Can I Talk about sexual stuff without getting turned on, Yes. Easily.
I can even do stuff. I once showed a female friend how to make herself squirt and didn’t get aroused. It was just a mechanical instruction.
This is amazing. It it a mental thing to not get turned on?
Like anything, it depends on the mind set. If you go into something looking to be aroused, you will get aroused. When I was helping my friend, she genuinely wanted help. She didn’t want some creep trying to fuck her. If I got horny, I wouldn’t have been able to actually help her because I would have had my own agenda. I went into it like I would an acting role or a training gig. I showed her the methods, asked her questions, had her ask me questions and I answered. I got enjoyment out of helping her learn something she had been trying to accomplish for a while. It was a pride thing. I knew something most guys didn’t.
Wow. Lucky gal to have an amazing friend such as yourself. Thank you for giving my cold heart a little hope
yes... I'm a grown up
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No, it doesn’t always turn me on. Sometimes when I reflect on fantasies or I’m reminded of certain acts, yes. Or when I’m attracted to the person I’m talking to and she is open about her sexuality. But a lot of times it’s just about sharing knowledge or talking about experiences.
Like the saying " a picture makes more than a thousand words", so if not pictures are involved, i'm Good in talking about sex/sexuality, but if a picture is involved, and some spicy/naughty/kinki/filthy talk, then... i cannot guarantee that i won't get aroused... Even though i can drop a cup of Ice in my pants, then that would work like a "reset" button...🤣🤣
I'd probably have to say no. But there are different levels of turn on.
I really enjoy conversations with women about sex and I even ask sex questions on GAG because I am genuinely interested in the female sexual experience. It fascinates me because, as a guy, I have no idea what women experience unless they tell me.
How turned I get would depend on the circumstances.
If I was conversing on-line, I'd find it erotic in a detached kind of way, like an adult conversation.
If a woman was being really frank in person, I'd find it fascinating and possibly arousing. But if she was fuckable, I'd be wondering what she'd look like naked and how fun it would be to fuck her. I'd be doing that secretly, though, while still listening with rapt attention.
If I was talking to a sexual partner, I'd probably have a boner.
It's the funnest topic. It's interesting but also salacious because it's about such a taboo subject.
I can even with someone of the opposite sex lol
Sometimes I can and sometimes I can't. Depends on what he/she looks like.
Sometimes, Get really depends on how detailed the conversation gets
Yes I can have a convo about sex without getting turned on
giving advice doesn't turn me on but thinking about it or putting myself in the place of whom im doling out the advice to does (of course the players change to people I know
Yea I could
Absolutely.
Yes I can because I took the time to understand myself and Sexual Temptations.
Sure... it's not like sex is some special, taboo thing.
I can start one but usually get too turned on while replying. Ask me a question and I'll tell you.
Yes you can, do it all the time.
I can and have had many conversations that are very sexual without any sexual tension or being turned on
Not necessarily.
Yes I can
Not with a girl I am atracted to.
Yeah, talking doesn't really turn me on
It’s hard but yes I have them quite often.
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