Do women ( or gay guys) prefer circumcised or uncircumcised?

[Anonymous]

I posted a question on here a few days ago and it mostly surrounded whether you should get your son circumcised. At first I was thinking when I have a child it’ll be a definite yes but the thread made me think I’d definitely consider not getting it done or talking to my husband first ( cause I don’t have a penis lol). But as for partners for women does anyone actually like uncircumcised penises like sexually? As an American they only even show a circumcised one in health classes and I’ve always been a bit disturbed by the uncut ones. And me learning about smegma certainly didn’t help. I don't know if I’ve been brainwashed or not but that’s just me. Plus this would probably only be a thing if I lived somewhere other than America

[RickPen]

I believe that a preference should be ignored, as it dehumanizes the rest of the person, distilling and objectifying them to their penis. We apparently despise people who do that to women, but America specifically will do it to men.

Cutting for nonreligious reasons is mostly an American thing, brought about to stop masturbation, prevent blindness, mental issues, etc. Literally every disease it has been claimed to prevent has been debunked, including STDs (look up Langerhan's cells and how they work) and cancer. American men have a higher rate of breasts cancer than penile, and most other countries are uncut, yet have lower cancer rates.

Smegma is normal. Women make much greater amounts of it, but it's washed away. Yeast infections are taken care of with OTC antifungals. Men should have the same option, but are told to be cut.

As for having a choice, there should not be one due to female genital cutting being banned, and the fourteenth ammendment granting equal protection. The *only* person who should have a choice or preference is the owner of the penis.

We know that over a hundred babies die due to circ every year in America. These are coded as blood loss, collapsed lung sometimes SIDS. The baby would not lose blood if they weren't cut. They wouldn't collapse a lung if they didn't scream from the procedure.

Also, most doctors still don't use any anesthesia, so that baby is going to feel everything. It has been studied and literally proven to alter brain function. The baby never returns to normal.

What if it's more botched than usual and they have chronic pain, a crooked penis, or part is missing? What would you do as a parent? Nothing can be done, and what's removed can't be repaired.

I keep seeing these questions, and others related to a boyfriend who can't orgasm, or ED issues. Everyone blames porn, but circ has been studied and proven to remove 80% of the sensation in a man's penis, and is functionally equivalent to a woman losing her clitoris for sex. That is not an exaggeration. The study was done in 2007. That nerve loss also leads to orgasm control issues. Think of it like removing your fingertips and then saying it looks better and you're just as good as before.

America has a big problem recognizing what they have normalized, as the rest of the world looks on at us as barbaric. In the end it should be if it's not attached to your body, shut up and accept it, and stop cutting.

[Asker]

For children maybe it should be ignored and you should wait until their older, but as for sexual partners I think it’s perfectly fine to have a preference. Just as a guy would have different preferences on a girl. Girls naturally grow armpit hair, leg hair, and pubic hair but most guys prefer it shaved. As for the smegma thing... is that even true I’ve never had smegma before. Ofc I keep myself clean but I've never heard of a girl having it only guys with foreskin

[RickPen]

Would you be comfortable if a guy asked you to cosmetically alter your genitals to suit their preference? Are you comfortable with the women who come forward about female genital cutting? Would you tell them that a man's preference is acceptable? Removing body hair does not remove nerves or living tissue. That is false equivalence.

America has as skewed idea of what smegma is, how it's made, and also has a multi-generational brain-washing that assumes men only have this "problem." While I'm loath to link WebMD, as they minimize the damage circumcision causes, they at least have accurate information regarding smegma. Feel free to read the linked article:

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-smegma

80% of the world's men are normal (IE: not cut), and smegma isn't much of an issue; doctors will tell a patient to wash themselves. Americans choose to cut babies (majority of circs are on newborns in this country) because they "might get smegma" or "have bacteria" when they're older. Other ideas are "looking like daddy" or "I find a cut penis sexually attractive" from the mom (sexualizing the child).

Your preference wouldn't even exist if where you lived almost anywhere else in the world.

Besides, look up info about John Harvey Kellogg (corn flakes). I would conclude there is much you need to learn about male anatomy and its function, and I will firmly state that a preference for cut penises qualifies as a mutilation fetish.

Oh, if you want to see the kind of damage circ can cause, check the link below:

http://circumcisionharm.org/gallery1.htm

[Asker]

Yea no... I wouldn’t ever cut it to “ look like his fathers” that’s disgusting. All I’m saying is the dad will probably have the best judgement on that do I’ll live the choice mostly up to him. As for sexual preference your partially right. Living in America probably has given me the preference. But there’s nothing wrong with my preference, foreskin just disturbs me a little bit, but it’s something I’d be willing to get over if I truly loved the person

[Asker]

And no it’s not a mutilation fetish lol. I didn’t know some people had the flap over their sinus until a few years ago so that’s just what I thought all penises look like, so I’d say I’m just like the average American girl

[Asker]

Penis *

[RickPen]

A father lacks best judgment as it's not his body. Circ is highly unregulated, often performed freehand, with little real training. The baby can't give consent; it's forced amputation of healthy tissue without cause, which is the literal definition of mutilation, and why the procedure is billed as cosmetic by hospitals. Mine is considered an "excellent" result, which gives me chronic, daily pain. It basically feels like my penis is being stabbed with a hot knife all day. There is no fix for that, and is due to circumcision. I get to live with that, and was given no chance to avoid it. I used to think that people should have an opinion, but it really should fall to the owner of the body when they're of age, with copious amounts of info provided to show the long-term cons (which are not mentioned). Preferring cut can't be right, because the preference is advocating force male genital cutting, as that's most prevalent. You might like what you see; a scarred shaft, a keratinized glans with perhaps missing chunks, or other issues. Do you like amputated limbs or fingers? Ask yourself if that was the cultural norm, would you accept it? We don't do it to girls in America, so why are we cutting boys? Because of preference and perpetual ignorance mixed with cognitive dissonance. Also, it's not a "flap" but a complete sleeve of skin. In the average adult, that "flap" is equivalent to a 3"x5" postcard. Imagine cutting that amount of healthy tissue off your body. Maybe skin an entire hand, let it scar over, and then see if it functions as well. That is precisely what cut men are condemned to.

[Asker]

Look I’d let his father decide but honestly that’s my buisness. About the preference thing it’s not natural to me cause I didn’t even know it existed. It’s more of a foreign thing to me. And since I’m American why wouldn’t my preference be what most of the guys in my country have? Make it make sense pls

[RickPen]

Then you're proving that you are brainwashed and readily accept what America does to boys. Not your body, not your choice. Children aren't property, and being responsible for them does not mean you cut them as you wish. It is only legal in America due to brainwashing and people thinking it's normal. It isn't. The rest of the world looks on at the USA in horror for the baby cutting penchant, especially when the US is so strongly against female cutting. Imagine if you grew up and someone removed your clit as normal, and then you found out yours was the only country in the world to do it without reason other than tradition? Did you even look at the links I sent to see the damage? Do you know over 100 boys die each year in the USA from genital cutting? All you have said is that you're ignorant of the subject due to your inexposure, and then refuse to even discuss the subject because "smegma" or "that's how it is here." What would you say to your son if it was fine to him and he lost his penis from a severe botch? What if he was angry and wanted revenge for what was forced on him? I have seen thousands of men come forward about this, and I've seen even more comments, heard every single argument. What you have is cognitive dissonance because you accept what's done and refuse to admit that it is literally definable as mutilation.

[Asker]

I said I don't know what I’m doing with my son yet lol. This post is about romantic partners

[RickPen]

Yup. So when are men going to ask women to trim their labor and make their vaginas look better, or shame them because they're "gross" and "uncut" or some other random preference. And you repeatedly sidestep the issue of when this occurs to men, which is usually a few days after birth. The adult rate is extremely low. So if women demand a "pretty" penis from men, let's see them step up and make themselves look better, too.

[Asker]

Actually sometimes doctors give women a “ husband stitch “ after giving birth. So stuff happens to women for the sake of men all of the time. Actually way more than vice Cerda but men dont seem to get that

[RickPen]

Another false equivalence. Nothing is removed in a "husband stitch." The procedure is uncommon and reversible, yet I have heard the outrage outraged at rights being violated as the same immediately advocate putting their son through cutting, for their own sexual preference with the phrase "his wife will thank me." You want to talk about equality? Really? You have deflected every time. You don't have an actual argument: only deflections, red herrings, and false equivalence. I would love to tell you about men silently suffering, but America hates men, pure and simple. You think you're oppressed. You're the one spouting a prefrence for scarred, cut genitals of men, bit won't respond when challenged. I'm not wasting any further time on you. Enjoy your preference, and hopefully it will be banned in the future, or maybe protections for women will stop, and we can all suffer together, for the sake of cosmetics. That seems to be what America is about: all form and no substance, much like your arguments.

[Asker]

Well you think men are more oppressed than women so... yea your beyond reason. Have a nice day

[RickPen]

Here, go watch one being performed, and see what it does to your psyche. This is what your preference requires. This is what America does to baby boys every day, and they praise it. Another hint: most hospitals don't use anesthesia still. Imagine cutting your genitals that way, and tell me America isn't barbaric toward its male infants (who become the men you prefer).

Here is a link to an older video where no anesthetic is used:
www.youtube.com/watch

Here is a newer one with anesthesia is used, but that baby still cries, because the pain management is not complete:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAsfa1sqiLY

I hope those put a strong mental image in your mind of what men endure for the "pleasure" and "preference" of women. This is what your preference demands, as almost no intact adult man will have the procedure done, and is why it's forced on helpless infants. This is America. This is mutilation.

You falsely assume what I think or claim. You don't know my thoughts.

I'll clue you in on my actual opinion: I think *both* are oppressed fairly equally, and that one is hidden more than the other. I think that America treats its citizens as cattle, and little more.

I'll reiterate that it's simply that men do not have rights to their own bodies in America. That is indisputable due to circumcision being the preference here, and being performed on minors without any consent. My statement is that such actions are wrong and indefensible, especially when done to an infant without good cause, even if assumed to be preventative. Women *DO NOT* have to deal with that, and any guy who claims a girl has "an ugly pussy" is summarily ignored as a "simp," "incel," or "gay," while a woman can treat a man as disposable because she "ain't gonna suck no turtleneck dick." That's a real comment I have heard and read.

Anyone who argues for cutting males and defends women is hypocritical and clearly has their head stuffed very far up the anus of American indoctrination.

[Asker]

Guys make comments about women’s bodies all of the time. Also no men and when aren’t equally oppressed, that’s like saying black and white peoples are equally oppressed. Women are oppressed because of the way society has been since the beginning of time. Society as a whole judges woman more, pats then less, and they are the main victims of rape, kidnapping , and domestic violence. Your saying men are opéreles for women having a preference for something that most men in America have. Why wouldn’t I have a preference for what I know? If most of the men in America had piercings on their nipples and I had a preference for it would I be wrong? Or are you just upset that women don’t wanna suck on your turtleneck dick ( cause your personality doesn’t seem great , uncircumcised usually isn’t a dealbreaker for most people)

[Asker]

And i equally don’t wanna watch anyone get any type of surgery so no lol. Nothing personal to circumcision

[HeyMikeyLikesIt]

There’s actually a really good documentary on the subject of foreskin and misinformation and stuff that was really informative and eye opening, it answered and debunked several “rumors and myths” about circumcision and how horrifying and damaging that surgery actually is to little baby boys

Honestly the sound those babies make is horrifying

[Anonymous]

We have way more smegma production in our vulvas than they do in their penis so don't let that sway you. If you never wash your pussy it'll stink, same for his dick except its easier to clean. Intact didn't evolve that way by mistake! it's way better with all its bits than butchered for some cult religion or tradition of sexual violence against kids...

[Asker]

This is the first time I’ve ever heard someone mention a girl having smegma. I’ve never experienced it personally so maybe it’s just not as common I don't know lol. Plus Ik a lot of guys who’ve had to get it circumcised later do to complications and they all wished their parents had done it as a baby

[KirstyW]

If it's for a baby, why not just leave the decision up to him, for when he grows up?

[Rainbow_Boy]

As a gay man, I prefer my partner to be circumcised. Since I am an exclusive bottom, I am always the one receiving a dick, so it's a big part of sex for me. If we go directly to anal sex, it doesn't matter as much. However, most men like their cock sucked first, and I don't really like sucking an uncircumcised cock.

[LanaJane]

Circumcised. Makes it look bigger :)

[Bitterix]

What do you thing about Uncircumcised penis... What is your advice to me... I am Uncircumcised

[LanaJane]

don't know it's just one factor

[Rippersavage]

How does circumcision make a guy's dick look bigger? It makes no sense

[QuietRunner]

thanks for liking circumcised

[MarkyMark77]

@lanajane hey i have an anal qeustion for you lol can we chat?

[jenna92]

I like circumcised

[LiamSawyer]

One thing to consider is a recent study done in the UK proved that women with an uncircumcised partner have a 49% higher chance of getting uterine cancer.

[Tara89]

bullshit

[Asker]

Damn, good to know

[RickPen]

I believe you refer to cervical cancer, and that's patently false. HPV is the greatest cause of cervical cancer, and having unprotected sex with infected partners continues spreading the virus. The choice is to wear a condom (painless and more protective), or cut up a penis (usually at a young age) and suffer with problems (even if they're mild or unknown) for life.

[Agape93]

That is my preference.

[gymfit]

do you like cut cocks too?

[Agape93]

Cut ones are my preference. Uncuts are a deal breaker sex wise

[gymfit]

love your nickname... living in Greece? i m in UK

[Agape93]

Nope, USA.

[gymfit]

would love to meet. it would be so fun with my 8 inch cut one

[Agape93]

Not interested.

[Agape93]

Plus on poppy’s question earlier, you said it was 7.5 inches.

[Rippersavage]

Damn, girl be taking notes😄

[Agape93]

Of course. Lol

[Asker]

Same unless I know the person rlly well and we have an emotional connection long before I know their uncircumcised

[Agape93]

That’s good on you. It’s a nonstarter for me.

[0112358]

Women are most likely to like what they grew up with.

From what I've seen women used to uncut are usually more happy with cut, then women used to uncut are with cut, but it can vary.

[Asker]

The i didn’t even know uncut was a thing until a few years ago. I thought babies came out looking like circumcised guys look. Maybe that’s why it’s so hard for me to get over the look of the uncircumcised penis😅

[sheikalana]

Circumcised.

[TCredo]

i'm bi and often find circumcised ones more visually appealing

[richa69]

Personally I like uncircumcised

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Can i ask why?

[richa69]

I like to play with uncircumcised that's why 😅😉

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Yes, but why, i see evry where that in all porn is promoted the circumcised D olso in the sex shops they sell all the time circum cised D. So from where this preference for uncircumcised? That what i don't understand

[Asker]

All preferences are valid so you do you 👍

[richa69]

Yeah it's my personal opinion I don't know why I like uncircumcised but I like that's it

[MarkyMark77]

@richa69 how do you play with it? what makes uncut more fun to play with?

[Alexandrubaschet08]

@MarkyMark77 the skin maby

[richa69]

Yeah I like to play with the fore skin

[Jessie91331]

Cut is better, usually cleaner and tastier... also healthier... but in the middle of the act, doesn't really matter.

[Asker]

Tastier? Do uncut ones have a stronger taste?

[Jessie91331]

really depends on the guy. Just lots of dirt, sweat, get in the fold... can taste nasty. Also one of the reasons for cervical cancer, dirty dicks.

[MarkyMark77]

@Asker have you tasted a penis at all yet lol?

[Asker]

@MarkyMark77 no but i assumed if the guy is clean they would all have a similar taste

[Quidthonian]

I prefer the circumcised look and feel. It is cleaner and healthier. However, I can achieve that effect without the operation. There is a method which allows the glans to be exposed without the need to cut off the foreskin. This option allows me to recover to the uncircumcised look at any time I wish.

[Asker]

Smart

[MarkyMark77]

interesting question. from a girls perespective do you think a circumsized or uncircumsized penis looks better?

[Asker]

Honestly circumcised but I mean the appearance isn’t what I’m attracted to it’s the guy attached to the penis I’m attracted to 😂

[MarkyMark77]

@Asker yeah that makes sense. have you seen either one in real life? what all have you done with a guy so far?

[nudeNhorny]

circumcised is more clean and look better

[Nachowedgie]

There is no difference in cleanliness if you're not a lazy slob who doesn't shower

[Curiousnesshmmm]

I think it depends on the country you’re from. American girls probably like circumcised ones better but in most other countries girls I think prefer uncut. Girls say they like as it gets hard and the head is revealed I think. I have a big head so I like that mine is usually always showing

[Asker]

Do they prefer it or is it their only option?

[Curiousnesshmmm]

I’m just going by what women say on here since the question here asked a lot. Mine is strange because its like a half cut. But I e had 3 girls tell me mine I’d beautiful looking. Not sure why or how but

[Asker]

Half cut? Hm interesting

[mrgspoter]

I think it's like this, it's better for a man it's protected it sometimes but it's also maybe cleaner but I think I'm glad I have not had mine taken away for no reason. I think it's choose thing make people believe they get less to decide for themselves maybe.

[hknmhmn4]

I was circumcised when at 6-7, it’s not common at all in the country I live in, but I think it doesn't matter to be circumcised or uncircumcised

[offstagejeans]

Well I'm uncircumcised and I have no hygiene issues and I have to say that the fact that there is potential for hygienic disasters seems to mislead women that have no experience in the matter. Uncircumcised and fully erect the difference is small enough that most women wouldn't even know the difference. You know who does though? ME! And I can't express how lucky I feel to have had parents that didn't have my shit cut off.. I think it's a pretty unnecessary practice with some pretty unfair outcomes..

[Bitterix]

I am Uncircumcised... What is your advice to me... But my foreskin is very tight

[gymfit]

i am cut too and so far all girls and women liked it more

[Veryhornymexican]

I have no idea im not gay and im uncircumcised but i wash it very well and i dont have problems with it.