Here's What Everyone Should Know About Bisexuals

Here's What Everyone Should Know About Bisexuals
Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is sometimes alternatively termed pansexuality.

No, not all of us date guys and girls at the same time.

Here's What Everyone Should Know About Bisexuals

People usually ask me if I double date people of both genders. For me, even though I’m attracted to both genders, I am fully committed in a relationship. I hate cheating and even if those feelings come up then I break up with the person immediately.

Friendship always comes first.

When I told two of my girl best friends about it, they were scared that I had feelings or were in love with them secretly. When it comes to these things, I value my friendship and wouldn’t want to break it with that person. I have a type with girls.

No, we are not bisexual because we are confused people.

Before you call me out on this, just consider this.

Some people just automatically assume that because we are confused about some circumstances in our life, we become bisexuals. This belief is so stupid that I can’t even begin to explain how wrong it is. I am bisexual because it is my choice, not because I’m depressed or because I am in an it’s complicated situation. It’s how I have always felt. People think they know better than you and try to explain why you are bisexual.

No we are not in it for threesomes.

Here's What Everyone Should Know About Bisexuals

As I have said in the first point, people always feel that bisexuals are slutty and promiscuous since they have sex with both men and women. While there is physical and sexual attraction between both genders, we also require that emotional connection.

It is not a trend.

For all people who lie about being bisexual just to grab attention and support, you are truly disgusting. Some people do it to turn their partners on. Being bisexual has its difficulties and a person lying about it makes it worse.

We don’t need your advice or opinions all the time.

I found out that whenever I open up to someone about being bisexual, they always begin to tell me how it is unhealthy to have more than one gender preference and they start with religion and about it isn’t like God. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in religion and God but when you bring this up, it’s really insensitive and offends us.

For all those out there who are bisexuals out there, remember its ok to feel like that. Nobody should make you feel bad about it. Thank you to all the people who support us.

Here's What Everyone Should Know About Bisexuals
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  • Ridiculous. You're a child for heavens sakes.

  • I knew some people in high school that claimed to be “bisexual” as part of a trend.

    I personally don’t care either way, but doing it for attention or as a trend is dumb. Of course those people don’t represent all bisexuals.

    Now I will say is why do some people identify as pansexual? I seriously don’t see a difference between pansexual and bisexual.

    • Pansexual is only going the person's personality and not caring about their looks or from which gender they come from. But bisexuality is different since bisexual people often a type they go for and it can be based entirely on looks.

    • Gotcha. Maybe pansexual has a different meaning. I met a guy in college who said he was pansexual and he said if it’s pretty, guy or girl, he’ll fuck it and I just thought isn’t that just bisexual? Not to even judge or think less of the person.

    • It just gets a little confusing when I go on okcupid and see people list themselves as “heterfexible, sapiosexual, “gender queer”, CIS, etc and if you don’t get their orientation right, you’re intolerant which is a little silly and again that’s not to belittle them to being attracted to one gender or another, or both.

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  • I love thissss

  • How is bisexuality not a trend right now? You yourself just admitted that people pretend for the attention.

  • This was interesting. thanks for sharing

    • My pleasure

  • I am bisexual (not in the relationship sense but the sexual behavior) - this was very well written. Thanks for posting it.

  • I stay away from lesbians and bi girls

  • Is sexuality a choice?
    I agree with most of this take except that part.

  • "Friendship always comes first."

    False. That's your personal preference and by no means applies to other bisexuals.

    "No we are not in it for threesomes."

    False, see above. What you do does not represent what other bis do.

    Bisexual literally means exactly what it says. The sexual attraction to both genders. It doesn't mean anything about how a person dates or how they have sex. All of that is individual.

  • Nice take!, No disrespect, but the only qualm I have is that you used the Term "Its my choice" I don't believe anyone's sexuality is "By Choice" I think we are hard wired. Your "choice" you refereed to, I believe is really your ability to recognize your desires\sexuality in a healthy manner.. I don't believe you can choose to be BI anymore than you can choose to be gay or lesbian or hetero.

  • thanks for sharing
    loved this one❤️

  • Nice take

  • Most women are bisexual

    • so are most 19 year old boys in the UK anon, you can't deny it.

    • @Josht13 Honestly the UK genuinely is the land of gays

    • traps aren't gay, well liking them isn't but unfortunately for you being one is.

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  • I mean you are 15, your brain doesn't stop developing until you are 21. Plenty of people who were straight when they were 15 and turned bisexual when they older, or people who had a bisexual phase in their youth until they grew out of it later in life.

  • I always wondered about those who actually had to tell me they were bisexual so I would know.

  • Most women are bisexual

    • Prove it

    • @MysteriousDarkness Researchers found that the majority of straight women (72%) were aroused by both men and women. Even though the majority of women identify as straight, they are, in their physiological sexual responses (i. e., genital arousal or pupil dilation to images of attractive men and women) either bisexual or gay, but rarely straight "If you’re a man, whatever you tell me you’re attracted to I bet in the laboratory your penis will verify that,” said Gerulf Rieger, citing previous research into straight men and arousal. “If a woman has the same conversation with me and tells me she is straight, even if she believes that, in the laboratory her body will contradict her.”

    • That and the fact that lesbian porn is by far the most popular genre of porn to women (pornhub statistics).

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  • Most women are bisexual

    • Prove it

    • I don't need to, they'll prove it for you

    • yep they are.

  • Almost all women are bisexual

    • Don't understand the pink downvotes because it is the truth.

  • Good take thanks.

    • Thank you so much

  • I'm ok with that feeling

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