Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
So guys are forevermore posting on here about pleasing women (sexually). Granted all women are not the same and some of these might work on some women while others will not. Making love is a trial and error thing, as time passes you'll each (man/woman) learn more about what your partner likes, loves and what drives them CR@ZY! That's why sex does get better with time. So in trying to put some of those questions to bed, here are some instructions. Let's jump right in...
Touch her sensually
It's not a race to see how many body parts you can touch the fastest. Groping is good when things get rougher but even then doing it sensually heightens her arousal. Imagine a massage here... the masseuse glides their hands slowly down your back but they seem to catch every sport at the same time. Do this from her shoulders, down her sides (rib area), then cup her breasts and give a gentle squeeze. Then move your way down-- not too slowly but not too fast either... until you reach between her legs. Of course you can do these sensual touches during sex too. In my opinion it's like telling the woman she's way more than just a hole; that two second pause where you do this before continuing to make love will be magical.
Find her sensitive spots
This is important. You guys would know! Find out which spots make her wild. You can do this by gauging her reaction while you kiss her body. She might wiggle or shiver when you kiss her in a certain spot (besides the obvious spot) which would be your cue. Common ones are the neck, shoulders, lower abdomen, top of the spine, and the toes (I guess you would only try this if she has 'good' feet). When you know these spots, use them to your advantage. Teasing her there (touches, kisses and sucking) will make her hot, make her wet and sometimes make her beg you for sex if done well enough.
Foreplay makes a world of difference
Women like feeling special just like men do. Men enjoy getting their erections massaged/sucked and guess what, the women enjoy some pre-sex attention too. Don't be selfish, the less selfish you are is the more likely she'll want to do things to please you too. Hand stimulation is really good foreplay, and if you're into it your tongue stimulation can be as well. I recommend using them both to pack a sexual punch she'll moan/cry for. Pretend the vagina is the prize... Gently squeeze her ass, plant many soft kisses on her inner thighs; working your way up from mid thighs. Just when you get close enough to taste it... don't. Start from mid thigh on the other leg. When you get to it again, maybe give a lick but not too much (still building arousal) and focus on the clit. At the same time, begin plunging your fingers into her, adding more fingers as you see fit. When you feel like it, lick the lower part of her 'hole' while your fingers are moving in and out. Or remove your fingers and just plant your tongue in there (entirely up to you).
Nuzzling is a good thing
Rubbing your nose on hers and kissing her anywhere genlty while you're inside her is a good thing. Playing with her breasts and nuzzling them before/in between sucking them is a good thing. Kisses on the forehead are also a good thing.
Be rough but gentle
Sometimes a woman wants to get a little rough. By all means go right ahead! But understand that not all women enjoy you fucking them so hard it hurts or feeling they're suffocating because you're holding their neck that tight for those few minutes. If a woman asks you to be rough go up a notch and keep going up one notch alone until you find how far she's willing to go. Generally, you can be rough but gentle. Try squeezing her butt, pulling her down onto your shaft as you thrust forward. The amount of force used will vary depending on what she's comfortable with. Also place your arms around her (if you are having sex from the back) as if you were doing the heimlich manouvre, but let each hand hold one of her shoulders or breasts instead. Again pull her down onto you as you thrust forward. Smacking her on the ass is another way to get rough, as well as putting her in a chokehold, or my personal favourite holding on to her hair... not yanking it too hard (that hurts) but a good tug while fucking her brains out never gets old.
Giving compliments goes a long way
During sex be open... tell her she feels good, tell her you love being inside her, tell her she's so fucking sexy, tell her you could live inside her. You want to make her feel good about herself. Chances are when you start treating her like this, she'll soon start reciprocating. And if a woman at anytime decides to get on top, if you want her to do that again you should let her know how awesome it feels by; talking dirty to her (for example "Yesss, sit on my dick baby" or "You look so good riding my cock"), egging her on (example "Oh fuck yes" or "Don't stop baby"), saying "that feels so fucking good" and you can hold her by the hips and help her as she comes down on you.
Being clean is a must
Now don't underestimate this one. A clean downstairs is not hurting anybody. If you expect your erection to be sucked/licked, more times than not the woman expects you to be clean and fresh down there. A bath can be a sexy thing, you can use it to initiate sex/foreplay by you washing her (sensually) and letting her wash you (you know what I mean). You can take it to the bed after round one of hot steamy love making in the bathroom is done.
Communication is key
Be sure to tell her what you like or don't like, but be tactful about it. Have these discussions outside of sex, like maybe right after when you're both lying there naked. Maybe start this conversation by first asking her what she likes or would like to try. After you listened, tell her your side.
Please note, this is all subject to your own interpretation of what you think she will like. I hate overly long GAG takes so I decided to stop here though it already seems quite long :/ I hope it helps!
Girls let me know what you think... Guys you can too if you like :)
What Girls & Guys Said
13 30"You're so pretty."
"You cook well."
"wow, have you been working out?"
These do not work.
LMAO I see you Mr. Sarcastic :P
Thank you stranger, you've just made me envy.
Uhhh... envy who? O_o
Anyone who's young and can have an active sex life.
How about I just fuck her and buy her a diamond later?
So you're both an asshole and a white knight. Bravo.
There is a great joy in giving pleasure, not just in receiving it. Like was said above: there are improved rewards in it for not being selfish. It takes longer to get where you're going, but that's the entire point: sex isn't just about making a deposit. You're not a moose.
@ObscuredBeyond Wow, I am much enlightened.
Hey, whatever floats your boat my friend. However, if the time should come when she leaves you for another guy who's willing to take his time, can't say I didn't warn ya!
Wow, I will be much sad, on a planet with 4 billion women.
Surely you jest... LOL power to you man, if you think that won't affect you in any type of way then keep on :) Good luck!
@takumii 'Wow, I will be much sad, on a planet with 4 billion women.' Yeah, 4 billion women that won't go out with you
Otherwise known as not being selfish i really don't get how some guys are literally in, thrust a bit, finish then leave...
Yeah this lol. Literally 99% of guys fall into this category, in my experience.
@chinchillas Thats not the way i roll, i'm all about the girl, in fact sometimes i don't even care about getting myself off i just wanna get the girl off
Your girl is very lucky :)
@chinchillas I don't have a girl
None of this should be news to anyone. Seriously.
Is this stuff not common sense to people?
Making a female orgasm before even touching the genitals is pretty much a starting point for me.
You would be surprised how many people do not know this.
I'm actually not surprised at all... 28% of women don't even know where their own clitoris is located. Sexual repression has caused a lot of really ignorant people. My wife was surprised when we got together and I showed her how to have all 3 types of female orgasm and taught her to squirt. It saddens me the lack luster sex that women settle for because they don't know there is better out there.
@logicbomber Every women can not squirt, you either can or you can not.
@plaisirdamour Actually that is not true. All women have the same mechanics (Skene's gland), but it's that some women haven't yet. I have shown many women with a 100% success rate how to squirt who were under the same belief. But until a female does it, it is easy to believe that they "can't". One female I showed had been trying for almost 10 years with and without partners and couldn't. It took me two tries.
@logicbomber I'm glad that one of your main goals in life is to make women squirt (sarcasm). Every women's body is different, just because we all have vaginas does not mean we all squirt and it is ignorant to assume so. You have not had sex with every woman in the world to make such notions
@plaisirdamour Are you attempting to shame me somehow? It isn't a "goal in life" it's simply not that hard to do. As much as "every woman's body is different", having the part which is required for squirting is there. The skene's gland is not the vagina, it's a gland inside the vagina. I have not seen every women in the world, nor have you. Your claim is based on something you have no way of proving otherwise, my claim is based on an observational ratio that of all the women I know who said they "can't"... they were wrong. I am confident that I am not wrong based on the premise that I have proven 100% that I am right until I find a female I can not make squirt.
@logicbomber the burden of proof is on you
@logicbomber I never said that the gland is the vagina.
@plaisirdamour You said "just because we all have vaginas does not mean we all squirt and it is ignorant to assume so"... therefore insinuating that it was simply the vagina which was required for squirting. The burden of proof is on me, I agree. I believe in the "study" I have done my proof is in the fact that 100% of the participants, which although a small percentage of the female population, shows that all women can squirt if given the right methods. If I had even 1 which did not squirt I still wouldn't be able to say that not all CAN... CAN is a claim which would require an absolute assurance, but you can not assure something simply because it hasn't happened YET. If you could show that some women were born without the skene's gland, then you could assert that claim. I do know women (Which I can't for some reason show) who say they can not squirt, but that stroking the G-spot makes them feel like they have to pee. Which is one of the biggest road blocks to squirting. ...
... If a female suppresses the urge because they think it's pee. It will not happen. But if shows that the skene's gland is indeed swelling. I understand that you are skeptical because without an absolute a lot of women will become frustrated if they feel they are unable to do something they should be able to do and therefore say... "I can't". but that is a defeatist statement and allows for people to simply give up and settle for mediocre.
@logicbomber I did not insinuate anything The mytake is about sex and women so obviously I was going to bring up the vagina. Or are you not aware that the vagina is used during sex?
@logicbomber when I brought up the vagina I was not talking about squirting obviously
@plaisirdamour You are diverting the conversation we were having. Our back and forth had nothing to do with the topic in the question. You mentioned squirting and that not all women could do it, I responded with why I believe you were wrong. The question by the original poster has nothing to do with that conversation.
@logicbomber happy Thanksgiving and enjoy fucking every woman you see. I'm ending this conversation
@plaisirdamour Your last ditch attempt at shaming my character and then running away shows a weak character. It's common with people who have no argument left to back up their initial claim. I appreciate the attempt, but I have to say I am disappointed that you didn't have enough strength of character to admit you were simply wrong and move on. You instead had to make personal jabs and hightail it. Have a pleasant evening.
@logicbomber you are the one with no logical argument I never took a personal jab at you
"I'm glad that one of your main goals in life is to make women squirt (sarcasm)." "are you not aware that the vagina is used during sex?" "happy Thanksgiving and enjoy fucking every woman you see." You may not consider these jabs but in the world of debate, these are ad hominem fallacy which are used to case a negative impression of the other person. The definition of logical argument though is: a course of reasoning aimed at demonstrating a truth or falsehood; the methodical process of logical reasoning. Therefore if every female has a skene's gland and the skene's gland is used for ejaculation... logical reasoning would tell you they all women can squirt. Then taking a test sample of females who were under the idea they couldn't and getting 100% of them to do so, would logically back up that idea. An illogical argument would be saying just because all women have a skene's gland and it is what is used for squirting, doesn't mean every women can, because you know some who haven't yet
@logicbomber your argument was that all women squirt not all women can squirt there is a big difference
@logicbomber your argument is that every woman has squirted before and I'm telling you you are wrong because you have not seen every woman squirt
@plaisirdamour "your argument is that every woman has squirted before" where did I ever claim all women have squirted before? All women have the potential to squirt some just haven't yet. It's a fairly simple concept. They all have the same mechanics. I think those are the exact words I used.
@logicbomber no you did not
@plaisirdamour Ummm... OK. You seem to be in a different conversation than me because if you scroll up and look... there is no point in which I ever say all women have squirted before. But many times I mentioned that all women "can" but simply haven't yet. I think we are done here. You are simply trolling now.
I have no idea where my G spot is. I’m actually being serious I don’t know!!! It’s crazy but that’s true
@hsshannah96 It's inside the vaginal wall against the back of the pelvic bone. It will feel like a ribbed spongy area.
5 mins and I am over, still pulling more in hour than any of you nerds can in all your life
Yeah I am saving this take till marriage 😂😂 great take 😛
Ty, glad I could help! :)
Down votes?
YAAY upvotes 😛 thanks
Yeah I didn't understand those downvotes either lol
Great advice totally make sense!
Thanks
well... some people don't really need tip... but girls 😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝
Great advice always good to add new things to my arsenal ;)
Lol ;) Thanks
Hello everyone
be born with a different penis! oops. thats not possible... .
Hmm that's funny i didn't read that austere l anywhere here
Somebody should make a similar take for how to please men.
I mean yeah its pretty easy to make them cum and all but how to make their eyes roll all the way back? Lol.
My boyfriend is actually not bad at this, except for the complimenting stuff and oral. I'm good with just one finger, but I don't know...
I wish we had one myTake for the guys as well, haha, that's where I need help with...
But what if a guy has a small penis?
Um, what does that have to do with anything? Small does not automatically mean anything bad :/ What exactly are you saying is the issue?
Would she even feel anything?
It's about the way you work it... Here's that cliche that goes, 'It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean' ;) But pleasing the woman like I've been talking about here starts without the dick my friend :)
Man, I wish I could send this to my boyfriend without being rude lol.
How about, "Babyy I read this sexy article online, I think it's great... Wanna see it?" It might work, you never know lol
Haha maybe. I may just end up paraphrasing it instead.
I agree with all of the points that you make. I am not an outstanding specimen of the male physique but I don't think any of my partners have felt unsatisfied because I have always been attentive to their needs and I have always understood that each woman is different.
There are two erogenous zones you did not mention. The first in on the low back, between the waist and the top of the "gluteal cleft" (butt crack). I have found that almost every woman gets aroused by light touches and caresses in this area.
The second is far less universal but is a real hot spot for a small percentage of women and that is the area within the gluteal cleft. If a woman has overcome her inhibitions about "back there," many of them really go over the edge when they are already aroused and then they are touched on or around their anus. For those who have not had that experience, it probably sounds "icky" or "gross," but I would remind them that, at one time, they thought the idea of kissing the opposite sex was disgusting.
Well the first one doesn't work for me so thanks for letting me know, the second one was one of those I left out because I didn't want to go on forever and well I knew there might not be a positive response to it lol so I chose the more favorable options. Actually, licking the anus and perineum is very stimulating for both men and women... besides just touching I mean. But it all goes down to cleanliness as I mentioned lol. Thank you for your contribution!
But don't eat the vagina though, shit's disgusting.
You're obviously into sucking dick
lol, to each his own. I'm guessing you hate your penis sucked too? That must be disgusting for you as well?
@EarthToKepler Nah, not my forte.
Also no. I like head.
So funny, willing to take but not to give...
Good take. They are all pretty obvious though and I do them all, except complimenting her. I don't talk during sex and it would turn me off if she did, especially if she talked dirty
Thanks, as I said not every person is the same and has the same likes, so I can't fault you here
Unlike others on here there's no "saving myself for marriage" here. I do love your tips though I don't necessarily believe it takes time to have great sex. In some cases it does.
Your first point is helpful. When I'm touching a girl sometimes I have that feeling of wanting to rub her as fast and hard as possible. I'm sure this is my male brain comparing foreplay to seeking an orgasm as the main goal. Fighting that can be problematic.
The part about the mid-thighs... I think I wanna try that. Not into vagina eating though.
Nuzzling is something I do a lot lol. It's something about it that I don't know I just like doing it. I don't know if girls are overly crazy about it or not, but yeah I'll put my face in her back or my face next to hers. Different things like that.
"pulling her down onto your shaft as you thrust forward". Yeah that's fun. Having a girl back it up and thrusting into her thrust is hot too.
I don't want to let out all my secrets, but how a guy holds a girl's hair is important when it comes to rough sex.
Here's the bad thing about the compliments. The compliments that I like most girls don't like.
Lol well, talk to her about the kind of things you'd like her to say... see what she says (you never know she might like it). And about the time to have great sex, I know strangers can have awesome sex... what I was referring to is the fact that as two people grow closer together, they get to know each other's sexual likes and loves better which leads to even awesomer (yes I made that word up) sex. Also, concerning fighting the urge to touch every inch of her in one minute... remind yourself the payoff will be bigger and better and more rewarding (you know what I mean) by making yourself wait ;)
Yeah I'll at least mention what I'd like to say and for her to say before sex. Just when we're talking about sexual stuff lol. At least allude to it. LOL awesomer. Yeah I'm not disagreeing. I think you're right. People have more time to learn each others' bodies. I'll try to haha.
Yeahhh the first time when you make yourself wait and end up cumming like there's no tomorrow lol... then you'll believe me ;) Lol