My boyfriend left me because I used onlyfans. I didn't cheat on him. Why did he do it?

Question

I never cheated on him. Is it a crime to use Onlyfans and earn money? Why is he such an unsympathetic man?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

On OF, did you remove your clothes and allow others to see your boobs, pussy, and ass? If so, that is not a crime but that's a stupid question to ask. That means nothing.

If you exposed your naked body to anyone who paid for the opportunity, maybe he feels that you devalued what he thought was intimate and to be shared only between the two of you. Maybe he feels you took the easy/lazy way out to earn money instead of getting a real job. Maybe he thinks that you are only one step away from being a prostitute. Maybe he decided that any woman who would do this would not be a good role model for his future daughters. Maybe he was thinking that you might be The One for him but he now realizes those thoughts were a mistake.

Mr_twoface · Accepted Answer

You just had different views on whether OF is cheating. There is nothing wrong in what you do if you feel comfortable with it. Just find a boyfriend who is in line with your choices of earning money.

I personally wouldn't have left the girlfriend if she was on OF or a pornstar if we are compatible in other areas and loved each other. I wouldn’t be OK to share nor you to share openly where the extra earnings come from to friends and family but that would be the least of our problems 😉

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Because using or creating porn within a relationship is cheating.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Obviously he came to his senses... And not before time too.

Gent207-2 · Answer

You two clearly don't share the same sexual and personal values

boggboss · Answer

I would probably break up with my girl if she used onlyfans ot somthing I want in a relationship

ThaMaskedMarvel · Answer

Because he doesn't like you sharing your body with strangers; he feels that only he should see your body in those ways.

AviatorTom · Answer

You and he obviously have different opinions about showing off your body to random men. He views it as disrespectful, you don't. It's good he broke things off.

JacobJordan · Answer

We told you women that no man wants an onlyfans girl. But you didn't want to listen. Why should he be sympathetic. You can get a job as a grocery stocker or a burger flipper or a dishwasher or a thousand other jobs that require zero skills to get into you made the conscious choice to be a whore online. You choose to expose yourself to billions of people. You choose to show the world something only the man (or woman) in your life should see. You destroyed your relationship.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Onlyfans girls are cheap cunts. No one with a minimum of class will tolerate them as ''their'' girl. Get yourself a substandard male cheapo instead - and be happy with him.

sheikalana · Answer

Were you on OF without him knowing?

ColHathi · Answer

I agree with Mr_twoface, though for me, I don't think I'd be able to handle my partner doing onlyfans while we'd be together ^^ So to me that would effectively be cheating.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I'd love a girlfriend who did OnlyFans

hellothere90 · Answer

He's not comfortable with his girlfriend selling her body for money. It's his preference. Just move on and find someone who doesn't care about onlyfans. Simple as that. Sex workers can find love and marriage too.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Using only fans is cheating.  You're the unsympathetic one.

soe11 · Answer

Let him go, he is not deserved for you dear.

DrPepper12 · Answer

This is BS. Sex work IS work. No shame, no morality, no judgements. So many conservative prudes out there. If my daughter was doing OF I would hope it's a bridge to something more meaningful but if that's her career, so be it. It's not my life. WTAF?

PetiteMisSmooth546 · Answer

Well you are putting your body that was supposed to be his out there for everyone to see

JHAYES317 · Answer

You did cheat on him you shared nude photos with other men…

Alex-Snow · Answer

He sounds like a jerk and should have talked to you about it. Did you tell him about it or did he find out?

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Personally I have never used Onlyfans, from the information I have gathered on the subject I wouldn't mind dating a girl who does Onlyfans as long as she wasn't fucking other guys. However, if a girl u was dating was considering starting an onlyfans I wouldn't support her idea.