You made a mistake. A bad one, but a mistake nonetheless. From your texts, it appears he wanted to have a foursome. That could be construed in many different ways. You don't necessarily switch partners in a foursome. So, you may have misunderstood him. Also, you started without him, which exasperated the situation.
But, here is the thing. I don't see a major breach of trust here. You didn't try to hide it, which signals that in your mind, he would be ok with it and just join in. You had good reason to believe it would be ok and this is merely a big miscommunication.
If he is mature enough to understand the subtitles and nuances of the situation and accept his own responsibility in the problem, he'll open the doors and let you back in. If he is not opening the doors, he is too immature anyway and you should not want him on your life.
My suggestion, don't show up to his door to talk to him. Write him a note explaining the situation. Tell him it was a misunderstanding and take responsibility for your part in it. And then let him decide.
Either way, you are only 25. Young enough to get through this unscathed one way or another.
Best of luck.
Lol, you remind me of my ex. He was kidding around, and thought you were too! That is why he reacted like he did! You are right you royally fucked up, and just FYI, if you do show up at his house he will think you are a crazy stalker bitch, and seriously think about calling the cops so dont! Just accept this, and move on, and next time, consider being a real one dick girl, relationship guys love that, even when they say they are open to x-somes.
I haven't screwed up that bad, but I did end it with a great girl who wanted to study abroad because I didn't think I could handle the LDR. In retrospect I believe I missed out on someone who could've been the one :(
This is what I... hypothesize. You and this dude were considering a relationship. He suggested a foursome, with 2 of his friends. The foursome started without him being present from the beginning. He ended up feeling like a cuck. Now he doesn't see you the same way. So. My question to you is... why didn't you wait for him? Especially if it was his idea and meant to be a foursome? It seems like everyone who's participating should be there from the start... i imagine he felt left out and hurt... hence taking a relationship off the table.
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Not that bad.
I'm curious as to the context.
I really don't like this guy. How was the foursome though?
It was a threesome at most and only for like 5 minutes because the guy who's dick i was sucking walked away and went to bed. So it ended up just being me and one of his friends. ... and then when he got back I went to his room and he and I fucked. And now he's blocked me and not talking to me 🤗
yeah but you got three replacements for him lol
hopefully they whine less
I've actually had someone royally fuck up and act like it was my fault. This girl I briefly dated last year invited me to her place on the 3rd date and told me to go to her bedroom and when I got up to take my shirt off, I noticed there was an empty condom wrapper clearly from someone else IN the bed.
She blocked me from social media and everything acting like it was my fault. Then once I saw her at a concert, while I was with another girl, she bitched about me to her friends saying I was following her despite all that.
I guarantee you if the roles were reversed, and I did this, I'd be crucified. Guess I must be a scumbag for noticing that. /s
In your case, sounds like there was some miscommunication and no clear definition for the rules on the foursome.
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