Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Do you think girls are less "horny" than men or are they just better at hiding it?
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Its often believed that girls are more interested in having a relationship than just sex, which can be true but I have seen a lot of evidence on the contrary as well...
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It's comparitives so I doubt you'd ever know much soon anyways... you'd have to study the brain and calculate the probabilistic models and probabilisties probabilities I guess...
It depends on the guy that she is attracted to for one thing. Also the age of a woman in her sexual prime is totally different than a man in his sexual prime. I personally believe that women become more sexual and comfortable with sex when they are around 35.
Basing my opinion on nature, and how most matings we would consider as rape, I'd say women are less prone on getting horny than men.
But considering how we were built and the existence of a reward system, I'd also imagine that it would be pretty much the same.
Sex is a drug, and she's the dealer. Once you get hooked, it becomes a currency as she makes it scarcer. Of course there are exceptions, but that's the general picture.
I'm picturing the scene in The Empire Strikes Back, where Vader says to Lando, "I'm altering the deal. Pray I don't alter it further." Lol
Obviously it varies person to person but I think the difference is just women are more selective than men.
Girls are very much just as horny as the guys are, they just are more selective about who they talk about it to because of slut-shaming.
But those gals are no angels! Mind are just as dirty. 🤣
I think on average they are less horny and that their horniness is directed towards a smaller % of people.
Depend on the person sex drive, i get horny easily if its with the right guy.
We're better at hiding it
We are better at hiding it.
I'd say the same if you are both sexually compatable.
If you are not satisfying them in bed, then they are gonna seem to have a lower sex drive, if you are satisfying them, they will hardly ever say no. That's my experience of it anyway, my ex did have some wonderful qualities that I married her for, unfortunately sex wasn't one of them and unfortunately, not a trait she felt she needed to work on. My sex drive suffered, eventually the passion ended and then we separated, we ended up not having any sex for the last 2 years of our 12 year relationship and I never really missed it. They talk about women faking orgasms, well I learnt with her that men can quite easily manage it too!..
I actually think they're far more horny than men, just much better at hiding it
Girls connect emotionally.
Guys connect physically.
This isn't to say guys don't have emotions, but the whole dymanic is a basic difference between the two genders. Yes, there are two.
Once a girl feels some kind of emotional connection they surely can turn into a sex goddess.
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Rollo knows much about women, and the man-woman dynamic.
Mmm I know a lot say it’s the same but... I don’t know, I’ve herd some women can’t feel that desire without being in love or something
I don’t think we’re “less horny”, but we do get horny less frequently. Different things.
Honestly I’m not even sure if we get horny less frequently because I know that a lot of girls hide it (myself included). Guys are way more open and vocal about it. Many girls even deny sexual advances as a way to be respected even if she’s horny as hell 😂
Ah I see
That's a good distinction, and I think it's accurate. However, being horny less often is in a very real sense being less horny overall.
Yes, studies have shown that girls have lower sex drives than guys on average. However, female sex drive varies more than male sex drive which confuses the issue.
They are the same.
But guys turn them off easier.
I think it's both. They are less hornier (we have over 10 times the amounts of testosterone) and they are therefore better at hiding it.
Yes females are less horny than males, no it's not an opinion, literal medical science has confirmed this, testosterone is a thing, don't blame us we didn't make the rules, everyone with a brain already knows this, everyone saying "more" or "same" is wrong, next.
It's the same, maybe even more, but they are better at hiding it.