Have you ever participated in a gang bang?

I cant really post a picture of a gang bang, can I?
I can't really post a picture of a gang bang, can I?

Earlier today, a female user wanted to know what guys think about a girl who has done a gang bang in the past. I suspect she is talking about her own past and found somebody who walked away from her when they learned about it. I think she was trying to normalize the experience by making statements such as 'it's a lot more common than people think.'

Well, I don't think it is very common but I don't want to make an assumption, so tell me. . .

First, I'm going to limit the question to those who are strictly heterosexual. There's no reason to think that the rate of gang bang participation by lesbians or homosexuals would be the same as heterosexuals. If you want to ask a question about lesbian gang bangs, post it!

So, if I define a gang bang as a sexual interaction between a female and at least three males, in which the males take turns having various forms of sex with the female (I am excluding threesomes from this question,) have you ever participated in a gang bang? If so, please comment about whether it was once or multiple times, and whether you regret having done it.

I've never participated in a gang bang and I don't want to try it
Vote A
I've never participated in a gang bang but I want to try it
Vote B
I've participated in one gang bang but I don't want to do it again
Vote C
I've participated in one gang bang and I would like to do it again
Vote D
I've participated in multiple gang bangs in the past but I don't want to do it again
Vote E
I've participated in multiple gang bangs in the past and I want to do more gang bangs
Vote F
Gang bang sex is absolutely the best sex I've ever had
Vote G
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  • That is nasty and kinda gay. If there is group sex I have to be the only one with a penis, and even then I don't find it very appealing.

  • Many times

    • for money I bet

    • @888theGreat nope, for fun

  • Never did never will

  • I accidentally saw some gangbang porn once. The woman seemed to be the only one having fun.

    • The guys were like looking at their watch going "Is it my turn yet?" lol

  • I haven't nor do I want to. Not the sort of thing I'd want to spend my free time doing.

  • In my younger days I have on occasion participated in gang bangs as you described and also one time with me and three females... Maybe I was the one being gang banged in that one... But I enjoyed it. Also orgies on multiple occasions with three or four guys and girls...

  • I did back when I was in college, I'm sure every one experience crazy things at that period of their lives.

  • If I get a chance for sure I will try

  • No. The potential legal problems and the risk of psychological damage to the woman are way too much for me.

  • Never have and never will.

    Gangbang over my dead body.

  • yes I've been part of several. usually when attending lifestyle resorts.

  • I mean, depending on who’s there… I could be convinced :/

    • 🤢 ew

    • @needsfriendstbh Do you often give in to peer pressure?

    • Not particularly. I kinda do whatever I want whenever I want, Peter pressure be damned

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  • The closest I ever came to gang bang was an orgy when I was barely 20 years old and that was fun.

    Would I do it again

    Yeah, maybe if everyone was close to my age and no one had a pacemaker

    Don't need someone dying

  • I haven't done it but I fantasize about doing it and I would do it if no one I knew found out I did it.

  • If you're not into all of this stuff are against it, then why do you question lots of sexual stuff. Are you thinking about/considering it?

    • Not considering it at all. I am engaged, faithful, and very monogamous. I ask questions to promote discussion, to illustrate that some statements on this site are based on fallacies, and to determine whether the younger generations are doing things differently.

    • There is a gangbang lite variant where a woman has sex with multiple men individually and separately. I have unknowingly - until I went in - participated in that. Do you count that as girls gang banging guys? Or is it only a gang bang if there is a queue of three or more guys in a room? An older guy told me when he was in the army the local girls by the base would compete with each other as to how many guys they got to have sex with at an ordinary club. I am quite sure he was telling me the truth. I sort of suspect girls would like having multiple men this way. Less vulnerable then in a room full. Certainly the girls who gave me sloppy seconds/thirds/fourths - whatever it was - seemed to have a cat that got the cream attitude. A female friend had four guys in one day - not a huge number but above average and sort of in gang bang territory. Any woman who has cheated has probably had both her lover and her husband/boyfriend on the same day at some point. Agree this not gang banging exactly but is letting men's sperm compete which is the essence I'd suggest. Quite simply there is no reason to think it is inherently abhorrent to women to have two or more men's semen inside them at the same time. Let the best sperm win is a female reproduction strategy! The fittest sperm gets the egg. Evolutionary ethics would say that when she gets pregnant, her son will take after dear old dad and therefore her genes get more widely propagated down the generations. And a daughter might take after her and double down on the matriarchal strategy.

  • There's a club in my state that offers them. I contacted them to see what the requirements were, and the girl just said there were none. You just had to book in advance. You have to book about 2 months in advance, because it's that popular. I know two women that have gone, but I never did.

    I never had a partner at the time, so that was one reason.

    You would be in a room with about 80 people, and that's way outside my comfort zone.

    And I was afraid all the other women would be much hotter than me.

    But I did contact them and asked questions, so I can just tell you that the fantasy is more popular than most women will admit.

    • What’s the club?

    • @Lizsea Seattle. They invite 8 women and 60 guys (plus the husbands/boyfriends) The guys line up and the women take turns picking their team. Each team wears a certain colored bracelet. No spectators are allowed, but I think that's just for the rules about room capacity. But the rest of the club is still going on in other rooms. The only reason I posted this, is because the author thinks it's rare, and mathematically, he's right. But the fantasy is far from rare. I read a story on Reddit where a couple came down from Canada for this. I met a girl and she tried to arrange her own gangbang, and she couldn't. It's just not as easy as people think. I think that's why clubs that offer it are so popular. You just call or email, and your work is done. I'm sure Canada has lots of sex clubs, but maybe they don't offer this type of theme night. The club I'm talking about only offers it once per month. "Girls Gone Wild" night.

    • I am not a guy who speaks about kinks and fantasies with all his female friends. But I talk about it with around 9 of them, because we met in the context of a forum dedicated to sex-related themes. 6 of them told me that the idea of gangbangs and/or blowbangs and/or creampie gangbangs turns them on intensely. Only two of them have actually being active at some point as swingers or participated in an orgy. In the forum there are lot's of self-proclaimed females that say the same thing, but I can't confirm. I am only counting those I spoke with for a at least three months, and reached a point where we actually shared some personal information, voice notes, selfies, etc.. or I personally had a videocall with them. 6 out of 9 is a very high percentage. I know the population is not representative, as these are kink/sex related forums. Howevers, in the more scientific surveys (with sample design, and a more serious methodology for surveying) it is clear that the quantity of women that report having fantasies about these things is way larger than most people expected. Do some research about surveys about sexual fantasies and you will find this.

  • I voted B because I do find the fantasy erotic and I sometimes watch porn related to gangbangs. I am happily in a monogamous relationship, though, and don’t desire it to the degree that I actually want it to happen.

    • That sounds relatable to guess most here However, curious to know if the fantasy (even as just a fantasy) is a huge turn on and often imagined of

  • Does a mcgangbang count?

    • Does that mean you ate three Big Macs at one sitting? Or you did a gang bang with three McDonald's employees?

    • No, but the 3 mickey D's employees one sounds interesting. Especially if you're dressed as Ronald Mcdonald. No you never heard of a mcgangbang? It's on mickeyD's secret menu. You just combine a mcdouble with McCracken sandwich essentially.

    • Mcchicken*