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Does Promiscuity Really Make a Girl Loose?

Does promiscuity really make a girl loose?

It's a common misconception that womens vaginas get loose if they are promiscuous but logically this does not make sense, if regular sex makes you loose then women in long term relationships would get loose as well, right? But that's not the case, is it?

My theory is that women who have regular sex, well women who orgasm often will in fact be tighter than women who don't. It's a well know fact that kegel exercises help tighten the vagina muscles and when you orgasm it contracts your muscles therefore keep you tight. To me this makes logical sense, I have had a lot of sex and I am still nice and tight lol

A couple years ago I even dabbled in stretching and fisting, we managed to get his whole fist up there and let me tell you, that is not easy but it did feel amazing!! I was in pain for a few days following but about a week later, I was back to normal.

When women are aroused their muscles loosen up a little to allow the penis to enter, this is normal so sometimes it may not feel as tight but that doesn't mean she is a slut, it means you're doing something right and she is really turned on!

Of course age and genetics play it's part but ladies, the key to keeping your coochie tight is to bang your little hearts out.

Have sex, stay tight!

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think women all have different sizes of vaginas and depending on how big or small a guy is one women is going to be "tighter" or "looser" than others. I do really think it's a misconception to think a women gets looser by having sex with many guys because what if a girl has been with her boyfriend for 2 years and they have sex everyday (hypothetically speaking) for that duration. Wouldn't she be "looser" than a women who is say more promiscuous but sleeps with a new guy every weekend. That's just my theory. And of course if a women uses toys like a dildo or whatever she's going to be more prepped to have sex if that makes sense than a girl who only sleeps with her boyfriend a couple times a week and doesn't use anything.

    • Makes perfect sense.

    • Good point!

    • Good point

Most Helpful Guy

  • Ah... thanks for the take!

    • Thanks!

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  • The ONLY reason many guys say this is by their own experience with women, mainly if they had sex with virgins:

    1. Because she's loose in her morals.
    2. Because she had more than one partner of different sizes.
    3. They feel that one size shouldn't fit all. But often does.

    At the end of they day, people are entitled to their own opinions. To me, man or woman, if your fornicating around it's slutty behavior. But if your okay with it, that's on you and them.

  • Girl 1 has a boyfriend, is faithful, and has sex with him 5 nights a week for a year (260 times)

    Girl 2 is a total slut, and has sex with 260 separate guys in a year.

    Clearly there are some differences - but how does a vagina know the difference between 1 dick 260 times vs. 260 dicks one time each? Answer: it DOESN'T know the difference, because for the purposes of this question, there IS NO DIFFERENCE.

    • 260 different dicks in a year? That's a good effort lol

    • And yes, that's the point.. there is no difference so I don't understand why a lot of men assume that slutty girls have loose vaginas or vice versa.

    • no difference really it doesn't matter how many guys but how much you use it, when women give birth they stay loose for a while and are advised to excercise their muscles to make them tighter, does a vagina loosen over time? i believe yes it does but just like working out , when you are having sex regularly it will become looser but stop having sex for a year and it will be back to its original size.

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  • INCORRECT INCORRECT INCORRECT.
    DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT.

    Guys have no intelligence and have always associated a "loose" vagina with too much sex. Actually how loose/tight you are has MUCH to do with genetics. The tightness is skin elasticity.

    The saying "if your mamma's tight, you will be too" is very true. That is all about genes. Now during sex yes, the walls open up because if they didn't you would get hurt, no matter what the dick size is. However, after it goes back to normal.

    oThe same goes for having babies. If your mother was loose after kids and was before, well you are unlucky.
    But if sh was very tight, she still is. It is skin elasticity, and do not listen to the dumbasses who say it's too much sex.

    I always say if you don't know facts about sex, don't be having it.
    Sex is a lot more than just foreplay and penetration

  • LMFAO.. Having orgasms doesn't make you tighter. Exercise does. The vagina is a muscle. I believe that the vagina works just like any other muscle and can suffer from all the same issues as any other muscle. For example:

    Muscle fatigue: The decline in ability of a muscle to generate force. It can be a result of vigorous exercise but abnormal fatigue may be caused by barriers to or interference with the different stages of muscle contraction.

    This tends to happen after childbirth, or frequent sex with abnormally sizes sex-toys, or penises. Yes.. the vagina can get "loose". "Vaginiplasty" and "Labiaplasty" wouldn't exist if this weren't true. Also, as you get older, your vagina naturally loses it's "elasticity"... mainly after menopause. Look it up if you want. This happens with all your muscles as you get older. It gets harder and harder to strengthen/build and maintain muscle mass.

    The vagina can also suffer from muscle strain (vaginal tearing), Muscle atrophy (vagina naturally losing elasticity when you start to hit menopausal age), etc.

    Women should be doing kegels to maintain tightness.. but, it's not something you have 80+ reps of. Just doing for 10 minutes before bed is basically. You can kegels naturally by just contracting your vaginal walls. I do it all the time. Even as I'm typing this.

    • So if kegel exercises where you clench then release make you tighter and orgasms contract and release those same muscles then how is it not the same thing?

    • Also I was talking about sex, regular sex does not make a woman loose. I'm not talking about sticking coke cans up your vag on a daily basis. Age does affect it but again I am talking about regular sex lol half the stuff you said is irrelevant.

    • Yes. But you made it seem as though women who have regular sex are tighter than the ones who don't.. which is untrue. You naturally so kegels when you pee, poop, cough, sneeze, run.. etc. You naturally contract your vaginal muscles all the time throughout the day. Having orgasms isn't something that puts you at a disadvantage over others (I am speaking on behalf of all my virgin girls and "non-promiscous" girls out there. As mentioned by PLENTY of other guys on this take that would actually be able to tell whether or not a vagina is loose or tight (Not You), the vagina can get loose from regular sex if you do not make an effort to do frequent kegels. Like I said before, the vagina is a muscle and can suffer from muscle fatigue. I typed all of that "irrevalent stuff" so that you can have a better understanding of the vagina and of vaginal loosness and tightness... because I doubt you did any in-depth research on the topic.

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  • I think it depends on genetics my previous boyfriend was 20 years younger and he told me I was tight like a teenager

    • CORRECT! It is all about genetics when it comes to that. You are very right and very spot on. also working that area helps even more.

  • I agree with you. I have been promiscuous in my life and my husband tells me all the time how tight I am. I exercise that area as well. Making sure to keep my pelvic muscles in good order and that way I won't have continence issue when I get older.

  • I don't know if three guys makes me promiscuous, but i do Kegel exercises and I'm informed that I am pleasantly tight.

    • Id say in Europe it's probly more like 10+ is promiscuous at this age / early 20s non and with women guys may think is she interested in sex? and women thinking he is probly going to be clueless? With both guys and girls 10 and the other person's begins to think is there some reason they didn't stick with one of the 10?

  • The vaginal channel is a muscle. It contracts and expands, and can never really become loose.

  • Short answer: no. You're correct that if promiscuity makes a girl loose, then being in a long term relationship would too, but for some reason guys who believe this myth never seem to be concerned about that.
    I think the vagina does loosen (or more like relax) after the first several times you have sex, if only because you're more relaxed about sex in general and more likely to be wet and not tensing your muscles. But it doesn't matter if this happens with one guy or 10. Sex is sex.
    It's also important to remember you can push a baby through your vagina. It's made to stretch more than any dick ever could stretch it, quite frankly. However, childbirth can cause loosening, and I would guess activities like fisting or using really enormous toys could too, if done on a regular basis. So I would be careful with that.

    • of course if it's constantly stretched beyond its limit then it wouldn't be ok but it can be brought back to normal but I'm talking just regular sex. I'm glad there are some women who get what I'm talking about. Best answer thus far.

  • having sex with a penis that is over size than what your vagina can naturally accommodate creates tiny tears on the interior surface of your vagina. over time those tears are repaired with non-contracting scar tissue. essentially, your vagina loses elasticity the same as it does post childbirth. you actually have more than one layer of muscular sheathing that surrounds the vagina. one is contractually controlled- like when you flex your arm muscle. the other is passively flexed. it is thinner and more easily damaged. it cannot be 'flexed' with kegel exercises and once it is damaged it's done. it can only be repaired with surgery. the thinner layer of non flexing muscle is what gives your vagina the tight elasticity and it has a maximum 'tightness' that it can shrink to. just like rubber bands come in different sizes, they can stretch some but they can't shrink. if you stretch them too far they break. just like the elastic tissue of your vagina. going up in size with a male partner may stretch your elastic tissue in your vagina and feel good initially, but you will lose your elasticity just like a rubber band. you can still use your pelvic muscles to clench down but there is a maximum effect that can have if you don't practice. returning to a more normal sized penis then is less pleasurable because your vagina does not snug around the smaller penis like it once would have. that's why shorter, thinner girls are preferred by most men because they are genetically programmed to. a shorter, thinner girl is more likely to have a physically smaller vagina and therefore regardless of elasticity - her vagina will more likely remain sufficiently tight for intercourse throughout her life. 85% of all men have a penis 6 inches or smaller when erect. so the average man boasting more than that is probably lying. often times it can seem bigger if the man is really fit, but it's not. black men get to boast that 85% of black males have a 6.2 inch penis- or smaller. it is a myth that black men have a significantly larger penis than white men. i once saw a Scandinavian man who's penis went down to his knees. we need to dis-spell myths and embrace facts and common sense. it is not 'promiscuity' that loosens vaginas, but rather having a lot of sex or sex with penises larger than your vagina is made to accommodate.

    • I couldn't be fucked reading all that lol if women can get back their tightness after childbirth then a penis didn't gonna do much damage lol

    • i guess it all depends on your definition of 'tightness' but yes after childbirth there is healing but it's kinda off the wall to think it's just as good as it was before childbirth. i know a girl who had to get 75 stitches to repair the damage. sorry but no... a penis over a certain size will cause permanent changes.

    • Many women report being tighter than they were before after being stitched up after childbirth, even when not stiched up the vagina goes back to normal afterwards. I've done extensive research on this subject for a while now.

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  • As the article correctly states, a vagina doesn't get baggy due to sex. The term loose dates far back to a time when people were talking about morals, people. As in loose morals. times have changed, though and it's no longer the big taboo it once was. And thank goodness for that! I've been with a good number of women and the virgins bored me to death, every time.

  • The strange phenomena, everyone agrees that promiscuity doesn't make a girl "more loose" while at the same time everyone agrees that a virgin girl is in fact "more tight"

    Could it be, that people are not admitting the truth only to spare hurt feelings? No way, that would NEVER happen!

    • In what world does everyone agree? Lmao!! have you read these comments? No feelings are being spared.

    • So, according to you, virgin women are not more tight? That's... an interesting perspective! And surely not common!

    • Did I say that?

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  • no it doesn't make her loose. the vagina is essentially a muscle. it expands and contracts. it can be loosened but it requires very large things to loosen it (like a baby's head) but can return to it's previous state over time and/or with exercise

  • Nope. Over-sizing the vag maybe, but not promiscuity.

  • I think the term loose refers more to her morals than her actual vagina.

    • Omg.. why do so many people write the same crap? Read the comments, you will see other people said the same thing and how I responded AND more importantly you will see that a lot of men and even some women are under the impression that frequent, casual sex makes a woman's vagina loose.

    • The vagina is a muscle so that's physically impossible

  • Nice to see someone address this topic with common sense. I always thought those who think this way either have terrible sex lives or get no sex at all. It's just common sense or at least some experience to know how sex works.

  • I've had three babies and I don't feel any different

    • AMEN. IT is because you are genetically blessed. If you are tight, you always will be even after babies. My mother had five, and we went to the gyno and she said, Oh my! your husband must love you! we all started laughing haha. It's genetic, babe and I'm glad you can vouch!

  • Only if she's having frequent sex with thicker than avg. guys. The girth is what the girls body adjusts to. If you always masturbated with a 2" dia, thick dildo than you WILL feel loose to any avg. guy you have sex with.

    Avg. guy by comparison is slightly less than 1.5" dia. dildo.

    Promiscuity (Sleeping around) just makes a girl less desirable (viewed as having low morals) as a GF/WIFE.

    Sure a lot of guys might want to bang a porn-star... but VERY few want to marry/date them.

    • Lol that's not true, thicker cocks don't loosen vaginas. I had a fist up me and managed to be back to normal the next morning. I was in a lot of pain but still back to normal.

    • "Lol that's not true, thicker cocks don't loosen vaginas." Are you for real? I said "Frequently" is the KEY word. a girl that does that WILL get stretched out... that's a FACT. 1 or 2 times a month won't do it. ALL the girls I've been with have been sore the first few times and their body except, got use to the girth? stretched out to where they were ok. A girl that STOPS having sex with a Thick dick/toy... will get back close to normal in a few weeks.

    • If it's a fact then please show me proof.

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  • The "loose" logic was taken out of context decades ago. It originally referred to morally loose, not mechanically loose.

    • But many people believe that promiscuous women are "mechanically loose" as you can probably see by the responses but im glad there are some people like you that know better.

    • The real key to having a tight one is to be born with one. A girls size being genetic is no different than a guys. We both vary.

  • Because I always read weird studies, I can tell you that apparently a woman does indeed get loose, but it "fixes" itself after a few days.

    I guess it's a non-issue in relationships because the average is like twice a week, so even if that were enough to become loose, it's fixed in the meantime.

    That also alligns with my own experiences. Sex usually would hurt my ex a bit. But in time we were especially active, it did not anymore. Until we did not have sex together for a week. Then it would start hurting her again.

    • Omg lol that's not how it works

    • hmm, maybe you are right. I did read that in an article tho. But now I only find board posts who claim that and all articles google pops up say it just completely re-tightens after the arousal is gone. I guess that makes more sense anyway. Well, I was led to believe it's true because it did provide an explanation for the phenomenon I experienced myself (the same those board posts talk about). If I manage to find that article, I'll update my comment.

    • WRONG. not a "few days". If you are having sex, the walls go down within 24 hours or less. Now if it's after childbirth, the walls will go down after a few weeks. how loose or tight you are is ALL GENETICS. please talk to an actual gynecologist instead of the internet

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