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Any tips for giving oral to a man?

He’s letting me use him as practice and I can’t wait lowkey.. I don’t want him to finish in my mouth but I will let him finish on my face.
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  • My ex gave incredible oral. Her technique was simple:
    First tie down securely.
    Second it's all about ownership. While you have him in your mouth he doesn't own the cock - it's yours. That's not as counter-intuitive as it might sound. If you own it you'll enjoy it more and the more you enjoy what you're doing, the better it is for him.
    Third is the element of surprise. My ex would like with her head on my belly so I couldn't see what she was doing. If you're stroking him gently and then when he's not expecting it you engulf him with your mouth and give a single long, low-pressure sucking of his head it'll fry his brain. Balls too. They can take more than you think and a solid squeeze as you suck him first time is mind blowing.
    Fourth remember it's a marathon, not a sprint. If you just want to make him blow his load then just wank him off. Oral can keep him on the edge for an hour or longer if you're careful, and the longer he's on the edge the bigger the load will be in the end and the more mind blowing it feels. But that's why you need to tie him down and own the cock. He'll resist taking that long to cum. It's natural for him to. But it's your timetable, not his. When my ex's jaw got tired she'd sit up, straddle me into a cowgirl position and make herself cum with me inside, then climb off and go right back to sucking me. Feeling her clench down on my shaft without me being able to move was indescribably erotic and her solution to tasting her own juices was a small bottle of food-grade peppermint essence to stroke over my shaft immediately after she slipped off or a couple of altoid mints in her mouth as she started sucking again. It's a twofold effect: the peppermint means not having to taste your juices, and peppermint oil/essence is highly stimulating on the head of the cock.

    Try that and if he's capable of speech afterwards you weren't going long enough - but he'll enjoy every single moment. Don't be surprised if he proposes afterwards. Or possibly during. The best goal is to have him begging you not to stop for as long as you can.

    For extra fun, after he cums, gently clean him up, then before he's gone soft start again. After all, it's your cock to play with...

    Have fun 😉

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  • So, a whole lot of men have a thing for feet and worn white socks, and he may not be an exemption. However, you are positioned, make sure your feet are shown (whether it being laying on your tummy or sitting on your knee). Make sure to stimulate his G-spot area which is below the balls by licking and playing with your hands, lick and suck his balls, and suck the dick whilst giving it a lot of hand job. Allow it to have a lot of spit/saliva alternatively get some type of oil that you can suck on and stimulate him with (wifey is fine with virgin oil). Suck onto the dick as fast or slow as it is bearable for you whilst at the same time seeing his reaction and emotions. If your hand gets tired and it takes him extra long to come, then you can always ask him to masturbate himself, then focus your attention onto the shaft of his dick and suck his balls and further down.

    Best is to do the stop-hold-technique where just before he is about to come you either hold it tight (not harmful) so it goes down or speeds down, so he gets less stimulated, then you do it all over again. If done correctly, this technique, can give him explosion of cum and is equal to a woman squirting. Your face will be drenched but more importantly, he will fall all over for you.

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  • Sync your hand movements with your mouth. Wrap your lips around his penis when sucking and don't use your teeth. Lick/play with his balls. Alternate between sucking fast and slow and licking. Make it wet and sloppy with your saliva. Be passionate and you'll make his day.

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    • I forgot to mention intense eye contact.

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  • well... don't use your teeth of course, but don't forget to use your tongue. change the pace from time to time, try different things, like sometime to go deep, don't forget to look at him from time to time, and use your hands too.
    also, show pleasure to do that

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  • Sis, here's a few tips that should help make your first time giving head as fun as possible:

    - Start slow, take your time exploring him with your hands and mouth so you both can ease into it comfortably. No need to rush!

    - Maintain eye contact as much as you can - guys love seeing your face while you're doing it.

    - Lick and kiss around the head and sensitive areas at first to tease him. Don't go straight for full deepthroating yet.

    - Use lots of spit/saliva to lubricate your hands as you stroke and massage his shaft. Keep things slick down there.

    - Take breaks to focus your tongue on just the tip/head when he feels extra good. Lick in circular motions.

    - Use one hand to gently fondle his balls while using your mouth - multitasking feels amazing.

    - Listen to his reactions for clues on what he likes - faster/slower/more pressure etc.

    - Make sure to tell him when you're close to finishing so he can pull out and finish on your face like you said. Super hot!

    Have fun exploring each other sis! Communicating and reading his body will make you a blowjob pro in no time. Lemme know how it goes ;)

  • I love that idea " practice on him " , thats what I want someone who just wants to practice on me.

    1 . Go slow , focus on the head , its extremely sensitive , you can build up pace as you go along.

    2 . Change and move , keep varying position , try to keep eye contact where possible.

    3 . Talk , things like " I'm now going to deep thought your massive member " " I just love sucking your cock " " Do you think I'm a dirty slut? While I suck your big cock "

    4 . In between , give that cock a good stoking , use spit for lubrication , make sure he is watching. Make sure you also suck the ball sack , take them right into your mouth.

    5 . Bring him to climax right into your mouth , move right up next to his face and clearly swallow , as this is the ultimate commitment.

    Also , flick on some porn for other ideas prior , and enjoy some " Good family fun " with this guy , and I hope he has a great cock for sucking.

  • Letting you practice on him? What could possibly go wrong here?

    • Don’t know

    • Oh my... you really think this is a good idea for you?

    • Yeah why not? It will help me get over the other guy.

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  • I fear no teeth

  • letting you? if you believe that dump him n find someone less manipulation.

    always have guy wear condom n better not to do oral, ever.

    not give not receive oral.

    • No I told him that I wanted to

  • Yes. Take more than the tip...

  • Lick the space under the foreskin.

  • Watch porn for some ideas. Watch instructional videos. Ask him what feels good and what doesn't. Be sure to tell him where you want him to finish. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

    • Great idea

    • Best of luck.

  • Lucky guy - so I can give better advice, do you know how large he is and whether he shaves his dick and balls?

    • He’s 8in and he’s shaved

    • Does he have low hanging balls? 8" is quick large to start with - is he girthy too?

  • Only the first few inches have the most sensation so you don't need to take all of it.


    Technique can be worked on over time but enthusiasm is key. If it looks like you're enjoying it he will as well.

  • I think a gay man could better answer this but let's see what the ladies say...

  • Give his balls some attention with your hands or mouth, if you can take the whole thing, look up at him to make sure he is enjoying it, throw in a little dirty talk like saying good he taste, make some slurping noises, if you wanna get real nasty spit on it.

  • They to avoid touching it with your teeth. Suck like you're sucking juice off a popsicle. The more suction, the better it feels.
    Jerk off the part that isn't in your mouth.
    Play with it using your tounge.
    Start by licking it all over.
    Play with the head using your tounge and mouth a lot. The head is the most sensitive.

  • Remember eye contact is key

    • Thank you 🙃

    • You're welcome let me know how it goes

    • Sure ok I’m nervous

  • Maintain eye contact.

  • practise practise practise

  • learn about dicks.

  • Just start nice and slow and gradually build speed with your hand. We’re easy I promise

  • Clench on it without using your teeth. Like suck it like you're sucking the life out of his dick.

    • Good teaching.

    • But not so much we're talking hickey bruising. OUCH!!

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