Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health It shocks me to read on here how many people use lube because I dont know many in person who do lol. My exes and i never needed it for sex nor when i masturbated em. My old friends never mentioned needing to use it with their guys. Is lube just used when the girl isn't wet enough? Or is it for when you’ve gone too many rounds and start to dry out? Or is it just for when you use condoms? Even when my first ex and i used condoms the few times we did, we still never needed lube. I hope we never have to because i’d prob turn up allergic to it or sumn.
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Do you personally NEED lube when it comes to sex/masturbation?
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When i asked about lube, i meant if girls use it on their guys, not themselves. Also, im glad my exes precame a lot and i was always wet so lube wasn't needed. Im not into anal so that didn't even cross my mind when asking this question. I was referring to vaginal sex only. I hate when girls/guys spit on a dick. I’d be turned off and put my clothes back on 😂 i think precum or the girls wetness is the best bet. Glad to see so many are old school and didn't need lube
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What Girls & Guys Said
24 93No I don’t use it or need it , when it comes to sex if I am not Getting her naturally wet then I am doing Something wrong , But I’d be lying if
I said I never used it , only time I used
It on a girl was to get her up the butt , but it’s easier just to get her naturally wet , Stick it in her then get her up the butt lol
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Masturbation I've never used lube, never had to. It's really easy, but I've noticed when other people touch me it's harder for me to get wet. Maybe I'm nervous I don't know. I'll probably need lube when I'm ready to take the next step.
Yea you're just nervous
I never had sex (technically) so I can't answer that.. But with masturbation.. I never used it.. I used lotion a few times, but it was annoying rather than helpful.. 😂
Lmao
You already know Desii.. 😎👉
I have to qualify my answer based on what we were doing. When she jacks me off, she uses some saliva, and my own pre ejaculation fluid to get me wet. When we fuck she is always wet enough. When I jack off, I use Astroglide every time for a smoother feel, and more realistic feeling.
She always gets herself wet 'naturally' when she masturbates.
I hate when people spit
No I make sure she’s nice and wet before I stick it in. Women love for play
Exactly
I never used lube on sex. Unless is going on the 3rd hole is the only place she will.
That is the reason you aroused the female to get her wet 😊.
Mhmm
Not often but sometimes.
Do women use it for themselves or is it just something the guy needs
Usually it’s for the guy, because either his foreplay flat out sucks or he’s getting too eager
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Lol am I wrong?
Usually only time Im okay with it is if she needs it but I don't really like lube.
@agape93 had exactly same conversation at lunch lmao. So true it’s that porn watching type that drills for oil and that’s it.
@ChrisMaster69 It to me is like some spraying oil on the penis and it's more a distraction.
I don't need it, but there is some awesome stuff out there with some heat and/or other sensations involved.
Ahh didn't realize
I don't care, but if I need it then I have some available.
Usually, after my period I’m rather dry although aroused and horny. Lube can help for having a good penetration without being sore after.
Dont u like being sore tho
Being sore there is no fun.
I’ve never used lube. As long as I'm fully turned on then, I'm good. My fountain hasn't run dry yet 🤣. If you know what I mean 😏.
Right 😂
As she is getting older we use lube now but it's new.
Oh i see
They rushing things. No foreplay. Some call it oral. But either way it would get the mainly the girl ready for sex. No need for lube.
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Nope.
Good
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For guys it has more to do with being circumcised or not. One of the foreskins functions is to keep the penis glans lubricated. So I would assume the guys who require lube are more often than not the guys who are also circumcised.
That makes sense. But my circ ex never had to use it. But i guess i understand the majority may
Not all cut guys need lube as not all circumcisions are the same. Even a slight difference in how tight it's done can make a huge difference in whether lube is needed or not, and scar placement also can play a roll.
No not really
I used to use it for anal but not anymore
U rawing even in anal?
Spit n my pussy juice works for it hehe
I've never used lube... the hell? Just make the girl wet the old fashioned way with the foreplay or eat her out then dive in.
Exactly
It’s better to use lube otherwise the friction will be uncomfortable.
I don't know we went raw from 10a Saturday til 2am Sunday. He seemed fine 😂 i think i was wet enough
Most women can’t stay wet for extended periods of time so it’s always a good idea to stock up.
I’ve never used lube before.
Same
I like lube for anal, it's more comfortable for her too.
Waterproof lube is also great for sex in a shower or tub.
Oh yea i dont do anal
yeah, vaginally, waterproof lube is good stuff since you lose moisture in water and allows friction. I'll always recommend it. For anal play, aside from penis, you can lube up butt plugs and stuff to make it easier to drop those in :)