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Confessions of a Prostitute

Confessions of a Prostitute

In the beginning...

From a young age I was always quite sexual, I remember masturbaring as young as 5 or 6 years of age, I didn't quite know what I was doing but I knew that rubbing down there felt good so I did it.

I lost my virginity at 17; I was pretty good for a few years and only slept with guys while in a relationship. I jumped from relationship to relationship but a few years ago after a relationship breakdown everything changed.

I started to post on Craigslist for random hook ups; I would sleep with a new guy almost weekly, sometimes I'd meet someone I really clicked with and we'd become friends with benefits. I couldn't tell you what lead me to Craigslist, I don't remember how that part happened.

Although I was sleeping around I was quite picky with who I saw, there was one guy who kept contacting me who I kept rejecting, he eventually offered me $250 for an hour of my time, he lasted 20 minutes but I still got my money and that's how it all started.

The rules...

1. I will not meet married or attatched guys, even though I see this as a job I won't touch another woman's man.

2. I always use condoms plus I am on birth control, I also get tested regularly.

3. I don't see anyone under the age of 20, even though 16 is the legal age of consent where I am from I feel like under 20 is too young.

4. I will not take a guys virginity.

Whoring Around Town...

At the time I was struggling financially, I was behind is so many bills to the point where I was being sent to court if I didn't pay up, to me this was easy money to get out of a bad situation but now it's just something I do for fun.

It was easy to make the transition from casual sex with randoms to getting paid for my time, I do enjoy sex and I needed the money so it was a win/win situation! I work for myself so I don't have to pay someone else to get me clients, I have various ads on different local classifieds pages so I pocket all the cash myself.

by the way it's really difficult to keep explaining to friends why I always have a lot of cash on me, I'm running out of excuses lol

I would say I am still quite picky with who I choose to sleep with but not as picky as I was before. A lot of the time I get a bad vibe from certain men so I do not meet them. My instinct hasn't steered me wrong yet but I will not become complacent, I am always careful.

I see about 4-5 men a week, I have regular clients I see fortnightly and others I see a bit more sporadically but it's a consistent flow whether it's regular clients or newbies.

My sex life is never something I have been ashamed of but it's also not something I share with anyone because people can be quite judgmental and I don't care to deal with it.

I have been doing this for about 3 years now but I'm starting to think I need to end thhis life, find a good guy and settle down. I am not taking on new clients anymore, I am seeing my regaulars but have warned them that I won't be in this much longer.

Choosing this life was easy but stopping it proving to be difficult, I'm getting sick of leading a double life and I hate lying to everybody I care about. I'm slowly taking the steps to get out of the life and I know I'll get there eventually.

Thanks for reading, feel free to ask what ever you want, I am an open book.

Side note: I have been single most of the time I have been doing this and when I was dating someone I stopped, I have never been unfaithful.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • worked in that business for a couple of years myself just to have some extra cash. I don't regret it but I was in a similar situation than you. Other who are forced into it are in a completely different situation

    • Really?

    • @Carryfrei yes?

    • You reach me you need to talk to you

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Good Take. I always love to hear stories from women who've slept with a lot of men. If you don't mind, can I ask you what race you are?

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  • You know, this sounds completely made up. I've known prostitutes, including a good friend of mine who was abducted and human trafficked as a teen who then willingly became an escort after she escaped. None of the ones I've known care if the guy is married or attached and certainly none of them look at sex as something so special where they want a virgin to have some unique, cherished experience. On top of that, all of the ones I've known date and have relationships in their "real" life. Granted, everyone is different but your myTake is not unique in that prostitutes have spoken many, many times before and very little of what you say here fits the way prostitutes claim to feel about things.

    • With all those rules, I wouldn't be surprised if she had them fill out an application form! Lol 😂 Seriously though, if a man was going to put this much effect into having sex with someone, he would just go home to his wife! Lol 😂

    • Just because I am a prostitute that doesn't mean I don't still have morals, I do this because I enjoy it and I don't want to hurt anybody so that's where my rules come in. If I sleep with a married man I would feel so guilty, I would feel as though I am hurting his wife and their marriage. That not something I wish to do. The virgin things is along the same lines, I don't want to hurt anybody or take advantage of anybody. I most certainly believe that a first time should be something that you won't regret later so I don't want to do that. The reason I don't date that much in my real life is because when I'm with someone I am not going to sleep with other men, this goes back to me not wanting to hurt anybody and respecting what a relationship stands for. You can choose not to belive me, that's ok but don't be under the impression that I must have no morals just because I'm a prostitute.

    • @Poppykate That's exactly what I tell married men, I tell them to go how and fuck their wives.

  • How do you know if the guy is actually not-attached? Isn't that something he can conveniently leave out of his information when contacting you, or just lie about if you ask him?

    • I always ask but make it seem casual as if I don't mind or sometimes they mention it first, I can also tell because most attached guys have very limited availability and mostly want to meet just before or after work. I'm sure I have probably slept with a married guy at some point but I taken precautions not to do that but if I don't know then there isn't much I can do.

  • so whats the kinkiest thing that anyone ever asked you to do?

  • It is your choice. I won't bash you for having quite the sex life, but with your sex drive, you may not be able to stick with just one man. I am getting a bad feeling when thinking about it after reading this. The man you decide to stick with may have to be one open to open relationships.

    I have faith you will make the right decision for what is the best fit for you and your needs.

    • Where did I say that I have an insanely high sex drive?

    • Damn and I was getting interested

    • I love sex, if I could have sex every single day for the rest of my life that would be amazing! BUT that does not mean I can not control myself, I don't have an insatiable need for it. I was in a long term relationship where my partner couldn't have sex for the last two years of that relationship and I didn't stray, I didn't even consider it. Don't make assumptions about people.

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  • Wow honor in a prostitute. I respect that. I respect your rules dude, your pickiness and careful approach. And I am telling you this as your total opposite, a marriage waiting, religious virgin. But no judgement on my part, I don't believe anyone has a right to do that. People who would use God as a way to spit on someone and look down on them are the highest form of sinner to me. Nothing you do can match the disdain and arrogance of the quasi-spiritual.

    And even if I believe what you are doing isn't good for you, or ultimately a force for good, I don't claim for a second to understand what it is like, where it will lead and what it really means, nor do I claim to be able to asses you as a person based on this. Nothing in your intention is malicious and that's what matters.

    I wish you all the luck in getting out and I hope you use the money you have to start a wonderful, happy, easy, honest and fulfilled life.

    Confessions of a Prostitute

  • I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself. Ignore societies rules
    just be yourself and do what you need/want to.

    • It's not society rules. It's against the law. 🤔

    • @Vflores1994 just because it's against the law where you're from that doesn't mean it's against the law where I am from...

    • I'm not against what you're doing. As long as you're not hurting anyone, or yourself. Then do as you may. But it's illegal where I live, and the sentences are Crazy for people who get caught. That's all I was saying.

  • Very interesting take. Too bad you can't do what you enjoy because of the stigma on it. I read some other interviews from prostitutes and they had somewhat the same story. They love their job, but hate the stigma.
    So how do you advertise and pick out the rotten apples? Do you meet them in person before the date?
    I've also heard that talking and making the client feel comfortable is a big part of the job. Do you experience that as well?
    What was your most fulfilling experience in the job?

    • I just gonna my gut instinct, sometimes I just get a creepy vibe from certain guys so I don't meet them. A lot of first time clients can be quite nervous, it's kinda cute lol I just chat to them about their job, life and other things so they get more comfortable. It is important for them to enjoy the experience and be completely relaxed.

    • I do meet them before the date, I meet them in public and chat to them first. If I get an uneasy feeling then I'll leave but it's never happen. I always know from the online conversation if a guy is genuine or not

    • The most fulfilling experience was a guy who was really messed up, he think that being horny is wrong, he thought that ejaculating was wrong. He would apologise to me about everything, when he got hard, when he came. It was really sad to see how he has been brainwashed into thinking anything sexual is bad. I have been working with him to help change his mindset and have a healthier outlook towards sex. He is slowly getting there, I actually don't even charge him much, I see him for $50 coz he insisted on paying for my time but for me it's not about the money. I just wanna see him not be so scared of sex. I

  • I don't judge you. A close friend of mine is a prostitute. Craigslist, too lol
    Her story is kind of sad, however. I'd known her since second grade. Her mother is a schizophrenic and her dad is neglectful. I remember her always getting bullied because her skirt was waaaaay too short and her hair was messy. Her dad didn't buy her a new school uniform for years and she grew out of it. My mother would give me extra money for her at the canteen and offered to hem her uniform for her.
    Anyway, I hadn't spoken I her since we started high school because she moved schools. When we met up again at like, 16 she was sleeping around with a lot of guys. She was sexual from a young age too. She told me about blowjobs and stuff and vaginas and we were so young we called them bajinas lol
    She got on crack. Met an older man on sugar daddies. com and he would give her the money for the stuff.
    Sad story. I used to have her over a lot. I remember once, she was on the train over to my house because she wanted to borrow tampons off me. She had no bloody money for tampons because she spent it all on stuff.
    I haven't spoken to her in a while. My husband doesn't want anything to do with her. I understand. But I often think about her.

  • Great post. Is there anything you won't do in sex if they request it?

  • You've never mentioned it to your SO when you were taking a break from it? It sounds like it's such a big part of your life rn and you enjoy it so much..

    • I do enjoy it but I don't enjoy lying to my friend all the time and having this secret so I want to stop for that reason, I didn't mention it to my SO. I will never tell anyone.

    • It sounds like it's a big part of who you are, though. In terms of what you've learned about yourself and your expectations from men. It sounds lonely to keep that a secret from someone you're so close to. Do you think you'll ever be comfortable enough to tell someone? In a few years maybe?

    • Sorry I missed that last part where you said "never"

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  • Just curious why do you not want to take a guy's virginity? Did you ever see female clients?
    A warning careful with your taxes that is how most of the time the government gets you. At least here.
    Thanks for sharing and I hope that you can continue to close that chapter of your life and move on good luck.

    • i'm guessing there's too much drama associated with taking a guy's virginity in exchange for payment. The ego/insecurity issues seem almost crippling.

    • K thanks for replying.

  • That was really interesting to read. Thanks for the insight!
    I don't normally approve of sex work, but before you have a go at me let me explain, I have quite an old fashioned opinion that women should be modest and save themselves for that special person, which is something I don't like to talk about as people think I'm being oppressive. Honestly I wouldn't force this life on anyone - everyone's free to do what they want and I respect that - but this is just the way of life I think is best and I'll stick to it myself. But I have to say I might change my mind if all prostitutes were like you!! I love how your rules incorporate standards and morals. They're really important to me and I'm glad you share that. You've really opened my mind with this post, and I thank you for that. Good luck transitioning to your new lifestyle :)

  • But... the guy could just lie to you and tell you he's not a virgin if you happen to ask...

    If I were you I wouldn't tell anyone either. Also I'd be careful of that one regular client not getting stalkerish on your ass...

    When you decide to end this kind of a lifestyle it would probably be wisest that you move somewhere far away so no one can recognize you.

    Also... when it comes to your future husband - I'd be honest with him... you don't want to keep something as huge as this a secret from him...

    • Well it's not like I post the rules online, I chat to people first and you can generally tell if a guy is a virgin. Most of the time they'll be upfront and say it because they worry they won't be good or last long so they like to warn me first. I do what I can to make sure clients aren't married or virgins but i could have gotten it wrong at some point but not that I'm aware of.

  • "3. I don't see anyone under the age of 20, even though 16 is the legal age of consent where I am from I feel like under 20 is too young."
    -But you lost it at 17?

    "4. I will not take a guys virginity."
    -Why though?

    "I have been doing this for about 3 years now but I'm starting to think I need to end thhis life... I won't be in this much longer."
    -Because you believe it's a wrong way to live a life?

    Thanks for sharing :)

    • No, because I'm sick of lying to my loved ones about what I get up to.

  • I don't see anything wrong with this since you're a consenting adult and know what you're doing. I've met two women who were ex-prostitutes (they were not romantic interests of mine) and if their daughters hadn't told me that they were, no one would ever have known.

  • Don't settle down. First and foremost most men will not want to be with a prostitute former or otherwise. The other issue is that the more partners you have the more likely you are to cheat/divorce/be unhappy in a long term relationship, be unhappy with sex and that will lead to marital break down and if kids are involved the destruction of their family which itself leads to increased rates of depression, substance abuse, increased drop out rates for school, promiscuity (thus perpetatuating the problem) etc. If your not open and honest about your past as well, that's going to ruin any long term relationship as well because your already lying to him and its only going to get worse. You have acclimated to a style of living where you get easy money and easy sex with no strings attached. You have not lived a life with limited sex and limited partners, your brain is now wired for that not for monogamy. You have essentially trained yourself to be promiscuis and this will inevitably ruin any relationship your in or result in you cheating or eventually returning to that life. If however you are serious about settling down then I would say take a few years of no prostitution, no sex and see how long you can last in order to retrain yourself to be less dependent on that life style, before you consider a long term relationship. Also be honest, yes it will mean fewer men will be interested in you for long term relationships but it also means that a guy who is interested in you isn't going to end up finding out the hard way that the person he is with isn't "real" that is he is with some one who has lied about a big and influential part of her life. It will also mean that the man has made an informed decision and is going to be more comfortable with your past then one who you have to lie to to get him to stay with you.

    • I am always faithful when in a relationship, I don't have eyes for anyone else when I'm taken. My ex boyfriend wanted to see me with other men and I refused to do it because I just don't want another man if I'm in love. I'm only ever promiscuous when I am single.

    • Oh wow so much is wrong with what you're saying lol I am been in long term relationships and I have been single and promiscuous, my brain is not wired to one or the other. It is however wired to be loyal if I am in a committed relationship, I have the upmost respect for relationships and marriage so much so that I won't even sleep with married men because I feel it's disrespectful to the wife and to the sanctity of marriage. Please don't tell me how my brain is wired, you know only one part of my life.

    • I'm writing this in sections as I'm reading your post. I was in a 3 year relationship ship where 6 months in my partner got out on medication that Made him impotent and I still stayed with him for another 2.5 years with no sex. I just got myself a vibrator because I didn't want to get him to pleasure me when he couldn't get anything out of it. So I have been without sex, even in a relationship. So again, do not tel me what kind of person I am when you only know a snippet of my life.

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  • Would you have any tips for someone who has been struggling with a pornography addiction and is trying to kick the habit? :/ And what has the biggest struggle been thus far in trying to leave that kind of life? Don't answer if it's too personal, I'd prefer to respect your privacy if there's anything you'd rather avoid saying.

    • The struggle is that I enjoy what I do but I don't like being dishonest so it's a difficult way to live. I'm not sure what advice I could give you for a porn addiction, maybe slowly try to wean yourself off? If you do it multiple times a day cut it in half and then in a couple weeks do less and less.. that's all I can think of.

    • Mkay, I appreciate it. Sorry I know it's an odd question.

    • It's cool, I don't mind. I wish I had better advice but the fact that you acknowledge it's a problem is the first step so that's good. I just googled, maybe give this a read.

      www.covenanteyes.com/.../

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  • cool post. great seeing the thoughts of someone in the life... hope you don't mind a few questions

    if you quit and start trying to find romantic relationships do you think you will be comfortable and honest about your past? like would you omit aspects?

    do you interact with other women who do the same at all?

    I had a friend in college who started prostituting. first she started stripping and it let to prostitution. she said a similar thing to you that it was relatively easy to get into it but really hard to get out of it.

    • Even before doing this I have never shared my sexual history with a partner, I don't understand why people do this. It's never been something I've done and that's not going to change now. I work for myself so I don't interact with other women who do the same thing.

    • what if a guy asked? i understand as part of getting to know someone. no matter what we think insights into a person's sexual history can give insights into them as a person

    • When ever I've been asked I simply tell them it's not really any of their business and I don't want to talk about it with them.

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  • Thanks for sharing your story. I have a friend that doing pretty much what you do but she will take married guys. She is older than you. She has tried to quit many times. Quits then un-quits. She has loyal customers that won't let her quit. Plus the money is great.

    Another friend that owed me for doing something for him, paid her to entertain me some ten years ago. She and I clicked and became friends. Gives an awesome massage. She won't have sex with me anymore since we became friends. :(

    Why do you want to quit? If you have loyal customers that is everyone's dream. My friend is officially is in the massage business and very good at that. She is certified from a local school. (She will do a massage for me.) But most of her money is from providing sexual services.

    She has built up quite an investment portfolio from the cash she has made over the years. So she could quit and live on it. You might want to do the same thing. I hope you have saved some of the money.

    I hope you find a guy that will appreciate you. We are out there.

  • questions

    1.) Why won't you take a guy's virginity?

    2.) Who would you say was the best if you could choose out of all of them.

    3.) If you don't mind, how much did you make a month?

    4.) Favorite position?

    5.) Who's the youngest you've ever slept with?

    6.) What's your favorite age group?

    If any of them are too personal then my apologies.

    • i would like to read the answers to this questions too

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