I've had 1 f-buddy and 2 friends with benefits . friends with benefits doesn't work and gets ugly. The f buddy was actually a positive situation, but it's not often that way from what I hear. Mine was sort of a fringe of my social circle (not close friend) and we were totally incompatible and both broken hearted. It went on sporadically for about a year. We were kind to each other, but not deep. So it was a bandaid, you might say.
0 0 0 0Yes i have. It isn't for everyone. You have to be really honest with yourself and there other person to keep emotions separate from sex while trying to stay casual Or else someone is going to get hurt.
0 0 0 0No, I have not. I contemplated it, but I decided that I wasn't up for that kind of relationship.
0 0 0 0No and don't want to. I'll only have sex with someone I'm dating or married to.
0 2 0 1that's how i think too. And how i think all my friends think. I have always been a popular girl, had a lot of guys running after me, have a lot of sexual desires myself, and I know a lot of people. Yet I don't know anyone who has had a fuck buddy. How come the answers I see are so surprising to me?
All my friends have had fuck buddies. Several of them. Just becauae you haven't had one or met anyone who has had a fuckbuddy, it doesn't mean most people haven't. People often befriend people with similar morals and attitude. And it also depends on the area you live.
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They didn't call it that when I was doing it though. Ended up hating each other. Done my head in that she was so ice cold. Turned out she'd been abused as a kid and hated men. She was fond of a length though. It's not natural to be as switched off emotionally as she was and it bothered me to the point I hated her. Fuck it though I only found out long after so no guilt on my part
0 0 0 0Really surprised at the results. I've never had one, and I've never known about somebody in real life having such a relationship.
0 0 0 0same for me
I'm not judging, because at times in life I've seen the appeal, but I just don't see the appeal now that I'm an adult. If I'm going to have emotionless sex, I may as well just masturbate.
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2 12I never have and never plan to, I want something deeper than just meeting up to fuck.
0 0 0 0Nope. Imma classic virgin
0 1 0 0No I don't believe in FWBs
0 0 0 0I had one but no more. and i miss her
0 0 0 0Yes, several.
0 0 0 0Wow a very close pill.
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Yup, and I can tell you that 99.9% of the time only one person is interesting in being a "buddy" someone almost always has more feelings or ends up hurt.
1 1 0 0I have had plenty and have 2 now.
Message me. Lets see, maybe we can be fuck buddies too!0 0 0 0No but I have sexted with friends
0 0 0 0No but that sounds pretty good to me... no consequence sex sure why not.
0 0 0 1no not really
0 0 0 0No knowing me I'd probably wind up falling for her
0 0 0 0Yes and it didn't end well either time.
0 0 0 0Yeah, I've had 2, one was successful and didn't catch feelings.. the 2nd one.. not so much :/
0 0 0 0could you tell me how you met them? Were they friends? And why did you get fuckbuddies? Did you need to have just sex, or did it just happen without any thoughts? Just interested.
Guy 1: From the moment we met we had a physical attraction and we didn't want a relationship, so we ended up being fuck buddies right away, after 2 months he started catching feelings for this girl and we stopped being fuck buddies, we just lost contact and it was fine, because none caught feelings. Guy 2: We were friends for a few months, until he proposed it and it took me a while, and I thought about it, and after a while I agreed. We had an agreement "we can only fuck each other, see no one else, and come by when the other requests". This guy, I think it was because I was friends with him before it all, I caught feelings for him. We were fuck buddies for 5 months, until I told him I caught feelings, we ended up dating for a month then broke it off...
thanks. How often did you guys do it? was it just a couple times? or really several times a week or so?
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