Guys, would it turn you off if your girlfriend told you that you were the 6th guy she has slept with in her life?

[Anonymous]

[Neilbud]

Not really, as long as she wasn't sleeping around. If you have no respect for yourself than you probably don't have respect for me or the relationship. But just because you have had six good relationships, that doesn't mean anything.

I guess the best way to put it... it's like if a guy has poor taste in wardrobe. Dirty jeans and a plain white t shirt. Doesn't mean he's a slob, could just mean he decided to dress casual that day. And if you truly like the guy his cloths won't matter. Same here, if he really likes you, your count won't matter. Might just be shocking.

Now if she have had six partners in the past and even the 'thought' of having sex with me turned her off, that's a bit of red flag.

My random thoughts

[InventorofWarp]

Not even remotely. I'd actually prefer someone who knows what they're doing and can teach me (I'm a virgin waiting for the right girl). The woman I'm interested in has been with at least a few guys before me (I'm pretty sure more than 5 but less than 20). Absolutely lovely person, gorgeous, kind, beautiful and I love that she's had life experiences and things before me.
Love the person not the number. Kinda pathetic for grown men to be that insecure.

[Anonymous]

This is not their business. If a man asks this questions, you can show the door to him cause he is a baby boomer 😂

[loves2learn]

That is irrelevant. I hope guys are not asking you that silly question.

[MTC29]

Not at all.

[RobT312]

Naw... the past isn’t too important. Most people have had past experiences

[ChrisMaster69]

Nope not at all, not really concerned.

[Red_Arrow]

Not as much as if she said that she lost count years ago.

[ohshee]

No not at all is matter of fact I would turn it into some sort of kinky situations and I'd want to know all the details about each guy and what he did the best to make it good for her

[Asker]

Angel 💓

[ohshee]

Shhh dont say that. lol

[Bobsyoruncle]

6 is an interesting number.

It indicates that she’s sexually active and interested, but it’s not a ‘big’ number.

Especially if she’s in her mid 20’s or older.

[summiter]

Not at all. Our pasts are our pasts. 6 is not a lot in my opinion.

[NathanDavis]

nope

[AndyOh]

Nope, the 6th or 60th, I would not care.
I would care if you were clean and healthy.
And I would care if you treated me well and we got a long well, especially in bed.

[Asker]

Lol why did someone disagree with this. I think it’s a good answer

[AndyOh]

Probably because they think anymore than 2 is being a slut. They have a lot to learn in life especially as they get older and that body count goes up.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nope? I would be confused why she told me that randomly

[DonkeyDan]

Only 6, well done you, not a turn off for me at all. At least you know what you're doing.

[NHI2017]

No, I wouldn’t get turned off,

if a girl has slept with 7 guys. Or 27 guys
doesent make a difference to me any.
If I like her

[JCrockett]

0 is optimal, and every higher number is a bigger turnoff. Realistically, 0 is a lot to ask for. Some serial monogamy is pretty reasonable, so like 2-4 is acceptable. 6 is getting into "Hold on a second" territory. Double digits is almost certainly a pass from me. 15-20 or more is like actually disgusting.

[jshm2]

Yeah, only six? She's practically still a virgin!

Joking aside, there is "being in relationships" and there are just "one night stands". People can go through a lot of relationships in their lives, and it's not right to judge them on it.

But people just getting blasted and looking for sex, are a different breed of people. The two are not the same character.

[Heartache0405]

I'd want to know why she cares to even tell me something like that. What would she expect me to say? "Oh, cool? Good job?"

[Albino010]

Any conversation about previous partners is doomed do fail, it's better to not discuss this.

[bowenw]

Of course not. Everyone has a past that they cannot change.

[Asker]

You really think 6 is a lot...

[bowenw]

I do not think 6 is a lot.

[bean2k21]

Nah, I would just eat a turkey sandwich. And I like cranberries on the sandwich too.

[exitseven]

Maybe a little if we were dating for a while and she told me she only had one or two.

[Pj1981]

That's not a bad number. Guys don't really ever like to think about how many people a woman has slept with but 6 sounds ok