Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

Do women care more about those who care about them? Or are not only physically attractive, but who they really click with?

Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

Or do they mirror the guy's behavior and treat you how you treat them? Some argue that by treating her like a "slut" she behaves like one. It's an interesting topic, what does everyone think? I always thought that the woman would want to be her dirty sexual self with someone she wants to submit to.

Take the following example and let's discuss what you all think.

The woman = Sweet and kind girl, very feminine. Cute, enjoys scenery and nice people. She does like dancing (classes) and having girly days. Also going for meals and taking pictures of her surroundings when she travels. Interestingly lots of guy friends as well as girls.

The guys =

Guy 1 is a kind and smooth guy friend who is someone she rates highly. He's always impressed her and is someone nice and also talented in many ways. She loves his energy and words, as well as him being polite and a really great guy. She poses with him closely in group and solo shots. Always uplifts her talking about qualities and she's excited to keep in touch and hear from him. Sparse physical compliments, which are genuine and make her blush - is he flirting? Seems very cultured, and her age.

Guy 2 is a brash guy in a different social circle of hers. He can be fun and is a little quirky or posey. Most of the girls know he's a bit of a show off. She has posed a bit like a model in group shots, otherwise pretty normal in solo shots. Very active on facebook and into photography. Ever so slightly younger, in dance class, more frequent physical compliments to many women.

She met both guys when she was already in a relationship. Both are attractive, if anything guy 1 is more physically attractive than guy 2.

Explain which guy she has more care and affection for and who means more from her sexual experiences with both of them below:

FOREPLAY STAGE 1


Guy 1 = they share a passionate kiss after sharing a moment. He moves from her lips to her neck as she breathes heavily and giggles as he moves his head down her breasts to her waist undressing her. She starts undressing him as he lifts her and guides on her onto the couch. He kisses her and gradually moves down to her thighs licking them. He then proceeds to go down on her and she moans in pleasure. He says "Do you like that my sexy girl" saying her name. It's his first time and he's the second person she's ever been with.


Guy 2 = She's just posed for one of his likeaboss photos with other girls. He kisses her lips strongly after a high energy night and they're briefly alone at a houseparty after a club social where she's drunk a little and feeling a little loose. She's taken by surprise as he moves her hands onto his crotch as he rubs her vaginal area through her trousers fast. She's a bit unsure about this, but his touching her down there seems to have aroused her. She happens to be wearing a loose top which he takes off. Can't believe his luck to be with the innocent and sweet girl and she's making out with him. He puts his hands on her shoulders and pushes her onto her knees.

FOREPLAY STAGE 2


Guy 1 = totally turned after receiving and after making out a little and looking at him with adoration, she moves to her knees and takes off his trousers. She licks nervously and then sucks him.

He says "Oh god yes, you're so hot! Yeah lick me like that!" She looks at him and moans for him.

He says "Oh yes my dirty girl, you love sucking me don't you!" to which she replies "Mhmm yes I'm your dirty girl, do you like it?" She loves how excited she's making him.

Stroking her hair, he says "Look at me, oh you're so good! Yes lick it up and down you sexy thing!"

She proceeds to turn him on a lot moaning and laughs and smiles a lot looking at him.

"Yes tell me you love to suck me!" he tells her.

"I love sucking your cock your highness!" she proclaims.

She puts her hands behind her back when he mentions it and then he says "come and join me up here" moving her up to the couch and commands her to "Get on her knees".

Guy 2 = He's still got his clothes on, and has moved her own hand to unzip his trousers. He just moves his cock near her mouth and says "Suck the boss." She sucks the tip and his moan tells her how much he likes it. He starts taking his top off and lets his trousers fall to the floor.

"Yes, suck me, that's it! You love sucking cock don't you". She's a bit loose and running with it and kinda moans a little.

"Moan louder, yeah, that's it, spit on it, go on spit on it!" The command keeps her going despite being nervous.

"Oh f**k yeah suck me you dirty slut!" She continues to suck him a little and moans a little oh.

"F**k yes, what are you, say you're a dirty slut!"

"Get on the couch yeah on your knees" as he sits down and guides her head down with his hand.

She replies a bit nervously "I'm a dirty slut!"

"Yes you are, f**k yeah suck me." She sucks the tip bobbing her head up and down.

"Yeah you want to be fucked hard don't you!"

THE SEX

Guy 1 = both of them are panting and she puts her hands on the couch rest as he slides his cock into her vagina and starts fucking her doggystyle. She moans "Oh yessss" and so does he as he pulls on her hair. She turns to look back at him with a sheer dirty look of pleasure. They both moan in pleasure as he starts softly and starts to fuck her harder.

"You love that don't you! Yes tell me to f**k you harder!" he says

"Yessss f**k me harder hehe" she moans and giggles. He even slaps her ass, though he's nervous about that, but as she purrs his name her does it again.

After a little while, he slowly pulls out and says "Come here".

He sits and has her straddle him and she rides him as they face each other cowgirl.

She moans "Ohhhhh" a lot as she sucks his finger and bounces up and down on him and they hold each other's hands, kiss each other a lot.

Guy 2 = On her knees, she's feeling a little slutty, but then he puts his hard cock into her and she starts to feel turned on. He starts immediately to roughly pound her.

"Yes, you love it hard don't you!" he says and she does start to moan.

"Yes, you dirty little slut!" he slaps her ass as he pounds her and tells her to tell him to fuck her harder.

"Yes f**k me, fuck me harder!" she says as she starts to get going.

He keeps at it, pounding her really fast and hard.

"Yes, you dirty slut! What are you?" he shouts

"I'm a dirty slut!" she sighs as she is starting to get off now. He keeps going focusing on fully enjoying himself.

"Say it again you slut! Tell me to f**k you! You love f**king a hard cock don't you!"

"Mhm yess, f**k me!" she says nervously as she begins to reach pleasure.

ORGASMS AND ANOTHER ROUND

Guy 1 = they hold each other's heads with their hands as they look at each other and both cum moaning each other's names. "Yesssssss!" from both of them. After cuddling and him giving her a massage she proceeds to massage him and then ends up getting him hard again. He looks at her mouth and stands up and she giggles.

She proceeds to give him head and call him her highness again. This time, she knows what he likes and licks his shaft from bottom to top and looks right at him.

"Yess my dirty girl! Suck me, oh god yesss!" he proclaims.

"Mhmmm do you like that!" she moans.

He orders her to put her hands on her knees and "Beg for my cum!" moaning her name.

She isn't quite sure what to do, and opens her mouth moaning and smiling up at him as he cums on her face, in her mouth and a little in her hair. She laughs as she swallows a little and it actually tastes quite good. They both giggle and then they make out.

They cuddle again and fall asleep together. The next morning, they awaken, after he massages her, she gives him head in the shower and they have sex against the wall. Later have breakfast across the road.

Guy 2 = Pounding her as she moans and then pulls out. After a short while of him having maybe dozed off, he briefly fingers her and then guides her hands to do it herself, as he says "Get on your knees yeah!" and guides her lips to his cock as she continues to finger herself. She is almost climaxing as she sucks the tip. He starts to thrust a little into her mouth holding her head.

"Yes suck me!" He mentions her name for the first time in the interaction and then goes "Oh f**k yes, suck me you slut!"

He briefly even takes out his phone and videos it, commanding her to suck him.

As she moans getting herself off, her moaning and sucking are driving him wild and he pulls out and shouts "Beg for my cum you SLUT!!!"

Before she's done anything, he blasts her face with his cum as he moans "F**kkkk!" It's a hot finish for him and she takes it on the face.

He slaps his cock a little on her face afterward laughing. She does a little laugh, but can barely believe how much cum she has on her.

She goes to clean up discreetly in the bathroom and sees him later in the communal lounge where the party stragglers are. He just smirks and they part ways at the end of the night. She sees him at her dance class socials again, but doesn't interact with him intimately again.

WHO DOES SHE CARE FOR OR ENJOY THE MOST?

Your views on the guys, the girl and the sex?

Do women have dirtier sex with guys who don't care about them? What about this one?

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  • I had a friends with benefits relationship with three lovely girls in my teens but im married now so no I wouldn't but when I was 17 during the summer holidays for a month I managed to convince my hot 15 year old cousin and her friends to have a foursome with me, now that was an amazing. We met up three or four times a week for sex sometimes all together sometimes with someone missing or just individually, I know they met up for sex when I couldn't make it. When the summer ended I went on to college and the last time we met up was at Thanksgiving for sex the three girls having gotten very good at pleasuring themselves and each other. After Thanksgiving the girls got caught having sex together at a sleep over by my cousins parents and my cousin was sent away to a strict Christian straight camp and of the other girls one got beaten so bad by her father that she ended up in hospital and the other was sent to live with an aunt so as not to shame their family ehrn she gave birth to my son which was adopted by the aunt.
    I miss those innocent days, what I shared with those three girls wasn't just amazing sex but a very intense emotional connection and though we three were young and immature it was love though conservatives and liberals alike would both damme and dismiss what we shared as illegitimate.

    • Interesting story. Damn bro you had a foursome, how can a guy get that with some female friends? :-D So are you saying women are more slutty for guys who they don't care about? Cos it seems weird you wouldn't put in more effort for sex with someone you do care about. In this example above, what's going on - does the woman (described at the top) put in more effort for either guy? Who does she enjoy more and be dirty with?

    • Your thinking about only male sexual gratification and im talking about four people making love, their was no lack of effort from anyone and all were completely into it.

    • No I mean gratifying her as well. That's the whole point, but to try out positions or let go and be fully dirty, she has to also do that right? In this example, as I asked you before, was she being satisfied by one guy more than the other? Did she put in more effort for one? Who did she care for more?

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  • No. 1... Hands down.
    You can tell she cares for him more. And you can tell that there's a much deeper connection between them (i. e. holding each other's heads, cuddling, laughing together)... I didn't really see it quite as "mirroring" so much as just being in sync with each other and feeling an intimate, more genuine connection.

    Now for Guy 2
    Guy number two just seems like your typical cocky douche to me haha. But as far as mirroring goes, I see mirroring in the sense that she doesn't feel quite as comfortable with him and to me it felt like she was just doing what she THOUGHT he wanted her to do; if you want to call that "mirroring". I honestly cringed reading certain parts, I'm not sure if it just wasn't described as well but to me, it pretty much sounded like he was taking advantage of her and that she was uncomfortable... And that ending? He didn't even have the decency or respect for her as a person to give a damn second's notice? No. Then proceeds to slap his cock on her face. Nope.
    It just sounded like he was using her and didn't give a shit if she came or not.

    Number 1 for sure.

    • Great answer! Let's discuss, so, No.1 = Right, that's good! So what made you say guy 1 in terms of her caring more? Because she was definitely connecting with him and voluntarily trying to please him/talking dirty right? He seemed to care about pleasing her and enjoying that moment (his first time). They still had naughty sex and was she giving her all to try and please him and be dirty? I mean she did reaffirm him asking her whether she was his dirty girl and her loving it and she answered enthusiastically? No. 2 = Yes I agree! He just seemed to be someone who wanted to get off and had to convince her to say she was a "dirty slut". Lol on the guy not caring about the ending or her having pleasure. So do you think she would want to be dirty or please this guy or want to be dirtier for the guy 1? Who was more sexy and dirty? Thirdly, can good guys like guy 1 (an myself) be fully sexual whilst being romantic or do only guys like guy 2 "get away" with calling women a dirty slut?

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  • You write a lot. I have sex with a guy I like, simple as that.

    • His point is I think... women put more effort into sex with douche bags/people that don't care about them/guys that sleep around and hit the gym every day basically... they find a nice guy they like who cares about them... they don't put in that same effort and/or interest into sex.

    • fuck nvm that was his last post... this one is a porno thread.

    • Yeah just wanted to be clear, so that you don't get those people who respond with irrelevant stuff! I like your point about you have sex with someone you like. So connection is important? Did she like one guy and the sex more than the other in this case? Did she try to please one more and where is the affection?

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  • I'm going to go with they try and mirror his behavoir. So you got into her pants then him? Or is this just a fantasy that you imagined with her?

    • I do have to agree that they just appear innocent after you get to know them you do get to realize how much they actually have experienced. These two sisters I thought would hate deadpool because of the gore in it. Nope they cared less about the gore but they covered their eyes during hpthe sex part. Granted I did also but they are not completely innocent I have heard them talk about sex several times with friends but they act way more innocent around me. I do still think that they are virigns though neither of them are outgoing enough to just get laid and they are waiting around for Mr right without looking so I doubt they will find him anytime soon. Lol I hope they are enjoying their vibrators cause fake is all that they are probably going to get for a while.

    • Interesting! For that deadpool thing, once there was a friend who told me there were too many innuendos in it and she didn't get it, so does that mean she likes innuendos or not? She's innocent haha, but I like to imagine she's naughty in reality. I dunno for instance if she's a virgin - she's had 1 boyfriend. Now they broke up. But how do I know if she is interested if she acts sweet/innocent with me (mixed with funness)? As for the above question, what do you think about the care and affection she has for the 2 guys? So let's say she had a boyfriend, she broke up. She was away from guy 1, her friend being in another country. So she did the thing with guy 2 first. But when she slept with guy 1 as described above, he teaches her a real blowjob (despite being a virgin himself). Their descriptions of how they all met are at the very top. Based on the dirty talk between each of them, what do you think she perceives them as? Cite if you can

    • What do u think? The people are defined at the top, and each stage of the sex is described, so who has her attention/affection and say why?

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  • First time sex is udually standard sex. With guys who don't care about me I don't have sex multiple times. Hence I have kinkier sex with someone I'm very close with and trust.

    • Ok that's a good point, so you'd opt for close. In this case, both guys were in her social circle. What do you make of the sex she had with each? Was she trying to please one more than the other? Did she show affection to any of them? Was she dirtier with either?

    • I have no clue, sounds like you're overanalyzing it a little

    • Hypothesize, I'd like to hear your thoughts my feline? :-)

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  • This entire take sounds like it was taken straight from a porn script or something. Is there a point you're trying to get across here or something besides the fact you think every woman is going to give it up for some guy who doesn't care for them?

    I'm not going to drop my pants for a guy like that. The relationship has to at least be going somewhere first.

  • This is just a generation. It depends upon the person. Maybe true to some

    • Did you read the descriptions of all 3 people involved at the top? Read that and then tell me what you think.

    • Anything?

    • Really useless lol!