Guys, would it turn you off if your girlfriend told you that you were the 6th guy she has slept with in her life?

[Anonymous]

[Neilbud]

Not really, as long as she wasn't sleeping around. If you have no respect for yourself than you probably don't have respect for me or the relationship. But just because you have had six good relationships, that doesn't mean anything.

I guess the best way to put it... it's like if a guy has poor taste in wardrobe. Dirty jeans and a plain white t shirt. Doesn't mean he's a slob, could just mean he decided to dress casual that day. And if you truly like the guy his cloths won't matter. Same here, if he really likes you, your count won't matter. Might just be shocking.

Now if she have had six partners in the past and even the 'thought' of having sex with me turned her off, that's a bit of red flag.

My random thoughts

[InventorofWarp]

Not even remotely. I'd actually prefer someone who knows what they're doing and can teach me (I'm a virgin waiting for the right girl). The woman I'm interested in has been with at least a few guys before me (I'm pretty sure more than 5 but less than 20). Absolutely lovely person, gorgeous, kind, beautiful and I love that she's had life experiences and things before me.
Love the person not the number. Kinda pathetic for grown men to be that insecure.

[Anonymous]

This is not their business. If a man asks this questions, you can show the door to him cause he is a baby boomer 😂

[loves2learn]

That is irrelevant. I hope guys are not asking you that silly question.

[MTC29]

Not at all.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope not at all, not really concerned.

[RobT312]

Naw... the past isn’t too important. Most people have had past experiences

[Red_Arrow]

Not as much as if she said that she lost count years ago.

[ohshee]

No not at all is matter of fact I would turn it into some sort of kinky situations and I'd want to know all the details about each guy and what he did the best to make it good for her

[Asker]

Angel 💓

[ohshee]

Shhh dont say that. lol

[Bobsyoruncle]

6 is an interesting number.

It indicates that she’s sexually active and interested, but it’s not a ‘big’ number.

Especially if she’s in her mid 20’s or older.

[summiter]

Not at all. Our pasts are our pasts. 6 is not a lot in my opinion.

[NHI2017]

No, I wouldn’t get turned off,

if a girl has slept with 7 guys. Or 27 guys
doesent make a difference to me any.
If I like her

[AndyOh]

Nope, the 6th or 60th, I would not care.
I would care if you were clean and healthy.
And I would care if you treated me well and we got a long well, especially in bed.

[Asker]

Lol why did someone disagree with this. I think it’s a good answer

[AndyOh]

Probably because they think anymore than 2 is being a slut. They have a lot to learn in life especially as they get older and that body count goes up.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nope? I would be confused why she told me that randomly

[DonkeyDan]

Only 6, well done you, not a turn off for me at all. At least you know what you're doing.

[NathanDavis]

nope

[JCrockett]

0 is optimal, and every higher number is a bigger turnoff. Realistically, 0 is a lot to ask for. Some serial monogamy is pretty reasonable, so like 2-4 is acceptable. 6 is getting into "Hold on a second" territory. Double digits is almost certainly a pass from me. 15-20 or more is like actually disgusting.

[jshm2]

Yeah, only six? She's practically still a virgin!

Joking aside, there is "being in relationships" and there are just "one night stands". People can go through a lot of relationships in their lives, and it's not right to judge them on it.

But people just getting blasted and looking for sex, are a different breed of people. The two are not the same character.

[Heartache0405]

I'd want to know why she cares to even tell me something like that. What would she expect me to say? "Oh, cool? Good job?"

[Albino010]

Any conversation about previous partners is doomed do fail, it's better to not discuss this.

[bean2k21]

Nah, I would just eat a turkey sandwich. And I like cranberries on the sandwich too.

[bowenw]

Of course not. Everyone has a past that they cannot change.

[Asker]

You really think 6 is a lot...

[bowenw]

I do not think 6 is a lot.

[exitseven]

Maybe a little if we were dating for a while and she told me she only had one or two.

[Pj1981]

That's not a bad number. Guys don't really ever like to think about how many people a woman has slept with but 6 sounds ok

[Andres77]

Just 6th?
Is that it?

[Dan_cColt]

6 ain't that big but if it was in a short timeframe might have me thinking

[Recurrence]

I wouldn’t

[Iron_Man]

Yes that’s like eating six leftover meals

[Asker]

I don’t get this analogy?

[Iron_Man]

Read my friend read

[Asker]

Yep still doesn’t make sense

[Iron_Man]

have a nice day ma’am

[ashish804]

kinda... because it would be comparison how they bang and how i would

[Asker]

Lol what. So you want a girl with no previous partners

[ashish804]

but not that much lol.. u should dm me to discuss in details

[Asker]

No thanks

[Ineverquit]

no not at all. 6th that day well no still her business not mine. practice makes perfect

[Jamie05rhs]

It wouldn't happen. I wouldn't let her sleep with me.

[Asker]

You’re such a privilege I’m sure

[Jamie05rhs]

I am. :) And I think more people should see themselves that way. Especially women.

[TheFlak38]

lets just say I wouldn't take her seriously

[Tztop2006]

Now days that's not many so I'd be fine

[Morgador]

Nope wouldn't bother me at all

[cookiecrusher]

Would be a turn off for me.
But not that high yet to totally reject.

[Twalli]

Not really

[Cowboy6666]

It won't turn me off, but I don't have a girlfriend nowadays 😏

[bamesjond0069]

I think its less slutty than average girls out there but still woefully pathetic and unattractive for a serious relationship.

[Asker]

Are you the guy who dates only teens?

[InventorofWarp]

I know a guy like this. My oldest friend actually. He exclusively goes for virgin girls (almost always under 20) despite being my age. As a virgin myself waiting for the right girl I find it extremely disturbing and predatory and indicative of his clear insecurity clearly not being man enough to actually connect with a girl and find her interesting having had a life without him and lived and experienced things before him. Girl I'm interested in is a lovely woman with an excellent career who also worked as a sex worker in her youth.

[bamesjond0069]

@InventorofWarp i can "connect with a girl and find her interesting having had a life without him and lived and experienced things before him." Thats doesn't mean im going to marry her. I wouldn't marry a girl who isn't a virgin. Marriage is about finding someone who will make the best wife (obvious?) And mother. Virgins are more likely to be make better wives and mothers. "a lovely woman with an excellent career who also worked as a sex worker in her youth." None of what you said describes someone likely to make the best wife and mother possible. I don't know why you would be serious with her. "Connection" is almost irrelevant.

[Asker]

@InventorofWarp exactly. You nailed it

[InventorofWarp]

@bamesjond0069 First off, no not all virgin girls are automatically excellent mothers and wives just because they're virgins. If someone wanted me because their thought process was "he's a virgin so he'll make the best husband and father" I would fucking run the opposite direction, that's so fucking ridiculously backwards and off-putting it's not even funny. Do I want someone to find it one of my best traits and like me for it? Absolutely. Someone who defines me solely by that though is definitely fetishizing my virginity and that's not even remotely fucking attractive. I'm a person, I have layers, there's a lot to like. And as for your last part? Just because she's a former sex worker means nothing about her character. I was a drug addict for four years, so I guess that means I'm a piece of shit, right? She is better wife and mother material than any woman you'll ever meet in your lifetime and I don't even have to continue to defend that to you, it's just a fact like the existence of Oxygen in the air you breathe. I'm guessing based on that last comment you want a wife/mother with no career who has no idea how to suck dick and please a man. Good luck with that. Also, thanks Asker.

[bamesjond0069]

@InventorofWarp "Just because she's a former sex worker means nothing about her character." Lmao 🤣 you can't be this stupid.

[InventorofWarp]

@bamesjond0069 You're telling me you've never met a lady in your life who was a former sex worker and also incredibly kind and warm and really fun to be around? Dude I feel sorry for you, you're this fucking judgmental you're never gonna attract open-minded people.

[bamesjond0069]

@InventorofWarp not over a long period of time. My experience is people who do things like sex work, over 10+ years they always completely fail in one way or another. So no id never be with one under any circumstance ever.

[Hanrej]

That few huh?

[LegendaryIcon]

only if she has
1. STD's
2. Kids
3. Legal trouble
4. A current boyfriend (cheating)

Otherwise, FUCK her number

[tomtom05131]

Not at all

[andy530]

Nope

[najekim]

Nope.

[Bdsmaster]

I don't think it would luv, as long as I am the last

[Waldoe]

keep you History a mystery... never tell anyone the truth... except your priest, it's NOBODIES business

[abc--123]

6th in her life is fine. 6th that day would be a turn off

[Asker]

That’d be a wild day lol

[Tim-loves-it]

Nope. not at all

[rebeliouse]

nope but I would have hoped her head count was higher as more experienced :D

[rebeliouse]

whats your head count? dm me if u dont wanna say here

[rebeliouse]

any kinky experiences u really liked?

[Asker]

Head count is same as my body count lol. I really didn’t like sex until I met my number 6 and I’m in love with him

[rebeliouse]

cool what were the others like are you vanilla or kinky in bed? what does no 6 do thats so good in bed?

[Amur8711]

Nope

[Jmmmfi4]

I'd assume its probably double that number

[Zlantur2]

No, it's not a big number

[maxflame]

Not at all when I lost my virginity she has had 10 boyfriend but all guys used her for sex or money

[Skyros]

Yes it would

[archamander]

That is perfect for me because we'd be right at the same level, I think a lot of girls have it a lot higher though.

[Anonymous]

Why would that bother me? If it happened tomorrow, she'd be the 60th woman I've slept with, or had some kind of sex with. LOL

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

It would depend on her reason

[Anonymous]

No and same for me

[Anonymous]

As long as she doesn't compare me to any of them.

[Asker]

What if she says you’re the absolute best

[Opinion Owner]

In that case get turned on and have more sex.

[Anonymous]

No. That wouldn't bother me at all.