I like it when she cups my balls and strokes me as I cum. She usually stops with her mouth at this point and just sucks on the tip. She'll do this until I stop cumming and then she will stop. I can usually handle that all the way through and it feels awesome.
I much prefer for her to keep actively sucking at that point and all the way through my orgasm. For me, that moment when I'm getting close is a terrible time for her to be passive.
See, this is what I thought. But I came across this rare bird who seemed to want me to do nothing once he said he was about to come. Like, just wait. I always thought that was weird. We aren't together anymore, but it's messing with my A game and I'm doubting myself. So what level of sucking is best? Just adequate, or trying to drink a frozen Wendy's frosty through a straw sort sucking?
Okay. I respect very much that you're asking about this seriously. I prefer serious frozen Wendy's frosty sucking at that point in the blowjob. For me, if at that moment (getting close to orgasm) the stimulation stopped, I would still cum but it would be weak and quite meh. This other guy you referred to sounds totally different when it comes to that. And further I prefer the sucking to continue even after I've ejaculated (of course allowing time for swallowing) until my penis starts to get soft. So that's me.
Thanks for the input. This guy would push me away the moment he came and I couldn't so much as breathe on it afterwards. He was a very controlling person, so maybe this was his bizarre way of putting me in my place, so to speak.
it's way better for the guys if you continue to suck and all
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Thoughtful question. +1
I want her to aggressively suck/bob and stroke right to the instant ejaculation begins.
Then I want her to stop bobbing and all mouth motion and slow down stroking while I ejaculate. She can continue to straight suck until shrink away. An occasional "num-num" while I shrink away, like a baby on a pacifier will make me jump, but I like it.
I like her to be actively sucking right up until I cum. A couple seconds into orgasm, I start feeling really sensitive and can't take any more, though.
The guy taking over to beat it is only done in porn because they take viagara
I thought the idea is for HER to do my thing?
Lol.
actively sucking off is way hotter. i'll notify her, when i can't take anymore xD
Yeah I love it when she keeps sucking while I'm coming and then when I pull out she lets the cum drip from her mouth while she's licking my penis
I love it when she's actively sucking it out even during the ejaculation. It's so hot.
Actively sucking is the best, but either is fine.
Keep me in your mouth and let me cum. Swallow it down then some light licking and kissing till I can’t take it anymore.
Being passive is never a turn on. Be active, show that you're more than just a lifeless doll.
And by the way, being active can also be a gentle and sensual thing, it doesn't have to be this ridiculous, agressive fake-ass porn behavior.
Let him finish in your throat then suck him dry then lick him from the base of his cock to the tip them rim his tip with your tongue
I never had it happen b4 but I want to try both
Actively sucking!
It is so awesome when i tell her im about to cum and she goes even harder and really wants me to cum in her mouth. That was years ago unfortunately
Actively sucking.
It’s going to happen either way.
Lots of times the extra activity is uncomfortable because of extra sensitivity after I cum.
for some people thats like a kink lol , over stimming
Actively sucking... trying to "Pull" my just essence out
Keep sucking
It is more intense when she strokes the shaft and sucks the tip as I cum.
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