Do women sexually need men more than men sexually need women?

1. Women cannot get a substitute for a penis, while for men anything tight and wet works (for example another guy's ass)
2. Women cannot reach their pussy from the same angle as a man can, and men also have bigger fingers. So a guy will always do a better job than they can do to themselves. But in the case of men, most of them say that nobody can give them a handjob better than what they can do themselves.
3. Women overall desire a connection with another person while a lot of men can just buy themselves a sex doll and that's all.
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  • Not really, depends on the individual. Its certainly a lot more harder for men to get sex than women, that really is it. However women also face slut shaming which prevents them being fully open about sexuality. If sexual dynamics didn't disproportionately favour women and there was no slut shaming. There would be no difference. Sex is natural. Both genders carve it equally.

    Men also desire strong connection, that's why sex is better in relationship. Its just during casual sex men don't make enough effort to satisfy women. That's why frequency of orgasms increases for women during relationships.

  • 1. Never heard of a dildo? and insertion isn't necessary, oral etc, or fingers.
    2 not all women want bigger/more inside themselves all the time. And as for someone else doing a better job than you do for yourself, that can only happen if you are guiding them to what you personally like/enjoy, and how can you know that if you don't explore for yourself?
    3 a connection doesn't require sex, or even an opposite gender or anything of the kind. there are plenty of women who are just as happy as guys to have 1 night stands etc.

    • Yes, dildos are popular, but most women agree it won't replace a real penis

    • This is why it is a substitute, just like guys using a hole in a cantalope.
      They exist for the purpose of satisfying women's needs that are not being met for whatever reason, and have been doing so for thousands of years
      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dildo#History

    • But they would still choose a real penis, while for men it does not matter where they stick their willies

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Thats laughable. The million dollar prostitution industry involves men paying women for sex, not vice versa.
    As for your second point, it is a scientifically proven fact that most women orgasm more quickly, more easily, and more often from masturbation than from sex.
    As for the last point, that actually refutes your argument. Men's sex toys are designed to resemble women, but women's most common sex toys - vibrators - aren't designed to look like men.

  • Well I have a high sex drive. But that’s down to the specific man that brings it out in me. I just can’t get enough of him. Other than that I wouldn’t be hungry for it 24/7 like men claim to be, but it would be preferable every so often, definitely. The only thing is, I can’t do casual sex, so the emotional need outweighs the physical need there. But in a relationship I can’t get enough.

  • May I introduce you the greatest invention known to man... a vibrator. Women do not need men to reach an orgasm. In fact a good chunk of men have no idea how to get a woman to reach an orgasm.

    • But all women prefer real penises over vibrators

    • Yeah not sure that true. First of all not all women like penises so there is that. Also not all penises are created equal. I've had real penises that couldn't compare to my vibrator. And considering how women are a lot more selective over who they have sex with it seems men need women a lot more.

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  • I sort of get what. you mean. For a man any pussy is good pussy but for us girls although it easy to get cock a lot isn't worth having

  • You forget a woman doesn't need penetration by a penis to feel pleasure which basically makes your theory's about women needing men.

    Also there are theory's that when we can develop the equipment needed a woman's egg can be fertilised with genetic material from another woman. And because this will use just X chromosomes it will produce a female offspring.

    • Yeah I honestly think this is a fake pink account & the person's really a guy. If he was female then he would know that most women derive the most pleasure and orgasms from clitoral stimulation, not penetration

    • @mistixs after reading many of "her" replies, I agree that she's a he.

  • No. Not even close. The longer we do without, the more hungry we get. The longer they do without, the less they care.

    • Exactly. It's not at all a physical need for women, it's just a hobby or chore they might enjoy every now and then, but they certainly wouldn't give it to a man for free otherwise it would be rape.

    • @ActiveSh1tter I think it's an acquired taste. There's no doubt women like orgasms from oral, which was pretty rare even 50 years ago. Knowledge and hygiene changed that. But id the supply dries up, they will forget about it.

    • I think they might enjoy orgasms from oral as well as any other kind but it's the same way they might enjoy painting their nails. It's not something they fantasize about like men do nor something they place importance regardless whether it's in a relationship or casual.

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  • I strongly disagree with #2 the hand job part. My wife gives amazing hand jobs. She uses different strokes & techniques some times two hands. Sometimes she will lay next to me and kiss my nipples to turn be on even more.

  • Some men want a connection with another person as well, it's not just women.

  • You forgot farm animals.

  • Oh wow okay 👌 this is such a trash question

  • Men, on average , have sex drives many orders of magnitude higher than women... why? testosterone is why as well as brain wiring. My loss of sex drive , I think mainly due to fighting off depression, as well as drop in hormones from age , is what i consider to be a huge blessing , esp as a single dad , which = celibacy. The vast majority of women would be more than happy being celibate their entire lives

    • Where did you get your info from? Are you a woman to know that most women would love a celibacy? Because in this sex-obsessed society women wouldn't even agree to waiting with sex until marriage. So celibacy would be a torture

    • I very much doubt you are female , " celibacy would be a torture " , no , not for a woman. Most women would not be bothered in the slightest , and this info comes from the vast majority of woman I know.

  • no they don't

  • Women don't need sex in the first place. Only men do. Most women would be much happier never seeing a single dick for the rest of their lives, in fact most women find dicks frightening and ugly.

  • what all women want is the drug called attention. If sex was so important to them they wouldn't hang out with gays in order to get their narcissistic supply of attention and drop off their emotional garbage. All this without having to offer anything in return.

  • Its up to the individual , some cope quite well without the opposite sex...

  • You are quite the idiot.

  • I don't *need* a penis. I don't need to be penetrated I can just get off by rubbing my clit and be satisfied for the most part

  • Sounds like a guy asking this question

    • You are literally everywhere dude

    • Thanks 😎

  • I don't need a man for pleasure..

  • Lol not true... I can't substitute a girl with a toy or a boy. I'm straight

  • I think you are underestimating the amount men value emotional intimacy. There's no replacement for a woman. Not in my book.

  • I believe so my ex-husband told me but I wanted too much sex I believe in at least at a minimum an orgasm a day and even that is really sad

    • I like you already 😄🤣

    • Lol well it's totally Happy tree Friends I love sex and I'm addicted to it it was partially the reason we separated because I also do not believe in being unfaithful so I shouldn't have to masturbate 10_20 times a day when I could be having dick lol

    • So we are on the same boat then 😋

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  • No they dont need men

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