with you, even when he knows that he's not likely to get sex, and he clearly still enjoys that time, and treats you well, THAT is the indicator you are looking for. Trying to find those answers IN the bedroom will get you nowhere.

    A woman should never, EVER try to equate sexual interest with relationship interest, or assume that sexual interest is a representation of relationship value. It is not - those are two completely separate, independent things in the minds and behaviors of men.

    • Wow thank you lol

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  • I guess so, if he thought he was trying out for a porn movie or something.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Of course. You can have a strong sexual connection with someone without romantic and loving feelings.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • yep i enjoy making women cum more than my own orgasm lol and i’m sure it’s more men like me out there

  • I don’t think so I think he just wants the pleasure of getting pussy and getting off

    • So you believe he has to have feelings or love the girl if he cherishes her in bed. Im on the fence lol. I know a lot of guys who do not care just want to bang not spend an hour on foreplay lol

    • Isn’t foreplay enjoyable

  • Yes, it’s completely possible, why?

  • Just like with some women, anything is possible and things aren't always as they seem.

  • Not love you? He doesn't even have to like you...

  • Yeah, that sounds pretty far fetched.