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I'm not a virgin guy but would not marry a non virgin girl because I think if a girl can't stop and save herself then she has not quality of a good wife and doesn't deserves me.
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The question is about guys and girl who want marry for the first time for sure widows or divorced women could not be virgin.
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43 16Guys underestimate how hard it is for a woman to remain a virgin.
You are trolling but I decided to throw that out there.
Didn't you even think I could be from another country with another religion and another standards for moral?
A virgin girl doesn't deserve a non-virgin man, especially if he likes her solely for her virginity.
Ok, so that didn't come out quite right... I mean that she deserves better than him.
I was one and I am married.
You think you are George Clooney?
In some way I'm higher than standards in my country.
Then going by your logic you are not a quality husband and she could do way better
I am the quality husband because I'm a good guy and deserve to have good girls.
That's not what your logic says
You don't want a girl who can't reserve herself but you did exactly what you don't want. Think about it! Having sex isn't a crime before marriage. It's how we grow and learn from mistakes like anything we do in life. If you can't understand that then maybe you should repent your sexual acts and become a born again virgin then find a girl like that. But with what you just said you won't have any luck finding a girl that won't laugh straight in your face about this topic. People make mistakes in their lives... you should not punish someone for that. You never know what life threw at them to make them go down their path the way they did. I was not a virgin when I married my husband but now we have been married for 4 years, have an amazing son whose 2 and I have a happy successful marriage all around and I couldn't be happier.
In my religion things are little different than your religion (if you have any) so I'm not living for myself but doing it also for God.
so for God you had sex but it is a sin for a woman? Please explain what religion is that? And no I don't follow a certain religion anymore. I was Catholic but the church is just a mess and I rather have faith in God in my own way.
I'm a Muslim are at least born a Muslim and know having sex outside of marriage is not allowed in Islam but I can't follow Islam in this especial part.
So you want a girl to be pure because of your religion. Yet you didn't follow your own religion in making the choice to become impure. What the fuck are you on?
Well if under christian law you would have married the man that first had sex with the virgin. Now also by law a man can divorce you because you are not a virgin. And then it would be adultery and all who are with you. If you marry and am a good wife all your days and with the one man all your life or his. It would be exceptable, if you also have children. And obstain from preventing child birth.
Michael
Another anonymous troll?
Hope you get an STD from some hooker.
Won't ever happen cause your still jacking off in your mothers basement?
if a non virgin girl doesn't deserve marriage, then a non virgin guy doesn't deserve marriage either.
Wow, you're quite the hypocrite.
That being said, no virgin girl deserves you.
Hypocrite.
You fucking hypocrite.
I assume based on your question and your way of writing that you are from the Arab or Turkish world or similar. I am a Muslim alhamdulillah and let me tell you, I view virginity as important for never-married women *and men* and I do not appreciate the double standard. Nor do any of the women I know. It's unjust.
Yes I'm Turkish and proud to be a Muslim alhamdullah. But I want to follow the sunnah and the Quran.
I noticed in one of your comments you said you were Indian, and other comments you made bothered me, but all of this is between you and Allah. Zina is a sin for men as well as women. So is adultery.
This questions makes me so mad I can't even
I think your question is pretty funny. Just because someone has sex doesn't make them less than anyone else, so if you were interested in being fair, then you wouldn't mind her having had sex, since you did the same thing. Honestly, it doesn't make any sense to me how someone could ever think that way. When you had sex with other girls, you were both doing the same sex act together, so how can you be superior to them or other women? You were both naked, touching each other etc. How does that translate to a woman being less than you, or at least worth less for marriage? I'm a virgin, and I wouldn't even want to date you :p Anyway, I asked a question about this a month ago; you might want to look at the MHO: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1109351-why-can-t-sluts-be-good-domestic-partners
I think it be fine if you don't want to marry a none virgin. My husband felt the same way. Besides may women aren't and find husbands, and don't need you necessarily. My only point would be, if your not religious, I'd reconsider that idea. Because most virgins want to marry a man of their own religion. But, anything is possible. I wish you good luck, hope you find the love.
Wow.
Do you know that a woman can go to a doctor and make herself a virgin again? :P now you can never tell a "good" woman from a "bad" one, poor you
Yes I heard about it and I'm scared. Its really hard to find if she is virgin or she makes herself again its disgusting doctors who doing this services deserve death penalty.
People like you are why the human race is doomed.
I'm a virgin and I think it's disgusting if men think of women like that. Maybe you don't want to marry them personally but don't deserve marriage? That's just degrading, I'm offended he would reduce my worth to that.
Not agree with all you said but happy to hear you save yourself and didn't by hell yet. Maybe God help you to do more right things.
I don't believe in god
Me too don't believe in my heart but always pretend to use the benefits of being a man in my religion.
lol ya, kinda figured.
Why do you deserve to marry a non virgin girl when you had sex too? You are a hypocrite. You are not a virgin.
being virgin or not is not important for a guy.
Right. Because women are unimportant and everything they do is sinful, and men are our masters. What is even the point of woman? Maybe we should all just go to hell to save everyone the bother. I have no idea how you think this is an acceptable way to be and think you hypocrite
1. Hyprocite and number 2. Unless it's a religion thing, it is going to be very hard to find a girl who isn't religious who isn't a virgin and that's what normal girls do. I think this is extremely sexist and rude as is fine for guys to have sex and not for girls. Think about it, she might have only lost it once to a guy who she was sure she was going to marry when she was younger and maybe she genuinely loved him but something happened and it ended, even if she loved you and had only to lost it to the only other guy she'd ever loved, you wouldn't marry her?
Even if she loved me more than everything and I loved her the same way I don't marry her if she had sex before.
It's 2014!! Does it matter if a girls not a virgin when you marry her? You think that you can sleep around and expect a girl to virginal when you meet her? Double standards, and you may end up single with an attitude like that...
Yes its double standard but its how things work in world double standards everywhere.
No it's not how things work , you're a grade a clown
So how would you feel if you find that virgin girl that wants to wait till marriage but she doesn't want you? What if she only wants a virgin guy waiting till marriage, the same in return and is disgusted with you?
Then I would respect her.