The digital age allows you to do things from a remote location without direct personal contact. If you want to ask a girl for a date (what you call "chillin'" or "hangin' out,") you don't need to call her and ask; you can just send her a text. If she says no, then you don't feel as embarrassed by the rejection. If you want to break up, there's no need to have a conversation. Just send a text and tell him that you are going to look for a "real man" to date.
If you are in the early stages and want to initiate some physical intimacy, there's no need to actually see each other and start fondling or groping; just send nude pictures! But there is a risk that, if the relationship ends poorly, your ex may share or post those pictures with people who you would never want to see you nude. Maybe you think you're safe because the picture doesn't show your face, but your ex will tell his friends, "Yeah, this is a picture of Kayla," and they will all believe him. When your little brother sees the picture, he'll recognize that the background of the picture is your bedroom or the bathroom that you share.
Yes, it happens. I have a client in a divorce case whose husband, after the separation, started advertising for a couple for swapping. He offered to send pictures of his "current partner" in exchange for nude pictures of the other couple. He was simply trying to collect nude pictures of other girls with the pretext of looking for a couple for swapping. Of course, when my client gave him the nude pictures, she never thought that this would happen to her.
Do you share nude pictures with dating partners? How soon in the relationship? Have you ever had those pictures shared with anyone else or posted online?
Have you ever sent nude pictures and had them distributed to others against your wishes?
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21 27yeah, fuck that. i dont trust people especially over the internet like that where i can't retaliate. its crazy because i recently learned its a common thing on gag
I'm not an idiot, so that's a big, fat NEIN.
And then u post that pic on the poll of that girl... Amazing paradox
With explicit details blocked. It was already on the internet.
It's a violation to that girl's privacy anyways
What privacy? It's already available for anyone who googles "nude selfie."
Don't send nudes ladies it's a bad idea
I use to do that. If you don't show your face or anything that could make you easy to identify, don't worry.
Yeah I've done it.
Why would I even do such a thing?
That's what I'm sayin'!
@OlderAndWiser you can avoid such problems by not even taking such pictures, or allowing them to be taken, in the first place!
You are preaching to the choir! I have never taken or allowed such a picture to be taken. Problem solved!
I had still clothes on and they were never shared
Then it is no nude
As far as I know, he has never shared them.
My girlfriend has take nude pictures of me, so if we break up that's a possibility, but she doesn't seem like that type of person.
That, of course, is what everyone thinks before it happens.
True, but I have nudes I have taken of her and videos of us having sex, so if she posts her's of me she will have to know mine of her could be uploaded at any time.
Good luck!
Yeah. Only to my recent ex when he was working abroad.
My phone has been hacked and pics stolen and blasted.
Yes I only send to guys I trust
That's what everyone says and when the pictures get posted online, they then say, "I thought I could trust him (or her) better than that!"
Can I have some
I have before but not now or ever again
I've send nudes and I assume the ladies share with their friends.
Yeah there are nude pictures of me that I sent to my husband. As far as I know, they've never been seen by anyone else. They better not have been.
I sent some nudes to a girl and found out that she sent them to my older sister
No because I'm aware of what would happen if they get leaked online.
I have sent nudes of my self, but I have never sent a nude I received.
Not that I know of