Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Normally women who are smaller and physically weaker are not expected to be sexually dominant in bed, especially if it adds up with a shy kinda personality.
But can a woman who is really short, and shy in personality be dominant in bed? Have you ever experienced anything like that?
Can a petite, fragile-looking woman be dominant in bed?
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Hypothetically speaking, yes it is definitely possible, why not. But I'm speaking of it being possible or likely in the real world, practically.
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15 74I am sure that she can
I know two professional or semi-professional Domme's that meet that description. Yes it's about control and there are lots of ways for people to control others.
I've heard that a lot of people who are shy and more submissive in general are usually dominant in bed though I don't know weather there is any truth to that statement.
I generally find the motion of a woman being dominant to a man ridiculous considering that the average man is physically stronger than almost every woman. So in order for a woman to be "dominant", the man needs to let her be - thus effectively turning this entire situation ad absurdum.
Is physical strength everything when it comes to domination?
Why else would you let someone dictate you - in life or just sexually - if they weren't "better" than you in a way that makes you feel comfortable and secure (under the circumstance that you trust that person). There is zero point otherwise. And leaning back while letting your partner take care of things at times isn't the same as suddenly being submissive. Fine line there.
You could be physically strong and still a coward. It's all about mental strength and courage for a man, in my opinion.
So as that coward you allow others to dominate yourself not out of a physical foundation, but out of mental weakness. That's not called submissive, but being a wimp. And I think you would agree that those two aren't synonymous
Yeah definitely they aren't
What about surprising him and putting restraints on him, he might be stronger then me but not the restraints
@19magic Then yes - in a sense the man in this hypothetical scenario is unable to just "give in" to the woman, but rather has no choice. Considering this isn't something that both haven't agreed beforehand. But then we get into the realm of tricky consent.
Well you do have take these f-ing things off right now vs silently watching, but generally I talk about things before doing something, even if it's not before that specific moment
@19magic Taking charge here and there =/= dominating someone. Semantics, I know. But it's a bit of a difference. Plus even a dominant person can give up charge temporarily. Let's say a dominant guy leans back and let's himself get blown. In that moment he gave up being in charge temporarily - but the thing is that it was his choice to do so which doesn't make it a submissive act.
yes!!!
It is very possible.
The thing some people forget is that Dominant is one side and the other side has to want it. So yes a tiny woman can dominate, if she finds a submissive.
Heck yeah. You ever heard that term lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. It definitely applies. The shyest ones are some of the freakiest.
Yes, I've experienced that before and it was a fun surprise.
Yes. Why not?
Yes, they can and yes, I have.
Damn
I didn't know you were so kinky
When did I talk about myself
Even the athletic taller women are still usually much weaker than the man she is with even if he sits around most of the time.
And yes, a short, petite, very wimpy girl can totally be dominant in bed. I'd like it very much to have a tiny wimpy girl be more dominant as often as she wants. I think it makes it better.
Yes of course
I don't know but that sounds a lot hotter than a thick girl being dominant
I think women are less likely to be dominant in bed anyways. And even more unlikely with a short shy girl. On the other hand, being dominant could be her way of gaining some control, so maybe it's more likely because of that
Yeah why not? If her partner is submissive why can't she?
It's a matter of personality, not of size. If the guy likes it he will go along with it.
Yes without question or doubts. Definitely not a bad thing either.
Of course. Good sex is not a wrestling match.
When I feel she wants to steer the action a certain way, I allow and even assist that 'course correction'.
If not to please her as much as I can (which in turn greatly improves my experience), then at least to explore what it would do for me.
Only when I feel it's time for me to climax do I really take the lead.
So this whole dominance thing is just BS in my opinion.