Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, does it kill the mood if your girlfriend wants to plan out your first time having sex with her?
thegirlfromthething Guru
I cannot picture myself having spontaneous first-time sex with a new partner where we just escalate a typical makeout session without any prior planning. I would be more open to spontaneity once we’d already had sex, but for our first time after we confirmed that we were both ready I would at least need some time to get on the right form of birth control. I would like to make sure I’m wearing something I like too, even if it’s coming off quickly and he doesn’t care much about clothes or lingerie, because I’ll feel more relaxed and confident with the right outfit. And maybe there would be a particular place we want to go or a particular thing we want to do beforehand. I’d feel more comfortable if I knew I was prepared and sex wasn’t suddenly sprung on me, but would it turn guys off if I wanted to make these preparations before our first time together?
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What Girls & Guys Said
3 40You are single aren't you? 😏
Not at all. My girlfriend and I planned out our first time.
Yes it does sex is better when its spontaneous
No, it is romantic I think, better if it is the Honeymoon though. In Hawaii , yeeeeee Hawwwww
If he is not stupis he may glad of that. Because you prepairing for him
OMG! Way too freaking boring! I mean I hear the needs or concerns and her interests. but other than that come on let's just get this done LOL
yeah
Trust issues
Follow me
What do u envision needs to be planned
No it can be quite hot tbh
I'd have no problem with it.
Not at all
As long as I'm having sex with her I could care less. I'm going to respect her wishes at first but then I'd like to have sex how I want it.
I think it's actually good when considering the first time.
Yes it dies
I made a plan of what positions the first time.
No it does not
Nope
Hell no. I love a woman with imagination
No way someone’s girlfriend would plan that! I mean why would she, if girls find sex as disgusting. They’d be happier not having sex at all.
nah. that'd be fine. BUT don't you watch tv? That's when everything goes wrong and hilarity ensues. haha. So it might not work out the first time or three.