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There are many things that get on my nerves but one of them is people who think they're promoting feminism, but are just being down right jerks.
1. When you slut shame other girls
Is that girl on instagram wearing a small swimsuit? unless the swimsuit has a swastik print or something, then who the fuck cares!
2. Thinking that being a feminist automatically means you deserve respect
Yes Taylor, other women have the right to make a joke about you, the fact you're a woman doesn't mean you have to be allies. Feminism ain't a cult.
I guess that by this logic we're not allowed to bad-mouth female murderers, because they're women too.
3. Degrading men
You all complain about how women are used as sexual props in men's music videos but this is okay?
No, it does not make you a 'strong woman'. You're no better than the guys who use women as props.
4. Feminism is made to support both genders, not to make females 'superior'
Again, like my last point, the core definition of feminism is 'gender equality'. Since when acting like women are superior to men is considered gender equality?
5. Not standing up for transgender people
Apparently 'girl code' is not available if you're a transgender woman.
Why you ask?
~ because they're not "ReAl" women WooOoOoO ~
(Didn't know you need a woman certificate damn)
6. Calling girls who put makeup on "fake" or shit like that
Again, are they hurting you by putting makeup on their own faces? no? then shut the fuck up
7. THIS SHIT OH MY GOD
8. Being racist
Do I need to say anything else?
9. Acting like some overly-popular white pop singer is the queen of feminism just because she claims to be a feminist
Yeah I mean who gives a shit about women who actually do things to promote feminism like Angela Davis and Laverne Cox, if they're not an overrated pop singer, who cares! this mediocre gal who did nothing other than tweeting "yeah I'm a feminist" is the most powerful feminist this world has encountered!
10. Treating female nipples like they're voldemort
Female breasts are not a sexual organ, stop treating them like they are. The only difference between male and female breasts is that female breasts are a little bit more inflated, to, you know, feed babies. Are you scared of water bottles?
11. Instead of helping women who have abusive partners, you're calling them 'weak' and 'pathetic'.
In case you haven't noticed, you are a part of the problem.
12. Also, shaming sex workers
Doing porn is not illegal, and it's the goddamn person's choice! And I'm saying this again, are they hurting you by doing porn? no? THEN SHUT THE FUCK UP.
13. Being homophobic
Again, being a feminist means supporting equal rights, not having double standards.
14. Thinking women dress for men
"oh sweety you should put some weight on, guys don't like stick figures!"
"don't wear red lipstick! guys hate that!"
"oh my are those high waisted pants? darling no guy would want you if you dress like that"
What Girls & Guys Said
24 25number 7 is pointless to have been written , you can't even see the writing on the comment strip in the photo...
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The women in the comments are fawning over Bieber, but calling their fellow women sluts.
@Anno_Domini thank you soo much for that. I saw it and it & it is so wrong for some of us to even think the way we do esp the way they spoke to a women compared to a guy.
The ugly totalitarian face of Feminism.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBYa__A5nHoThat has nothing to do with feminism, that happens every time someone tries to voice an unpopular opinion.
YESSSSSS!!! OMFGGGGG!!! YESSSS!!! WOMEN WHO SUPPORT MEN'S RIGHTS ALSO, NOT JUST WOMEN, I LOVE Y'ALL!!! :'):') :')
@JuicyBrain No, it does not. When was the last time that conservatives, patriots, or Christians went to an event and behaved in this manner? It is only the regressive left that wants to silence all other voices.
Seriously? You are 58 and you never saw that elsewhere?
This happens everywhere when someone who has opinions on a controversial subjects tries to express them. Pro-life/choice, Peta, Greenpeace, Imams, Israelis/Palestinians, name it. Do you even watch the news?
www.christianpost.com/.../
https://campusreform.org/?ID=6833
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rF8k28IQNHE
I didn't care to put up more. Google the rest yourself.
Calling feminism ugly when your 58 and have a gag account. At least your dogs the profile picture, would have chugged up seeing your ass bitched face. This is nasty and perverted. Get doing your gardening and reading old man
As a feminist, this makes me sad. I believe everyone should have a chance. I also think double standards are terrible things and need to be ban. Also I never shame girls that work in porn. One of my daughters is a stripper and I love her to death. She also gets A's and B's in her classes.
Eww.
How do you feel about IPV double-standards?
@Transigence Any double standards are wrong
You got some points but you sound like your for and against. Its cherry picking standards. If people want to hate men let them. If women like acting traditionally let them. Me personally i think everybody is overshooting with all these ism's under the name of equality. To suggest you need to be equal to something is to infer you were inferior to it in the first place. So its the enemy and its there to be marganalised or nuetralised. Thats men in this case. Its a bad way to think. You'd think women were chained up and locked away to slave and were being whipped into submission the way some women bang on. Who says? The haters never experineced it since most are lesbos or would never be in that position anyway. Did they poll the older generation or something? No woman under a certain age ever experienced it either so where did all this consensus come from that men were slave drivers. All the women i know take care of the family and the men work. Thats normal. The women want to be with their kids and the men like grafting. Like it or lump it this internet generation has been brainwashed by the media into hating life. Your guinnea pigs. The elite even publicly stated they were declaring war on the traditional family decades ago. They target women because they know women have a pathological need for acceptance and they go along with any fad or vogue in the mainstream even if it is self destructive. Feminism will get ramped up to more severe degrees until the female sex is totally segregated from the male. Why can't people see it for what it is, social engineering. This is how they'll limit the human race population wise. Problem is a man could turn up with a bucket marked sterilisation solution wearing a suit saying elite population control agent and pour it into the drinking water in front of a hundred different media outlets and people would still shout 'conspiracy theorist' if you spoke out. Your all lap dogs
Consider listening more and talking less.
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No, I respectfully disagree. This take is bias and compromised by your interpretation of feminism.
Which is one of many issues concerning your take.
Feminism is the advocacy of women's "rights" on the ground of the equality of the sexes. Meaning it was initially formed to inorder for females to have the same rights as males in that specific society.
Feminism does not concern race or orientation.
Now what has occurred is that some men used to behave like pigs, which was accepted to an extent. However, instead of urging or requesting of men to act decently. Women were then wanted to also behave like pigs, in the name of equality. Which is exemplified by today's society in mainly first world countries.
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I agree with your ideas. Maybe not exactly how they were expressed. However, all of your observations are very accurate.
And that's how a real, confident and successful man reacts ion the topic of feminism. Most assholes here are too insecure to see their girls not taking the shit they give them on a daily basis. Well done sir.
I enjoy this post thank you!!!
dont you feminist?
@ChrisBrowned please use grammar
@prada16 sorry i dont know English like you
I'm sorry to bother you, I'm going
THANK YOU!!! Some of these idiots need to know the difference..
Said it from a 16yr old... @@
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@ihate231 and so what if I am 16? What the hell does age have to do with anything?
@helloifsmethere umm I don't know, wow. Hmm 🤔 What does age have to do with anything? Hmm 🤔 *two thousand years later* hmm 🤔 Oh yeah I know, you're still in high school. ☺️🙏🏼
@helloitsmethere
@ihate231 Okay? And your point? You aren't much older than me so you really shouldn't be saying shit. Plus that logic about 'oh high schoolers don't know anything and are immature as fuck' is really stupid because we aren't all the same. Some of us actually have our heads screwed on right on our shoulders. I bet you don't like it when older generations call you 'lazy and unappreciative' just because you don't reach a certain age yet, you are most likely in college and they generalize the shit outta you just because they saw a group of people your age doing stupid crap. Newsflash sir, you're doing the same thing... by the way last time I checked, I am old enough to make opinions on here.
to this day I find it hilarious how some kids are more mature than adults.
I misunderstood the whole mytake, I must've got in the wrong foot.
Nope I was wrong, I'm getting a whole lot of mixed signals over here. You said it in your MyTake "3rd wave isn't what feminism supposed to be" and then you bitch about slut shaming and all shit like that. MAKE UP YOUR DAMN MIND, WOMAN
@ihate231 Slut shaming is becoming a more serious problem in our society as you can see from the picture under 'slut shaming'. It turned into this problem where if a woman wears ANY type of revealing clothing she is automatically branded a 'slut'. Being a 'slut' does not mean wearing revealing clothing and people often get the meanings mixed up. A 'slut' according to the dictionary, means you sleep around with EVERYONE you see (okay, not everyone but a lot of people but you get my point). At the end of the day, you shouldn't judge based on what you see.
It's going to be as a problem till the day you die. Third wave is useless, people are going to still slit shame girls. Feminism is now gone in the western and things are controlled now. So you have to going to deal with it on your own terms now.
Slut*
If you're a slut, chance are you're still not going to settle and all women want a long term relationship, so if you're a slut, you'll be branded as slut till the day you die.
Being a slut means being sexually provocative (trashy, low self worth, etc.) , have a lot of sex within a short time frame (10-15 years tops) and you're untrustworthy.
Third wave is hurting single mothers to this day because they need a man to take care of their kid also, not just themselves.
I definitely find sluttyness in a girl a major turn off. I would be disgusted if a girl is a slut. Nowadays, I'm very picky towards girls.
@ihate231 I get that and I understand the meaning of the word 'slut'. The way how you explained the meaning of the word 'slut' is in fact correct. The ACTUAL problem is that even if a girl hasn't been sleeping around with a lot of partners, if she chooses to wear certain types of clothing she is automatically labelled as a slut, EVEN THOUGH she hasn't been sleeping around so much, hence the Demi Lovato Instagram screenshot where everyone is slut shaming her JUST because she is posing in a bikini. That is the problem of slut shaming we are talking about. People are making up a false meaning for the word 'slut'. I also understand where you are coming from with dating a girl who has had many partners because to be honest I REALLY wouldn't want to date a player and get my heart broken to begin with because the chances of changing them is VERY slim.
@ihate231 Your point on the single mothers thing. It depends because yes having another partner to raise a child is very important in the child's upbringing and all but I have seen some single moms doing really well raising their child on their own. So I have mixed feelings about that one. But then again, I'm young, under eighteen and have lots more to learn about the world.
@helloitsmethere this is my other account because some idiot might've reported me. Anyways, feminism nowadays wants men to accept as a slut as their wife and tells men that's the thing of the past. Well first of all, I don't buy that shit because I don't like women with disgusting high numbers. Second of all, I love my women clean and have a low number count. It's hard nowadays to trust a woman based on her looks. Back then in the 80s, before 3rd wave has impacted western, you can actually tell whether if a woman is a good/clean person or a slut/hoe. Nowadays you can't because living in this disgusting culture, all women are viewed as sluts/hoes. Now, I am not saying all women are but the society wants everyone to believe they are. Which is why I've put my standards sky high. I guess showing your cleavage is not a problem as long as you don't have a belly button piercing.
@helloitsmethere But, when a woman has half of her ass and half of her tits out, it's considered slutty. You wouldn't expect a man to take off his pants and walk naked showing off his dick and ass, wouldn't you? Another thing, stop being so selfish and show some empathy for once in your life. Gosh, feminism is lacking some major empathy these days.
I meant "midriff", not cleavage.
@helloitsmethere
@helloitsmethere oh ya almost forgot, beautiful women can be sluts too.
@helloitsmethere all women need a man to raise a child because it's better the child's future and psychological being to have a father. You don't want a girl to end up having daddy issues? or a guy being effeminate as an adult, do you?
@helloitsmethere if Demi was at the beach posing, I don't see why it's considered slutty.
@helloitsmethere MyTake Owner have some serious issues needs to be dealt with and she need to learn the value of EMPATHY asap! In detail #1, it's slutty for a woman to be in a small swimsuit because bitches like you who lack empathy would understand in a man's belief. She would know if a man would take off his fucking pants in public, people would do avoid him. LEARN SOME EMPATHY BITCH!
Wouldn't*
@helloitsmethere..
@masc23 First of all, I REALLY appreciate how you left 19 notifications on my wall trying to prove a point. Second of all, 'feminism now a days now wants men to accept sluts as their wives' seriously not every feminist think that way and again stop with the generalizing -_- We lack empathy? Really? I get that in some areas, certain types of clothing is inappropriate but you are comparing a woman who just showing her cleavage or wearing some type of shorts that is so short that part of her butt cheeks are showing to a man that is fully butt naked. Hmm, I wonder which one is worse... I get that you don't want anyone with an unusually high amount of partners, and a lot of women also don't want anyone who is a player. Also, about the looks thing, you really can't judge anyone by their looks. Someone who may look like an angel on the outside might be a demon on the inside. That phrase has been has been thrown around a lot of times, I expected you to know about it...
@masc23 'beautiful women can be sluts too' well no shit... About the single parent thing... again. 'All women need a man in the house'. Wait a minute, I'm sorry... ALL? You do realize that not ALL women are straight, right? Next point about it, just because someone grows up in a single parent household DOES NOT MEAN they will always have some sort of problem. I have seen some people who grew up in a single parent household and they turned out just fine. 'You do not want a man to grow up effeminate right?' Umm... excuse me? This is THE PERFECT FUCKING EXAMPLE of why men have this total, unhealthy pressure to be 'manly' all the time and a lot of them have such low self esteem about it. SO WHAT if a man isn't as manly as other men? How is that YOUR PROBLEM? Just because you dont fit in society's perception of a 'manly' man DOES NOT make you less of a man. Demi's swimsuit isn't too small for her. It is just her cup size and the design of the bikini and it doesn't mean you can slut shame her
@helloiysmethere it's
@helloitsmethere First of all, I don't want to fit into the society's perception of being a "manly" man because I don't want feel depressed like these feminist bitches are expecting in a man. Second of all, I would sacrifice casual sex for a woman who's worth waking up in the morning because I choose to be like it. Screw the society, they can't do shit to me, I call the shots and I am a manly man in my perception. If a woman wants to call me gay to refuse casual sex, go right ahead, but she can't try to be friends with me because I will refuse and pull away. I live on my own terms because I am a man and I give out shit rather than taking it. There's a difference between give out shit and giving a shit. Screw over generalizing, that's an excuse of me winning your sorry ass.
@helloitsmethere I think it's funny for you to say on your last part "it DOES NOT make me less of a man." Sweetie, it doesn't make me less of a man because I know, I don't need people to tell me twice. Being masculine is being comfortable in your own skin. A lot of men shouldn't be sleeping around and stop donating their sperm to the sperm bank because feminists would cry and cry, if it still doesn't persists, there isn't no option for them but to kill this lousy construct. I would DEFINETLY NOT donate my sperm to the sperm because as a man, I am letting it go to waste like that. If a woman wants a kid, we should be intimate. That's the way to properly get a kid.
@helloitsmethere Not letting it go to waste like that*
@helloitsmethere bank*
@masc23 I thought you meant single moms whose boyfriends, fiance, or husband leaves her to take care of the kid or kids alone. If you don't want to donate your sperm then so be it but it will not stop anyone else from doing it. And calling someone 'gay' or 'lesbian' just because someone doesn't want to sleep with you is ridiculous as hell. Plus it's 2016 and people are still using gay and lesbian as an insult? Lmao that's funny. Also, it's good that you are comfortable in your own skin and don't give a shit about what society says. Not only that, real feminists care about men also. Please do not mix us up with those feminists who are like 'women are better than men' (which is complete and utter bullshit to begin with) because those aren't real feminists. Those are what you call feminazis. An ACTUAL feminist believes in equality between men and women. Though, I have to admit, some people are taking the whole movement a bit too far and turning it against men...
@helloitsmethere I was referring to feminazis. I thought every girl who is a slut is also a femininazi because they want to be superior over men and want us to accept their sluttyness. Like I've said, I don't cut it. Nowadays, I'm getting puzzled because women are secretly joining humanity and abolishing feminism. I was getting a lot of mixed signals and I still am. No but ugly chicks who are in relationships or hookups or whatever are looking at me weirdly why am I single or why am I not having sex or whatever, but hey I just ignore it because they're not worth my time.
@masc23 Yeah, since there are so many feminazis these days representing feminism and giving feminism a bad name, I sometimes think about quitting calling myself a feminist so no one cusses me off for being 'selfish' or a so called 'man hater' before I try to explain what I ACTUALLY stand for and calling myself an equilatarist (I am actually one) instead so no one cusses me off. But a lot of people don't know what that is yet so I try not to add to the confusion.
Exactly.
@helloitsmethere It's Egalitarian, you're close though. I am an Egalitarian too. Read what I've found on the internet, it may be biased, who knows. 'However, two decades later a much wider range of women fall under the conservative commentator's "feminazi" label'.
Who else came in the comments just to play spot the feminist?
I always thought feminism was about wearing men's clothes in a sexy way and doing men's jobs in a sexy way. Maybe I should pay better attention to women when they talk.
You seem to be a fan of the stupid logic "are they hurting you by doing that? No? Then shut the fuck up "
by the way just letting you know , terrorists aren't hurting me either till now, maybe I should stfu too about them.
Wait, what exactly did she say to give you that impression? I legitimately don't see it. Also, that comparison ain't exactly valid. If terrorists weren't hurting people, they wouldn't be terrorists, and there wouldn't be any reason to do anything about them. Unless you mean hurting you specifically? In which case I even less understand why you think her take has that issue.
@cipher42 if you read it even barely, you'd know. Of course terrorists are hurting people but not ME until now.
No, I definitely read it, and I still don't see what you mean. Why does saying feminism should be about respecting people and acting reasonable mean "don't complain about it because it doesn't affect me"? Like, specifically which bit of the take do you disagree with? I can't even find a place where she mentions herself specifically, and there's even bits about specifically respecting people who aren't like her at all.
@cipher42 #6 and then again #12 what I am talking about. Its kinda hypocritical how her rest of the points are about pointing out what's 'wrong' , and when others seem to do so, they get a "shut the fuck up"
Okay, but both of those things don't hurt anyone. So what's the issue? And I was right, your example is invalid. Because again, terrorists do hurt people, that's why they're terrorists, and that's why we condemn them. Sex workers don't hurt anyone, not in and of themselves, and makeup sure as fuck hurts absolutely no one.
feminism is just ruined, the first and second wave were ok, but now. no it is beyond repair.
Well put!
The first and second wave had plenty of problems as well, the third wave is the result of the first 2 waves, the internet just helped bring the problems to light. The entire ideology is based on women being victims and men being oppressors, this is the same kind of threat narrative racists use/used against black people, or against Jews etc.. There are critics going back over a hundred years pointing out all the same flaws in Feminism we now see running rough shod over our human rights now.
@Jager66 the actual dangerous thing about feminism is that it has existed in the roman empire and ancient greece as well and its eventual effects werent pretty. birth rates decline because men opted out of women. men bought slaves especially trained for making them into wives in the roman empire, they rather had slaves than roman women. thats says something.
Yeah it's crazy hey! Almost like there is some kind of biological imperative that is out of kilter for a lot of people that just doesn't mesh well with a modern society or something. There are sooooo many examples of this "movement/behavior" through out history, I'm constantly randomly coming across more and more research from people digging it up and putting it online.
@Jager66 as a matter of fact, there are already women who find it difficult to find a man.
hmm that's not something I've really looked into.
@Jager66 I've seen memes in the form of captioned pictures saying 'return men to womankind' also look into NEET's. it means Not in Education, Eployement and or Training. it is big in japan, the us and some countries in Europe. it is difficult to measure exactly, as these people may actually almost never come out of the house. it consists of people, mostly men, simply opting out of society as whole. many of japanese NEETs are already in their 30s and 40s. they are called the lost generation in japan. they dont want girls or jobs or anything look into it.
Is it me or the modern feminists sound conservative while the true feminists sound liberal? That's what I got from your mytake.
You shouldn't have done this anonymously, this is beautiful! I agree with everything here, preach!!!
unfortunately I've learned the hard way that if someone disagrees with you on this website, they will do whatever they can to make your G@G experience miserable. some people just don't know how to grow up. thank you very much though!
You should stop stop being a whiny bitch Anon.
@ihate231 you're a whiny bitch but at least you're not an anon
@FallOutBoy2001 I'm a man and I'm allow to express whatever comes to mind, women like you aren't
@FallOutBoy2001 Women like you are catty and bitchy; that's a turn off and I don't care about the "3rd wave feminism", they're garbage to me.
Hell, I slut shame girls because I'm not selfish, women should know better. I support humanity instead of feminism because I believe in men's rights too, not just women. For example; the gay freedom of act in boys and I am not homophobic because I choose not to be. I don't care if you guys/girls don't think "I'm masculine" enough to you, I JUST DONT GIVE 2 FUCKS! Sorry, if living in this demeaning society was a non-mandatory race, I would be out of it within a sec! I am very mortified to be living in this embarrassment, I'd wish my parents gave birth to me centuries ago.
but if*
I couldn't barely read the first topic without laughing. You people should wake up.
You know what, I guess i was overreacting. This woman is putting jabs towards feminism.
The thing is about #1, I do slut shame girls and the society doesn't care if I do.
Now I'm getting mixed signals over here.
Sorry but you are wrong. If you believe in equality then you're an equalist, not a feminist.
Good man!
Equalist:
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Fuck feminism.
yeah, fuck treating women like human beings and not like slaves, emiright?
Feminism is the epitome of hypocrisy, it's the pillar of bullying, and the leader of bigotry. This is not just "some people" this is FEMINISM at it's core. The biggest leaders and voices of feminism as far back as the 70's have promoted these traits. So let's stop pretending it's just "some people" pretending to be feminist.
No group hates women more than feminism. Attacking women for everything (from being pretty, being sexual, being housewives, no agreeing with their bullshit, etc.) while at the same time acting like they are "all about women".
No group has openly spewed more hate towards another group without recourse like feminist spew hate towards men. (Mostly the iconic feminist)
* Although I have yet to see a feminist actually shame a female for being abused (they usually grab hold of anything they can to push the victim complex). I do see them shame, ridicule, ignore, or attack ANY male victims of any crime committed by a female.
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On another note: Female nipples are a sexual organ. Women use them for sexual pleasure, sexual attention, and sexual power. Therefore they are sexual organs. A female breastfeeding is a different story because they are using the breast for it's purpose but when you put plastic in them to get attention and then put them on display so you can shame men for looking at them... they are sexual organs. It is completely different than male nipples.
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generally speaking Women do dress for men. Be it directly or indirectly. If you put on jeans and ask yourself or a friend "Do these jeans make my ass look fat"... you are doing it because you want your ass to look nice based on society's standard of what looks nice. For women this is based on what men currently like, and for men it's what women currently like.
This is why we have massive shaming against men who don't like fat women. In some cases it's easier for women to attack male desire instead of fitting into it.
men also get sexually pleasured with their nipples, soo
There is no comparison between the way women use their breast for sex and how men do. That is a low ball comparison. Men also do not use their nipples to get sexual attention, leverage, and power like women do.
I agree with some things other I don't. I don't consider transgender women , I believe in science so i don't subscribe to the believe they are women. Homophobic? The entire feminist community was tailored around lifting up gays yet the gay community is built on female culture and being sexist towards women. I don't and won't put lgbt on pedestal. Feminity was meant for lifting women out of the dark ages and making the sexes equal I agree with that. The feminist movement started to become a joke in the 70's when the fashion industry ran by men started to dabble in feminism.