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The first time I did it, I felt really intimidated. I thought it was going to be the hardest thing ever and I wasn’t gonna be able to give her an orgasm. The only experience I had came from the couple of times I had gotten head before… which weren’t good at all. That first time was was from perfect but after a while I got better, and now while I’m not an expert on the subject, I do consider myself pretty good at it.
I don’t wanna make this too long so let’s just go straight to the point:
- Pay attention to the rest of her body: Remember the girl’s whole body has a sense of touch. Tease her and kiss the insides of her legs, belly, etc. While eating her out, grab her hips (which will also give you more stability and control), caress her legs, butt and breasts. If you’re in a relationship, holding her hands can make the experience 10 times better. This last thing will make things feel more intimate and loving, so I wouldn’t recommend it for friends with benefits or one night stands.
- Show how much you’re enjoying it: The girl will enjoy what you do with your mouth but it will be even better if she knows you’re having a good time too. Look at her in the eyes, smile, show you’re feeling hungry and that you’re doing it with passion (don’t exaggerate, tho). This is important especially when you’re going down on an insecure girl or one with no past experiences.
- Take your time: Some girls can reach climax in less than 5 minutes while others will take more than half an hour. Don’t hurry or feel frustrated if it takes too long. Get to know what works for her.
- Pay attention to how she reacts: You’ll probably keep your eyes shut most of time time but be sure to open them from time to time and look at her, or keep them shut but focus on what you hear. You might do something she really likes which will make her moan or move her legs or upper body in a certain way. Once you notice what are the things that drive her crazy, you’ll be able to have better experiences.
- Finger her: Even though the vagina doesn’t have as many nerve endings as the clit, it still is an erogenous zone and you can make her have an incredible time if you play with her G spot while eating her out. Start start slowly and with one finger, then introduce some more. That way she’ll be able to lubricate herself.
- Play with her vulva: The protagonist in oral sex is the clit, however, it’s not the only character. Lick, suck, kiss and play with her outer and inner lips, lick along the vulva, penetrate her with your tongue, etc. Be creative!
Change the speed, pressure and motions: Don’t just stick to one thing. Variety is fun and pleasurable. Some people use the ABC method (“drawing” all the letters with your tongue), others just make random motions. Experiment and see what works better for both of you.
When she’s about to reach climax, stop changing: You’ll most likely notice when the girl is about to have an orgasm due to some signs like her having less control of her body, more moans, heavy breathing, etc. This is when you should stop changing what you’re doing. Changing what you’re doing could actually be counterproductive.
Communication is the key: These tips can work for many girls but remember everyone’s different. What can feel amazing for one may not work at all for the other. Some girls aren’t fans of fingering; others are too sensitive around the clit, so they prefer to be stimulated in other ways, etc. Remember the most important thing is to talk to your partner. Take the time to get to know her body and find out what feels better for her.
IMPORTANT: Don't even think about bitting her unless you've talked about it before and she said it was ok. While some girls do enjoy some nibbling, teeth can be extremely painful for others.
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