How can I stop being sexually submissive?

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Okay so like many girls out there, I do get turned on from being submissive in the bedroom however, I don't want to be like this because it makes me feel weak and ashamed and I just can't remove this mindset. Is there anyway, I can "train" myself, in a sense, to not be sexually submissive?
Also, before anyone might be offended, I'm not trying to imply that being submissive in the bedroom for either men or women is a bad thing or is weak but it's just a problem for me personally. How do I change this? Any advice?

Anonymous · Answer

Next time u have sex dress in black spandex or leather with a whip and a mask and ur man will submit

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah is possible. Watch the right kinda porn for long enough

Anonymous · Answer

Im sure your a feminist and all but you shouldn't be ashamed of who you are. Even feminists prefer to be submissive to their husband's will.

Anonymous · Answer

kinda hard to give tips on this because you have to simply act different, which you already know

basically tell him what you want him to do. if that doesn't work for you, you can try giving kind of a play-by-play of what he's already doing, so it kinda creates the illusion that you're directing the action. this can give you more confidence to actually tell him what you want.

a lot of people like to use dirtier, more colorful language to make them seem more in charge

Anonymous · Answer

you must start riding  LOL

Anonymous · Answer

Start doing the things sexually that make you happy/turned on. This way your partner will know that you can take the lead and on a personal level you know that it isn't them totally in control.

Also if you have concerns about your sexual acts, talking to them is a good way to resolve issues like this and also make you closer.

How can I stop being sexually submissive?

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