Like seriously, sexual orientation has NOTHING to do with loyalty. I'm bisexual, and sure I joke with my female friends about dating them but my boyfriend knows I only have eyes for him. I read this mytake titled "How being bisexual almost ruined my marriage and my life." and I got PISSED.
Between loyalty and sexual orientation, there is NO correlation whatsoever.
Personally, I was very pissed off because she made it seem as if being bisexual is such a terrible thing. But that's not what being bisexual means. It doesn't mean women will always crave vagina and penis, it doesn't mean they're never loyal etc. That woman, was just a cheater. The only reason she even almost got her marriage ruined was because her husband found out about a tape her and her mistress made together.
She wrote well, but what she wrote? Complete idiocy. A sexual orientation will not affect how loyal someone is. A cheater is a cheater. A bisexual is a bisexual. Just because she cheated with a mistress doesn't mean it's bad cause she's bi, it means she's a fucking cheater. If it was with a male it would have been the same damn scenario.
If you date a bisexual person it does not mean they'll fuck you over. If they like you, they'll be loyal to you. If they don't, then they won't. People cheat who're straight, and people are loyal who're bi (such as me for example). If you ever blame cheating on your SO on your sexual orientation, then there's clearly something wrong with you. If you blame being cheated on on your partners orientation then you clearly have no idea how sexual orientations work.
As @Blonde401 said in a comment "It's not like 'oh I fancy a woman today or oh I fancy sex with a man today'. It's not a switch we flip on and off. If we're with someone, we choose to be with them because of who they are not because of what genitals they have." It's so very true. Bisexuals are with the person they're with out of love, not for whats in their pants.
If you cheat, regardless of orientation, you're a cheater. Cheating does not affect one orientation, and cheating is not something to be blamed on anything but yourself. Don't blame anything or anyone but yourself, and accept the fact that you done fucked up.
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16 27I dated someone who was bisexual and he cheated on me with like 5 different girls, and he said "since I'm bi, I want to be with girls too" and he asked me for an open relationship.
I know that not all bisexuals are like that. But when I like a guy and I learn he's bisexual, I kinda get nervous
It's understandable to be nervous due to past experiences but with your ex... mmm he was just a uncultured man whore with no respect for you. I'm sorry he did that to you.
Omg preach. And I read that other mytake "how being bisexual almost ruined my life" and it pissed me off too. Just because someone is bi does make them any more likely to cheat then a heterosexual.
To be honest, I'm not attracted to Bisexual women.
If a girl tells me she's bi, I immediately no longer find her attractive.
I don't know why.
No disrespect obviously...
Thank you for this... I was just as pissed.. My wife is bi and I know would never stray.
I believe anybody can be loyal, It has to be in the person wanting to be loyal no matter who they are, It has to do with the person
You are right it doesn't, but it means you are always in an disadvantages because you can't give them what they craves for. If you are male to can't given then female intimacy and visa-versa.
It's not like 'oh I fancy a woman today or oh I fancy sex with a man today'. It's not a switch we flip on and off. If we're with someone, we choose to be with them because of who they are not because of what genitals they have.
Exactly what @Blonde401 said
We don't really care who's fucking us, we just want to be fucked
Not all bisexuals feel like that, some "need" both or can't settle for one gender. Regardless, just like you have the right to feel attracted to both genders, so do people have the right to feel unconformable being with someone who is bisexual. Some feel unconformable some don't. Just let people feel as they do and be with someone who doesn't feel that way yourself.
Some inspiration:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ElivA-zcbKc
Bisexuality stereotypes are quite interesting.
do you joke with your guy friends about dating them?
sometimes
i find that most bisexual women end up w/ men. the bisexual part only relating to their sexual attraction to either sex. i've known quite a few women who've explored this attraction from the perspective of a relationship w/ another girl only to be disappointed.
I've had an ex girlfriend and my first kiss was with a girl, I like girls as much as guys romantically and sexually
i'm sure your opinion will change once you have sex with a guy. prolly realize girls are better lol
Probably but the romantic interest in both will always be there, even if sexual interest for one increases/decreases
one of the few i believe when saying that
My ex was Bi and current girlfriend is kinda bi too. One thing I can attest too is BI women do not like to share their gf's if they have one. I have had 2 close friends also encounter this with their Bi wives. One did not know she was bi until he walked in on her. He was crushed but they actually worked a 3-way out. The other friend wife dumped her girlfriend as soon as he found out. My ex had a few girls she would make out with and I never knew (even though I told her a girlfriend is ok while im gone) My current girl loves talkign bout women.
Bi women will take any flirting, make-out sessions, or sex with another girl to their grave.
Great myTake! I've always stereotyped bisexual people, but all you're said seems pretty logic to me. Straight people cheat, and it has nothing to do with orientation.
I didn't even read your mytake I just read the title and I already agree with you. That's like a religious person when they say gay people are more likely to rape. There are already enough straight people in this world who cheat and if a retard tries to argue with you in numbers just mention to them that only 1% of human population are gay or bi.
Bisexuality was not good excuse for her cheating. There are so many stereotypes about bisexuality. I swear to god, if a guy wrote a similar story about him cheating on his wife and then blaming his bisexuality, everyone on this site would've told him he was gay all along. They wouldve not called him a cheater. The opinions, for that myTake, were telling her "no you're a cheater and it's not because you're bisexual."
Actually they can not commit they even have a problem they can't get over the flirting phase they just want attention
Yea exactly didn't know you knew every bi person and know exactly how wwe are smh
What an idiot! He probably dated one bisecual airhead and drew the conclusion that we're all like that
@FallOutBoy2001 exactly. glad you caught my sarcasm and didn't take me seriously
I'm around too many sarcastic people to not notice that sarcasm.
wow teenagers these days can be bullies 😂 I don't argue with young people 🐥
Because you know you're wrong?
You are making a highly offensive general statement about a sizeable portion of the population. They have a right to defend themselves. The fact that you have no evidence to support your statement only makes it worse. I agree with the girls entirely. You have nothing to back you up, and you are stating something that is widely known as untrue.
holy COW! really? 😝😝
(without reading this myTake)
I had never heard about this nonsense until I visited gag. Bullshit
there's more people you can cheat with though.
That's such b/s
@Blonde401 no its not... the world's population is 50% male 50% female, if you are for both of them then there's a 100% choice theoretically speaking. if you are bi then you have more people to sleep with, both men and women.
That doesn't make them more likely to cheat
@ClariceOwen23 i never said that, i said there's more people they can cheat with, not that they are more likely to do so.
Alright just making sure
@ClariceOwen23 no problem.
@ClariceOwen23 they have more people to cheat with. to cheat WITH
So you're telling me you like women so you like ALL the vagina owners in the world? Or do you happen to have a preference and taste?
@lovelywiz I know. I read that
@Blonde401 no the chances of liking more people is higher
@lovelywiz again, that is bollocks. I'm a bisexual woman, I don't just like every single person because I have no preference for gender. I like a person regardless of their gender, I'm not attracted to every person on the planet. Stop stereotyping bisexual people.
@Blonde401 who is stereotyping bisexuals? i am only atracted to women, this would cancel out all men which i could potentially cheat on my girlfriend with. but you like men and women, this keeps both options open.
So you like 100% of vagina owners out there?
@Blonde401 no but 100% men are canceled out.
Exactly, no. So you have a preference of people you want to date, like anybody of any sexuality.
@anonman32 well the majority of the people from the same sex would be straight. So they would be cancelled out too
@ClariceOwen23 thank you.
@ClariceOwen23 still, you have men and women to choose from. since women have higher sexual plasticity than men, women would be more inclined to become lesbian than men become gay. so you have many women to choose from, and many men. i only have women.
You're stereotyping here. If we wanna do it that way, there's another stereotype that says that men are usually attracted to a larger percentage of women than women are to men. So based on that logic, men have more choices. Basically, both of these reasons are BS. And I don't have both men and women to choose from since I'm straight. I just happen to know a lot of bisexuals so I'm speaking for them
@ClariceOwen23 how can men have more choice if the percentage of women that are atracted to them is lower than the percentage of men? men have less choice because women are so picky.
But the argument you're giving for bisexuals is the people they're attracted to rather than the people attracted to them
@ClariceOwen23 thats true, fuck bisexuals i would never date them. they make stuff to complicated. 'dont stereotype me bla bla' no thanks.
So it boils down to you not liking bisexual women and having a problem with them. I knew you'd reveal yourself eventually.
@Blonde401 and i am entitled to it.
You're entitled to date or not date whoever you want but don't peddle b/s with it.
@Blonde401 the fact that the entire LGBT community is a sex cult is enough for me not to be wanted to be associated with such people.
LOL I haven't really been following this entire thing but then you said that and just... no... just no. It isn't a "sex cult" yes there PROBABLY ARE such things but the LGBT group is NOT a sex cult lmao one of the stupidest things I've read the entire time I've been on GAG
Wow. Bigot alert. You really did show your true colours. Representation for a minority isn't a sex cult. You're gross, I bet you sit in your bedroom all day worrying about what other people do in their lives where they have fun and enjoy themselves. Unlike you. , bye.
@Blonde401 im bisexual too. im just stating the facts and by the way you're probably pan sexual if you like people regardless of gender.
she obviously doesn't get it
The fact that you can't understand what you read says a lot about your intelligence. No wonder you find bisexuals complicated
My problem with bisexuals is:
-They tend to be regressive leftists.
-They tend to not be Roman-Catholic nor Orthodox.
-They're usually pseudo-intellectuals.
I'am Bi and I'am not a Regressive leftist and I lean towards Christianity more and more every year. Then again I wasn't before and me fully admitting I'am Bi hasn't changed my opinion over the beliefs I already had.
Agreed I am a one person woman.
nahhh don't trust people in general
so of course I would never trust you
plus your BI not my cup of tea
I’m a one persons girl.