Do you think I have a chance?

[Anonymous]

Hey, I am back at it again 😂 Since your bored kind souls like to listen to me and give me your honest opinion and advice. I love you strange men.

So I have ended the things with my fuckbuddy like 3 weeks ago. I really couldn't take it anymore, I was having a bad time, feeling unsatisfied. The problem was that the fucker would make love with me, yes love, not just fuck. Would cuddle, would stroke me, look for me under the sheets, hug me (spooning), slow kisses lying down... Etc. Things fuckbuddies don't usually do, cmon. He said he does it like that. He like to cuddle a bit before and after the sexual intercourse (which was starting to be great sex right when I ended it... He even found my bean after all this time and no one ever bothered before...) But would do me like that and then tell me to don't think about it, he didn't have any feeling for me, nothing would ever happen... And it hurt me. I was confused and hurt so I had to stop it. I previousky told him before we even started this relationshio that if Id get weird feelings I'd stop it. But now... Oh god. I don't know what I miss more, the sex or being with him. I like to think is the sex since it was getting better, was going to get interesting finally, I wasn't sore anymore after every intercourse... Was getting good, I really miss it and I need more. But after sending him that speech... I don't know if there's any hope for me. He took it well, actually too well. He didn't fight or insist at all, he understood it and accepted it. So now my question is, am I doing wrong asking him for a 2nd chance? I think I just needed a break and I had it. Pls tell me, will this make me look like a worm? 😭

[MossyMan]

It does sound to me like he really does not care for having any more than that.
Which makes me think he will have no problem taking you back for "that".

However, you are totally making yourself into a yo-yo and letting him know he can just play you like a fiddle.
And in that case it sounds like a horrifically bad idea to go back for it when you are wanting more from it than just sex.

[Tstrbrainer]

You might have a chance, but don't do it for now.
Give yourself some time even though you really want it right now.


If you want sex, maybe find another guy.
This guy might take you back, but the problem is since you feel somewhat attached to him, you will be hurting yourself more.

Give yourself some time to overcome your thoughts and feelings about him. After that you can hit him up

[bowenw]

Just ask him for a second chance. You have nothing to lose.

[Asker]

After a whole speech of how bad I was feeling? Hahah I mean he still waves at me and tells hi everytime he sees me but just that, doesn't stop to chat, doesn't ignore me.

[bowenw]

He could be feeling you want your space since you ending things with him. If you explain how you are feeling he may be happy to have you back in his life.

[Asker]

Uk, I don't want to ask for much. I just want sex. I got dumb and I may get dumb again lol But not this month. Now that my parents are away and I'm so lonely.. I just dont want to look like a worm for going back to him when he clearly didn't try shit.

[bowenw]

If he's a good guy like you describe, he won't think you're behaving like a worm. He's likely missing the sex with you too.

[Asker]

Oh yeah, he loves having it with me, that's a truth. I just hope he doesn't back up bc of how I behaved... I don't know i still need to feel more convinced and confident to make a move cuz ik he won't.

[bowenw]

I'm sure you can do it. Christmas is the perfect excuse to invite him to get together.

[priyakigaandme]

By Chance you have a Chance :)

[LegendaryIcon]

actually no, i don't like listening to it

[PeterSmith1983]

Yes you have

[Blaine999]

It's entirely possible that it could paint you as 'needy' or 'desperate' by asking for a second chance. If you want him back that badly though, I say go for it x

[SimpHunter007]

That was a long text of saying that you're a 304

[Asker]

Yet you read it, jackass. So what do you think?

[SimpHunter007]

Not much.

[Asker]

Then shut up. 🙃 Your hateful comments are useless for instance.

[SimpHunter007]

Shut up about what?