Do you prefer a Dominant partner or a submissive partner in bed and/or dating?

I am pretty typical and old-fashioned and want him to take the lead.
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  • Wow! You're beautiful AND submissive. I'm a Dom and I'd love to put you through your sexual paces. Follow me and we can chat.

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  • This answer should easily say, but I know that me personally I'm not a dominant guy by nature, I wonder if it's either I need higher testosterone levels or if it's because of my parental upbringing or if it's just in my genes. because I know me personally I've always hated the gender-role that guys have to be the initiators and always be the one to make the move, ask a girl out first.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I prefer him/her to take the lead but if they aren't getting me where I need to be I have no problem taking over 😁

    • Amen

  • Dominant woman
    Submissive man, although I would switch with him

    • Iike it

    • Awwww that's the best combination both switching. I'll be more sub than dom though

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  • I'd rather play the submissive part, I'm quite shy and feel like that works better for me.

  • @mstaniauncensored That is nice, and several of the few I have loved, are very much, like that! Comfortable dresses, nice things, and when loving, she is quite modest, and wears soft and comfortable things, that cover her.
    After a while, getting to know each other, she relaxes, a bit, and trusts me, a bit more, and then more!
    Every one, that was 'unsure' and 'submissive' at first, just needed trust, and safety, to be who she is, and do what she loves, knowing she isn't going to be judged!

  • I'm a virgin so a girl who likes to be dominant would be great, dont ask me to lead, I have no idea what I'm doing lol

  • I prefer that she's as dominant as possible, mean, cruel and arrogant:)

  • I am more of a dominant kind.

    But yeah at times I let the woman take the lead if she is older than me or sexually more aroused.

  • Dang! Well, I would personally take turns if asked. It would really be a mood rather than a style.

  • I would prefer a submissive female partner. I like the sensible girly girls. Not clingy girly girl or rude overwhelming obnoxiously girly girl. But just balanced you know. Yeah.

  • i prefer a submissive girlfriend where sex is concerned, but prefer her to have a mind of her own everywhere else...

  • I am more dominate but I also like
    To switch as well and let her
    Take over for a little then I go back to being dominate 😋

  • I like a spouse who can do both. depending on the mood and setting.

  • I agree with you. :) Although being dominant can be fun in certain situations lol

  • In my relationship my girlfriend is the dominant one.

  • Im more of a dominant so prefer a submissive :P

  • I prefer to be dominant, so i like a submissive girl.

  • I am dominant person and i like submissive partners

  • Me too

    • It's cute and amazing when guy take lead and I do as he want

    • That one piece is 🔥

  • I'm dominant but her pleasure is priority and she trusts me so it's a perfect combination for us. She lets me do anything I want to her because what I want is to find new ways for her to cum.

  • Same as you honestly

  • I prefer a switch. Sometimes its really fun for her to take the lead and others i will. Variety is the spice of life.

  • Mostly I want a submissive partner. I love the feeling that it gives me.
    Still to switch on occasion can be fun. I never submit to the same point I make my partner submit, but still fun.

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