Girls be for real do you like having your man rub his penis on your vagina? is this considered teasing and a turn on for you?

[Anonymous]

I’m simply trying to understand

[bobalife]

Normally I don’t like answering these but for simply trying to understand.. for me, it’s both, it drives me crazy tbf 🙊

[Asker]

Thank you. I’m sorry if I’m overthinking this ik porn is not real either i was only asking to create the spark and butterflies in this scenario you know? So thank you kindly for reply I’m sorry if this is a ridiculous clique question I wanted to hear some ladies thoughts

[bobalife]

I appreciate you for being thoughtful and respectful! Nuh don’t be sorry, everyone gets curious about sex generally. Not sure about others, but at least for me is a good seduction and the emotions you wanna create. Most importantly just focus on the girl to see if she likes it or not.

[Asker]

i would say this is true and is advice i been given from other ladies too Look at her body reaction and body language. Communication too Yea, thank you for understanding and knowing I’m not obsessed about sex i was only asking if this makes her wet you know? i am glad i was respectful in your answer. i only asked anonymously to Avoid the obvious answers of “sex isn’t as this.” i am glad it definitely could be fun for her too in seeing this happen importantly Hope this all makes sense

[bobalife]

I can tell you’re genuinely curious than most people women and men who just wanna get an easy, weird getting off post lol. Your welcome, I hope it helps and you both can connect deeper with your intimacy :) every person is diff and the most important is finding out what pleasures her by testing it out

[Asker]

This part i agree with, testing it out Yea, definitely intimacy is beautiful isn’t only sex The reason i say i know porn isn’t real because it isn’t and i wouldn’t want you to felt i only asked my question above because of porn. i was asking if this were to happen in real life Would a women get the butterflies and as you say good seduction as we been talking about. Enjoy the teasing herself. I’m genuinely shy 😅 So definitely would need a supportive women as yourself to bring my freaky side out ik Women don’t like guys who are sexual early and everything for example You definitely have a good “freaky.” Playful side about you 😊 Hope you know this. i appreciate your kindness and answer so much! i will take your most important advice from this answer which is to focus on the Lady to see if she likes this You seem to want me to not be then selfish type of guys in the bedroom private setting. Definitely hope not and you know, be good vibes with her. Give her the enjoyment; women deserve to enjoy sex too.

[bobalife]

Yeah intimacy is beautiful. I’m sure she’s lucky that you’ll appreciate and respect her :)

[Asker]

Yea, i appreciate you a lot and i respect you. Hope nothing i say was tmi or too much i would be nervous (as this would be my first time doing this and with her) doing this attempt of teasing her like that Wouldn’t want to accidentally put it in and mess up 😅 Even if she doesn’t want sex, i hope it makes her a little wet down there and even cuddling naked is a beautiful feeling

[bobalife]

Haha maybe a tad, you can DM me if you like. But thanks for being respectful :) are you a virgin by chance? lol

[Asker]

In a way yea i had sex (the girl pretty much r-pe me and SA me) This happen when i was eighteen From college.. We were only meant to cuddle naked It happened.. It was a bad experience though. i am okay, i Don’t need or want any attention for this So i am twenty six and yet to have my first blowjob Sigh So, you’re welcome

[bobalife]

Aw omgosh I’m so sorry, that’s horrible.. you’re a survivor and I’m glad it will be a diff experience this time for you. It’s important to feel safe and have consent. Thanks for sharing 🥺

[ashika02]

@bobalife please follow and dm me now

[Asker]

Seems a girl there needs some girly advice from you if you can 😊 Yes, i am good Honest 😊 i simply don’t tell other girls about this i am a virgin for most parts, as you can tell from talking with me casually i know way to much knowledge to be a virgin 😅 i appreciate your time 🥰 I’m glad I’m not a bad person for wanting my first blowjob fellatio experience Hopefully it be a better experience yea You’re welcome And yea i won’t want to bother you on here at all So it was lovely to talk with you Thank you again for answering my question in the beginning

[bobalife]

@ashika02 I dm you, hope everything is okay?

[bobalife]

@asker I’m glad you’re pretty positive and resilient! I understand it’s personal and you’re not bothering me at all, so I appreciate it a lot more to share this and it’s why I offer you can DM lol. Everyone deserve to feel comfortable and enjoy it. I’m glad you found it helpful and it was good talking to you as well :)