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Do you expect some sexual activity on a first date?

Do you expect some sexual activity on a first date?
A new user posted a question about the expectation that a girl "put out" on a first date. I think that a small percentage of young people expect that but a big majority would think that's a horrible idea. So. . . tell me what YOU believe is appropriate for a first date with you.
At most, it is appropriate to hold hands on a first date!
Vote A
At most, it is appropriate to have a simple kiss (no tongue action) at the end of a first date!
Vote B
At most, it is appropriate to have a passionate (French) kiss on a first date!
Vote C
At most, it is appropriate for a guy to fondle a girl's boobs and. or butt on a first date!
Vote D
At most, it is appropriate to give and receive a hand job on a first date!
Vote E
At most, it is appropriate to give and receive oral sex on a first date!
Vote F
It's appropriate to have PIV sex on a first date!
Vote G
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  • Gonna go with option two. A first date should end with a kiss if it goes well, but if it goes a lot further than that it would take me by surprise.

  • No. At the end if the date went really well, a kiss is the most I would want

  • I am not sure if I would actually want to have sex that soon, but I would feel insulted if she didn't at least offer to considering how likely it is that she has had sex that soon with previous partners.

    I dont want to waste my time, money, or emotions on a girl who needs to wait 3+ weeks to decide whether or not I am good enough to consider having sex with when that same girl knew almost instantly that some guy she met at a club/party or on tinder was good enough to sleep with.

    • So you only date girls who you know are Easy Louisey?

    • I think most girls have been easy on at least a few occasions.

  • Depends how well it goes

  • I don't expect or want anything on a first date haha

  • I wouldn't expect it on a first date, sure its easy enough to sleep with someone on the first date I rather get to know her better. Just dont expect it to last too long, I do have a limit.

  • I’ve had it happen once or twice but I never “expected it” or continue to expect it. It just happened. I don’t even expect a kiss or to make out. Whatever happens, happens. Just don’t force it. That’s all I gotta say. and that goes just for a kiss too.

  • No, first date is meant to get to know each other. Unless you just want to have one night stand.

  • You've listed a set of principles up there and principles are a broadsword where a scalpel is needed. They're not pliable and adaptable enough. Better just to play it by ear. You could hit it off with your date in the first couple of hours and be madly in love, I've seen it happen and you'll be dying to get to bed with each other but your principles say no can't do more than hold hands for the first couple of dates. She's gonna take that as rejection and you might torpedo your chances at a good relationship. If going to bed on the first date feels right then go with it. You're heart knows more than your head

    • You severely over-interpreted my question.

    • It explains it perfectly. Play it by ear is the message here.

    • All of life must be played by ear but most of us have some general rules and principles that guide us. The rules we have are tools that we use, not something which takes and holds us as prisoners.

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  • No and if he tries I'm sending his ass back homw

  • As much as I like and enjoy sex I have to be honest, if a first date leads there I'm probably not going to ask for a second date.
    I actually enjoy getting to know someone, as well as the chase.

  • I don't, but it happens.

  • What's PIV?

    • Penis in vagina, or what is sometimes ineptly called penetrative sex, to distinguish it from oral sex, hand jobs, anal sex, etc.

  • No exactly. I really want to love a girl all of my heart undoubtedly, preciously and genuinely that's why, sexual fantasies have never come on my mind at my first date. Sex takes just one or two hours but LOVE goes until your death throughout your life, unless you're lustling or fantasizing over her. My priority always will be love and being insightful then I'll move on sex. After marriage sex is the best choice of me.

  • Honestly, as a guy, I would want to be gentleman and not go beyond a simple kiss. Well, that is the norm. That is what is expected. But, I think in this case the girl decides if the kiss is enough for the first date or not. If you have gone to drop her home after the date and you kiss her and she calls you inside her house then well...

  • super conservative virgins of gag strike once again...

  • A simple kiss on the cheek is all I might expect

  • Just a simple hug.

  • These are actually two different questions. People can do whatever they like, but personally, I would not do any of those on a first date. To me, a good first date ends with a hug that is just a bit longer than how you would hug a friend.

    • There is only one question: Do YOU expect some sexual activity on a first date? I am asking about YOUR expectation. One question.

  • Never

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