Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?

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For those who don't know, Gentle FemDom (Female domination) is a more gentle, loving, and sentimental version of FemDom. It doesn't have normal FemDom's more painful, humiliating, or extreme aspects.

Because of the emotional intimacy, it's (from what I've personally seen), not purely sexual. All of the couples from Tumblr, Reddit, and Twitter that I've seen who do this are led by the woman--and these women aren't nagging, overbearing harpies. They genuinely care for and love their men!

Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?

I was introduced to this concept by my ex-girlfriend, who suddenly decided to take charge (originally, she was submissive) and called me her "Pet". According to Urban Dictionary, a Master/Pet relationship is more loving and affectionate than a Master/Slave relationship. Neither of us knew the name that Gentle FemDom had; all we knew is it was a more loving and soft version of regular FemDom.

So I was basically her slave, servant, bitch, slut, whatever you wanna call it--but I was cherished and loved. I got on Tumblr and found out what Gentle FemDom was called a couple years later.

I would be lying if I said I didn't miss that. It felt good to not be in control and to let a more assertive woman take the lead (My ex was a bit boyish and aggro). It felt good to acknowledge her as the alpha in a relationship and to be cherished and cared for.

I wanna know what the guys and girls think about the concept of Gentle FemDom. Did anyone here have experiences with it like me? Whether you did or didn't, what are your thoughts?

Clarke498 · Answer

Sounds maybe nice

locutus9999 · Answer

not for always.. but as a funny game count me inn.

nudeNhorny · Answer

very hot, I adore sexually dominant girls

tallcuck · Answer

I like it 2 days of 7

Troychapman10 · Answer

Its a vile way to treat another person to treat them in such a way to strip them them off all respect to degrade them and lower them to something that has no value... is an awful way to treat another human being let alone to someone you love.
to just lower them and treat them like that dehumanise them in love is awful and your supposed to love them yet treat them like that

horndog112 · Answer

I love it and want more

AmazoniaLinux93 · Answer

As an autistic male adult, I need that kind of relationship. I want to do all the cooking and cleaning around the house for her while my future girlfriend will be the one who will lead this relationship for us. I can easily burn out though, but she would take good care of me with all the cuddles and snuggles I need while I will do all I can to make her feel good and happy. I want to call my future girlfriend "mommy" while she can call me "baby." 🥰

daaaaan · Answer

I don't like the gentle part.

Tommcc · Answer

Never had it but strongly desire it. I don’t need or want humiliation but the concept of loving control is hot.

Steadypace806 · Answer

I think it's hot but I'm all about pleasing my lady. Some guys just can't give up control even in a role play situation. It's sad though.

bbilli · Answer

i love it.

Sunshinegirldee · Answer

Have been asked to try by guys a few times

Anonymous · Answer

I love submissive men.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m submissive mostly but when I ride slowly , I like to caress his hair or kiss his cheek

Anonymous · Answer

This is exactly what I am looking for, Gentle FemDom, FLR. She would run the show and I would be supporting her decisions. She control all aspects of the relationship including sex. I would even take her last name in marriage. This ladies are hard to find. You can find mainly FinDoms on sites like Slave Selection, only after the money.